ʻO ka huaʻōlelo mua mai nā moʻo o ka hoʻokumu aloha "Change One Life" e pili ana i ka pehea a pehea e noho ai nā keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine i kēia manawa ma nā hale makua ʻole Lūkia "- paʻi ʻia pū ʻia me ka portal ʻo Snob.ru. Paukū ʻO Ekaterina Lebedeva.
Hele akula ʻo Lera i loko o ke keʻena me ka hele ʻana o ka ʻāʻī. Me ka maopopo ole, noho iho la oia ma ka papaaina, kulou iho la kona mau poohiwi, a nana aku la ia ia malalo o kona mau lae. A ʻike wau i kona mau maka. ʻElua cherries ʻālohilohi. Nānā makaʻu a pololei. Me ka pilikia. A me ka hoʻopā ʻana o… manaʻolana.
Ma kahi keiki makua ʻole ma ka hema komohana o ka ʻāina ʻo Moscow, ua hele mai mākou me ka mea lawelawe o kā mākou waihona manawaleʻa "Change One Life" e kīkī i kahi pōkole, hoʻokahi a me ka hapa minuke, kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni e pili ana iā Valeria 14 makahiki. Lana ko mākou manaʻo e kōkua ka videoanketa i kēia kaikamahine makua e ʻimi i ʻohana hou. ʻOiai e hana i kēia, e alo ia, ʻaʻole maʻalahi.
He ʻoiaʻiʻo ia, akā noʻonoʻo ka hapanui o mākou e pili ana i ka poʻe ʻōpio-makua ʻole, inā ʻaʻole i ka hope loa, a laila ʻaʻole nō ma ka mua. Ma muli o ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e mākaukau e ʻae i nā keiki mai nā keiki makua ʻole i ko lākou mau ʻohana pono nā palapū a hiki i ʻekolu mau makahiki. ʻEhiku a ʻoi paha. Maopopo ka noʻonoʻo. Me nā keiki he maʻalahi, ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu, leʻaleʻa hou, a ʻo ka hopena…
Akā i loko o ka waihona pūnaewele o kā mākou kahua, ma kahi o ka hapalua o nā videoankets (a ʻo kēia, no hoʻokahi minuke, ma kahi o ʻehā tausani mau wikiō) he mau keiki mai 7 a 14 mau makahiki. Kani nā helu helu e like me nā kīʻaha ma ka papahele tile, e haki ana i nā moemoeā o nā mākua hānai e loaʻa nā pēpē i nā home o nā keiki: i ka ʻōnaehana o nā keʻena o nā keiki, noho ka inoa o nā ʻōpio i ka hapa nui o nā lālani o ka waihona ʻikepili. A e like me nā helu helu paʻakikī, loaʻa ka liʻiliʻi o ka pane a nā ʻōpio ma waena o nā makuahine a me nā makuakāne.
Akā ʻaʻole pono ʻo Lera e ʻike i kekahi mea e pili ana i ka helu helu. ʻOi aku ka mālamalama o kona ola pilikino ma mua o nā kiʻi. A hōʻike kēia ʻike ʻike kākaʻikahi ʻo ia a me kāna mau hoa i lawe ʻia i loko o nā ʻohana. A he nui nā keiki ma hope o ka piha ʻana o nā makahiki he ʻumi. A hoʻomaka lākou e hana i kā lākou mau hoʻolālā ponoʻī no ka wā e hiki mai ana me ka ʻole o ko lākou mau mākua. I kahi huaʻōlelo, hoʻohaʻahaʻa lākou iā lākou iho.
ʻO kahi laʻana, me Leroy, ua makemake mākou e kī i kahi lipine wikiō o kāna hoa papa. ʻO ke keikikāne nani me nā maka hāmama - "kā mākou loea kamepiula," e like me ke kāhea ʻana o kāna mau kumu iā ia - ua hele a maka wale i ka ʻike ʻana o ke kāmela. Ua bristled ʻo ia. Hoʻopili ʻo ia i kāna mau poʻohiwi lahilahi. Ua pani ʻo ia i kona mau maka i loko a pale i kona maka me ka pahu puʻupuʻu nui.
