Ua ʻike mākou a pau i ka kumakaia, kūpono ʻole a me ka mālama pono ʻole i ka nui a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi. ʻOiai he hanana ola maʻamau kēia e hiki mai ana i nā mea a pau, pono kekahi o mākou e hoʻokuʻu i ke kūlana. I kēia lā e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ke kumu he mea nui e aʻo i ke kala ʻana. ʻO ka hiki ke kala aku i kahi mea hiki ke hoʻololi i kou ola. ʻAʻole manaʻo ka kala ʻana e holoi ʻoe i kou hoʻomanaʻo a poina i ka mea i hana ʻia. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻo e hoʻololi ka mea nāna i hōʻeha iā ʻoe i kāna ʻano a makemake paha e kala mai - ʻaʻole kēia i kou mana. ʻO ke kala ʻana, ʻo ia ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ka ʻeha a me ka huhū a me ka neʻe ʻana i mua. Aia kekahi wahi psychological hoihoi ma aneʻi. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka haʻalele ʻana i kekahi me ka hoʻopaʻi ʻole ʻia (ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ke kala ʻia!) Ke hoʻāʻo nei mākou e "pae i ka helu", makemake mākou e ʻike lākou i ka ʻeha a lākou i hana ai iā mākou. I kēia hihia, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe o ke kala ʻana ma mua o ke kumakaia ʻana iā ia iho. Pono ʻoe e haʻalele i kēia hakakā no ka pono. E wela ana ka huhū i loko ou, a laha aʻela nā mea ʻawaʻawa a puni ke kino. Akā, eia ka mea: huhū, huhū, huhū ka manaʻo. Ua alakaʻi ʻia lākou e ka makemake i ka pono. Ma lalo o ka uhi o kēia mau manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole, he mea paʻakikī iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo i ka wā i hala i hala, a me ka mea i hana ʻia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ke kala ʻana ka haʻalele ʻana i ka manaʻolana e hiki ke loli ka hala. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana aia ka mea i hala ma hope o mākou, hoʻomaopopo a ʻae mākou ʻaʻole e hoʻi hou ke kūlana a lilo i ke ʻano a mākou i makemake ai. I mea e kala aku ai i ke kanaka, ʻaʻole pono mākou e hoʻoikaika e haʻalele. ʻAʻole pono mākou e launa pū. Pono mākou e hoʻomaopopo ua waiho ke kanaka i kāna hōʻailona ma ko mākou hopena. A i kēia manawa ke hoʻoholo nei mākou e "hoʻōla i nā ʻeha", ʻaʻohe mea i haʻalele ʻia. ʻO ke kala ʻana a me ka haʻalele ʻana, neʻe wiwo ʻole mākou i mua i ka wā e hiki mai ana, ʻaʻole e ʻae i ka wā i hala e hoʻomalu hou iā mākou. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo i kā mākou mau hana a pau, ʻo ko mākou ola āpau ka hopena o nā hoʻoholo mau. Pela no ka manawa e kala aku ai. Hana wale mākou i kēia koho. No ka wā e hiki mai ana.
2022-11-11