ʻO ka mea hoʻohenehene nui ma ke kumuhana o ke aloha, ka mea hoʻokani mele kaulana ʻAmelika ʻo Aziz Ansari, i hui pū ʻia me ke kumu aʻoaʻo sociology o ke Kulanui o New York ʻo Eric Klinenberg, i alakaʻi i kahi haʻawina ʻelua makahiki e pili ana i ka pilina aloha.
ʻO nā haneli o nā nīnauele, nā noiʻi pūnaewele, nā hui kikoʻī a puni ka honua, nā manaʻo mai nā alakaʻi sociologists a me nā psychologists e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea i loli a me nā mea i koe. ʻO ka hopena e hōʻike ana iā ia iho penei: makemake wale ka poʻe o ka wā i hala e noho me ka maluhia a me ka ʻohana, a koho nā contemporaries e holo wikiwiki e ʻimi i ke aloha kūpono. Mai ka manaʻo o nā manaʻo, aneane ʻaʻohe loli: makemake wau e aloha ʻia a hauʻoli i koʻu ola a pau, akā ʻaʻole makemake wau e ʻike i ka ʻeha. Ua like nō ka paʻakikī o ka kamaʻilio ʻana, i kēia manawa ua ʻokoʻa ka hōʻike ʻana: “Kahea? E hoʻouna paha iā SMS? a i ʻole "No ke aha ʻo ia i hoʻouna mai ai iaʻu i ka pizza emoji?" Ma kahi huaʻōlelo, ʻaʻole ʻike nā mea kākau i ke kumu e hoʻonui ai i ka hana keaka.
Mann, Ivanov a me Ferber, 288 p.