PSYchology

Ua hālāwai au me Tatyana i loko o kahi keʻena kaiāulu. Ua ola ʻo Tatyana, ʻeleu a me nā hiʻohiʻona i haʻi ʻia. ʻAʻole i hoʻomaha kēia mau hiʻohiʻona i kona mau hoalauna, a ua hoʻāʻo lākou i nā ala āpau e hoʻopau iā lākou. No kekahi mau makahiki i kēia manawa, ua hakakā maikaʻi ʻole lākou me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole i kūpono ʻo Tatyana i ka manaʻo o ka "hostel norm" ma kekahi ʻano, haʻi lākou iā ia ma ke ʻano a maikaʻi ʻole inā makemake ʻo ia e puhi i nā pā. a laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hana ʻana me kāna mau mea hale. Ua mālama lākou i nā kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā kumuhana ma mua o ke komo ʻana i ka lumi o kahi ʻē aʻe he mea maikaʻi ke kīkēkē, a i ka wā e ʻoki ai i ka ʻauwai mai ka mīkini holoi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka paʻa ʻana me kou lima i loko o ka paila, a mai poina ma ka papahele. ʻO kekahi hiʻohiʻona ona, ʻo ia ka hoʻopunipuni. Ua wahaheʻe nui ʻo ia me ka leʻaleʻa a ʻaʻohe kumu.

He ʻokoʻa loa ʻo Tatyana mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā e noʻonoʻo ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kāna mau hiʻohiʻona, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou i luku loa, ʻaʻole hiki ke kapa ʻia he maikaʻi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hāʻule ma lalo o ke ʻano o ke kanaka.

Ua kūpaʻa ʻo Tatyana i kāna maʻamau o ka noho ʻana ma ke ʻano kūikawā, a ʻoiai ua ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻo ia e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe mea hiki ke hana no ia mea, e like me kāna mau ʻōlelo.

Akā, i koʻu hālāwai ʻana me ia, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i kekahi mea e pili ana iā ia, a laila ua like ʻo ia iaʻu he kaikamahine maikaʻi a ikaika. I ka wā mua, ua lanakila kona aloha i ke ola a me ka ikaika iaʻu ma ke ʻano maikaʻi loa o ka ʻōlelo, akā ma hope o ʻelua mau pule, e like me nā hoalauna āpau, hoʻohālike wau ʻaʻole wau i ka home, lohe i kona mau wāwae, a "uē" ia ia i kona uhaki ʻana me ka ʻakaʻaka ʻakaʻaka i nā loina a pau o ka hale hoʻokipa.

Akā, he mea ʻakaʻaka kēia mau mea inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iaʻu kahi hana, ʻekolu lā ma hope o ko māua hui ʻana. Pono wau e ʻōlelo a hiki i kēia manawa, ma waho o nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a me ka mālama ʻole, akā maʻalahi ke ʻano ma Tatiana, ʻaʻole wau i ʻike i kekahi mea. ʻO ke kikoʻī, ke kamaʻilio nei wau e pili ana i nā ʻano pilikino, ʻo Tatiana he 9 mau papa o ka hoʻonaʻauao, a ua hana ʻo ia ma ke ʻano he mea kūʻai aku. ʻAʻole wau i manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea kūʻai aku āpau me 9 mau papa a priori ke lilo i kanaka, ʻoi aku wau i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo Tatyana ka mea i manaʻo ʻaʻole ʻo ia i laki loa i kona ola, akā pehea ia i hiki ai, no laila ʻoe. pono e ola e like me ia. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole i ʻike ʻia ke kūlana o ka mea kākau (core), kahi hōʻailona o ke ʻano.