“Pono wau e hele i ke koleke i loko o ʻeono mahina!” He aha kou makemake mai iaʻu? - ua hoʻōho ʻo ia me ka makaʻu a holo aku ʻo ia mai ka hoʻonohonoho. ʻO ka moʻolelo maʻamau: ʻoi aku ka nui o nā ʻōpio, ka mea a mākou i kiʻi aku ai no ke kiʻi wikiō, hōʻole e noho i mua o ke kāmela.
Ua noi au i nā kāne he nui: no ke aha ʻaʻole ʻoe e makemake e hana, no ka mea hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻike i kahi ʻohana? Hāmau lākou i ka pane. Huli lākou. Akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole piliwi lākou. ʻAʻole lākou i manaʻoʻiʻo hou. I nā manawa he nui loa, ua hahi, weluwelu, a puhi ʻia ko lākou mau moemoeā a me ka manaʻolana i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi home i ka lepo i nā pā o nā keiki makua ʻole me nā ʻulululi ʻana. A he mea ʻole ka mea nāna i hana (a ma ke ʻano he rula, he mea liʻiliʻi nā mea āpau): nā kumu, nā mākua a makua kāne hānai a lākou paha, mai kahi a lākou i ʻauheʻe ai iā lākou iho, a i ʻole hoʻi ua hoʻihoʻi ʻia lākou i nā hale hōʻoluʻolu ʻole me. inoa maloo e like me ka hau crunching ma lalo o ko lākou mau wāwae: "hale makua ʻole", "kula hānai", "kikowaena hoʻoponopono hou"
"Akā aloha nui wau i nā lio," hoʻomaka koke ʻo Lera e haʻi e pili ana iā ia iho me ka hopohopo a hoʻohui me ka lohe ʻole: "Auwe, nani loa ia." Makaʻu ʻo ia a hōʻoluʻolu nui ʻole e noho i mua o ke kāmela a hoʻolauna iā ia iho iā mākou. He makaʻu ia, pīhoihoi a ma ka manawa like makemake wau, pehea kona makemake ʻole e hōʻike iā ia iho i ʻike kekahi iā ia, e ʻā ke ahi a, malia paha, lilo kekahi lā i ʻōiwi.
A no laila, ʻoi loa no ke kī, komo ʻo ia i nā kāmaʻa heʻeled kuʻekuʻe wāwae a me ka pālule keʻokeʻo. "Ke kali nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe nui, hoʻomākaukau a hopohopo nui loa, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i ka nui o kona makemake e lawe ʻoe iā ia ma ke wikiō." - Ua haʻi aku ke kumu a Lera iaʻu me ka hawanawana, a holo ʻo ia a honi mālie iā ia ma ka papalina.
- Makemake au e holo lio a mālama iā lākou, a ke nui au, makemake wau e hiki ke mālama iā lākou. - Hūnā ke kaikamahine kihi, huikau i kona mau maka me ka liʻiliʻi o mākou mai kēlā me kēia minuke - ʻelua mau cherry e ʻālohilohi ana - a ʻaʻohe pilikia hou a me ke koʻikoʻi i kāna mau maka. Ma ka liʻiliʻi, ke kuʻi ʻia e ka dash, hoʻomaka lākou e hōʻike a hilinaʻi, a me ka hauʻoli, a me ka makemake e kaʻana like me ka hiki ke hiki i nā mea āpau āna i ʻike ai. A ʻōlelo ʻo Lera ua hana ʻo ia i ka hulahula a i ke kula mele, nānā i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni a aloha i ka hip-hop, hōʻike iā ia i kāna mau hana, diploma a me nā kaha kiʻi he nui, hoʻomanaʻo i kāna kī ʻana i kahi kiʻi ʻoniʻoni ma kahi pōʻaiapili kūikawā a me kāna kākau ʻana i ka palapala. moʻolelo e pili ana i kahi kaikamahine i make kona makuahine a waiho iā ia he kūpeʻe kupua i mea hoʻomanaʻo.
Ke ola nei ko Lera makuahine ponoʻī a pili mau me ia. ʻO kekahi ʻano loiloi ʻole loa, akā kahi hiʻohiʻona kaumaha o ka nohona o nā ʻōpio makua ʻole - ʻo ka hapanui o lākou he ʻohana ola. ʻO wai e kamaʻilio pū me lākou a ʻo wai, no nā kumu like ʻole, e maʻalahi ke hele ʻole kēia mau keiki me lākou, akā i nā hale makua ʻole.
- No ke aha ʻoe e makemake ʻole ai e hele i nā home hānai? - Nīnau wau iā Leroux ma hope o kāna wehe ʻana, hoʻolei i nā unahi o kona kaʻawale a lilo ia i kaikamahine aloha, hoʻomākeʻaka a me kahi hakakā iki.
- ʻAe, no ka mea he nui ka poʻe o mākou i mau mākua - - hawewe ʻo ia i kona lima i ka pane ʻana, a make paha. “Aia koʻu makuahine. Ua hoʻohiki mau ʻo ia e lawe iaʻu, a hoʻomau wau i ka hilinaʻi a me ka manaʻoʻiʻo. A kēia manawa ʻo ia nō! ʻĀ, pehea e hiki ai iaʻu ke hana?! Ua haʻi wau iā ia i kekahi lā aʻe: e lawe ʻoe iaʻu i ka home, a i ʻole e nānā wau i ʻohana hānai.
No laila ʻo Lera i mua o kā mākou pahupaʻiwikiō.
ʻO nā ʻōpio i nā keiki makua ʻole e kapa pinepine ʻia e like me ka hanauna nalowale: nā genetics maikaʻi ʻole, nā mākua ʻona, a pēlā aku. Nā mea he haneli. Nā pūlou o stereotypes i hana ʻia. ʻOi aku nā kumu o nā keiki makua ʻole e nīnau iā mākou no ke aha mākou e kī ai i nā ʻōpio ma ke wikiō. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, me lākou «paʻakikī loa»…
ʻAʻole maʻalahi ia me lākou. ʻO ke ʻano i hoʻokumu ʻia, ka hohonu o nā mea ʻehaʻeha, kā lākou "makemake wau - ʻaʻole wau makemake", "ʻaʻole wau - ʻaʻole wau" a makua loa, me ka ʻole o nā kakaka a me nā bun kokoleka, kahi ʻike o ke ola. ʻAe, ʻike mākou i nā laʻana o nā ʻohana hānai kūleʻa me nā ʻōpio. Akā pehea e huki ai i ka nānā hou aku i nā tausani mau keiki makua mai nā hale makua? ʻO mākou i ke kahua, i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ʻike i ka hopena.
Akā ʻike maopopo mākou ʻo kekahi o nā ala hana e ʻōlelo ai aia ma aneʻi kēia mau keiki, a ma ka liʻiliʻi e kaha i kā lākou kiʻi paʻi wikiō me nā paʻi lahilahi, ea, a e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka manawa kūpono e haʻi e pili ana iā lākou iho a kaʻana like i kā lākou mau moemoeā a nā makemake
Eia nō naʻe, ma hope o ke kiʻi ʻana i mau ʻōpio he mau kaukani i nā keiki makua ʻole ma waena o Rūsia, maopopo leʻa iā mākou kekahi mea hou aʻe: MEA ʻiʻini nui kēia mau keiki, a hiki i ka ʻeha o nā pūlima paʻa, i nā waimaka lākou e ale ai, ke hele nei i ko lākou lumi moe, makemake e noho ko lākou mau ʻohana ponoʻī.
A ʻo 14 makahiki ʻo Lera, nāna e nānā mai iā mākou me kahi pilikia, a laila me ka manaʻolana, makemake maoli e lilo i ʻohana. A makemake maoli mākou e kōkua iā ia e loaʻa. A no laila hōʻike mākou iā ia i ka videoanket.