ʻIke ʻia ʻo Tatyana i ka manawa e hālāwai ai me ia he kanaka me nā hiʻohiʻona, ʻaʻole he kanaka me ka pilikino

Noho i loko o kahi lumi kuke communal smoke, ua hōʻoia wau iā ia e kūkulu kēlā me kēia kanaka i kona ola ponoʻī, inā makemake ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i nā mea āpau a hiki i ka nānā mua hiki ʻole. A laila hiki iaʻu ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ia ʻaʻohe mea ʻino e hiki mai inā hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hana ma ke ʻano he luna kūʻai hoʻolaha. ʻO ka hihia wale nō, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i haʻalele, akā ua hoʻomaha ma kāna hale kūʻai. A laila hiki mai ka lā aʻu i lawe ai iā ia i ko mākou paʻa! I ka wā mua, ʻo kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona wale nō i "pearled" mai Tatyana, ma ka hana ua manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia he hipa ʻeleʻele, ʻakaʻaka lākou iā ia a hoʻāʻo e kāpae, akā laila ... mahalo iā lākou (ʻo kēia mau hiʻohiʻona) i kūʻai nui aku ai. nā papahana paʻakikī i nā mea kūʻai hope ʻole. ʻO ka wikiwiki loa, ua lilo ʻo Tatiana i mea hoʻokele maikaʻi loa, a ma ʻaneʻi ua hoʻomaka wau e ʻike i nā ʻano pilikino iā ia. Ua hilinaʻi ʻo Tatyana ʻaʻole wale i kona mau hiki, akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e kūkulu ʻo ia i kona ola iā ia iho, a me kāna ʻano maʻalahi maʻalahi, a ʻoi aku hoʻi, ʻaʻole i nalowale kona mau hiʻohiʻona. ʻO Tatyana, e like me ka wā ma mua, ua noʻonoʻo nui ʻo ia (hoʻopunipuni) me ka leʻaleʻa a ʻoi aku ka pinepine no ke kumu ʻole a hana i nā mea ʻē aʻe a pau i ʻike ʻole ʻia no ke kanaka maʻamau, akā i ka manawa like ua lilo ʻo ia i ʻano kanaka, a ua lilo kona mau hiʻohiʻona i ke kanaka. (ma hope o nā mea a pau, i kēia manawa ua pono lākou). Eia kekahi, ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e ʻike i kāna mau ʻano ponoʻī mai ke ʻano o kāna koho: "Ua koho wau e like me kēia, no ka mea hiki iaʻu ke hana i kekahi mea." I kēia manawa, ua haʻaheo ʻo ia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ʻo ia e like me kēia mau ʻōpū āpau e noho nei i kahi ola pono ʻole.

ʻO ia hoʻi, i kēia manawa ua lilo ʻo Tatyana i ʻano kanaka, a ʻo kona mau hiʻohiʻona, ua mau nō ia, akā ua hoʻomaka ʻo ia e pono a hōʻike ʻia ma ka inoa o ka mea kākau, ua lilo ia i kanaka hoʻokahi.

4 makahiki i hala, i kēia lā ʻo Tatyana ka mea nona kāna ʻoihana hoʻolaha ponoʻī. Ke kamaʻilio nui nei lākou e pili ana iā ia ma ke kūlanakauhale, ʻōlelo kekahi he scammer a hoʻopunipuni i nā mea kūʻai aku (a ʻo wau, ʻike iā ia, ma ke kumu hiki ke manaʻoʻiʻo iā ia), ʻo kekahi, ma ke ʻano, kū i luna nona, e ʻōlelo ana he ʻoihana kiʻekiʻe (a ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau i kēlā.) Akā ʻo ka hapa nui o nā mea āpau ke maopopo nei he kanaka ʻo Tatyana. A maopopo iaʻu inā ʻaʻohe hiʻohiʻona i loko ona, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e lilo i kanaka nui loa, akā, ʻoi loa, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e ʻālohilohi iki.

Ke nānā nei i kekahi mau moʻolelo hou mai ke ola, ke manaʻo nei au e hoʻoholo ʻaʻole hiki ke lilo i kanaka (ʻo ka mea e noho ana me kona manaʻo ponoʻī, ke kuleana o kāna mau hana, he kanaka koa a ikaika) mai ka ʻōpala, pono e loaʻa kekahi ʻano. nā hiʻohiʻona maoli - a i ʻole ke ʻano ikaika.

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