ʻElua mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua paʻi ka mea hōʻike TV ʻo Andrey Maksimov i kāna mau puke mua e pili ana i ka psychophilosophy, āna i hoʻomohala ai no kahi o ʻumi makahiki. He ʻōnaehana kēia o nā manaʻo a me nā hana i hoʻolālā ʻia e kōkua i ke kanaka i loko o kahi kūlana noʻonoʻo paʻakikī. Ua kamaʻilio mākou me ka mea kākau e pili ana i ke kumu o kēia ala a me ke kumu he mea nui e ola e like me kou makemake.
Nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo: He aha ka psychophilosophy? He aha ke kumu?
Andrey Maksimov: ʻO Psychophilosophy kahi ʻōnaehana o nā manaʻo, nā loina a me nā hana, i hoʻolālā ʻia e kōkua i ke kanaka e kūkulu i nā pilina kūlike me ka honua a me ia iho. ʻAʻole like me ka hapa nui o nā ʻōnaehana psychological, ʻaʻole ia e kamaʻilio i nā loea, akā i nā kānaka āpau. ʻO ia hoʻi, ke hele mai kahi hoaaloha, keiki, hoa hana i kekahi o mākou me kāna mau pilikia noʻonoʻo ponoʻī, hiki i ka psychophilosophy ke kōkua.
Ua kapa ʻia ʻo ia no ka mea ʻaʻole i loaʻa i kēlā me kēia o mākou he psyche wale nō, akā he philosophy hoʻi - ʻo ia hoʻi, pehea mākou e ʻike ai i nā manaʻo like ʻole. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī: no ka mea hoʻokahi ka mea nui o ka ʻohana, no kahi ʻoihana ʻē aʻe, no ke kolu - aloha, no ka hā - kālā. No ke kōkua ʻana i kahi kanaka i loko o kahi kūlana paʻakikī - ua ʻaiʻē au i kēia huaʻōlelo mai ka psychologist Soviet koʻikoʻi ʻo Leonid Grimak - pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kona noʻonoʻo a me kāna kumu.
He aha ka mea i paipai iā ʻoe e hoʻomohala i kēia manaʻo?
AM: Ua hoʻomaka wau i ka hana ʻana i koʻu ʻike ʻana he 100% o ka poʻe he mau kūkākūkā psychological no kekahi. Hele mai nā ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha i kēlā me kēia o mākou a noi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo inā loaʻa iā lākou nā pilikia i ka pilina me nā hoa, nā keiki, nā mākua a i ʻole nā hoaaloha, me lākou iho, i ka hope. E like me ke kānāwai, i kēia mau kamaʻilio ʻana mākou e hilinaʻi nei i kā mākou ʻike ponoʻī, ʻaʻole ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ka mea e hoʻohuli iā mākou, a hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo, koho i ka mea e pili ana iā mākou a me ka mea ʻole
ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa ka ʻike honua, no ka mea, ʻo ka Haku (a i ʻole Nature - ʻo ka mea kokoke) he haku ʻāpana, ʻo kēlā me kēia kanaka. Eia kekahi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ʻole o kā mākou ʻike. No ka laʻana, makemake nui nā wahine hemo i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ka mālama ʻana i kahi ʻohana. No laila ua manaʻo wau e pono mākou i kahi ʻano ʻōnaehana - e kala mai i ka tautology - e kōkua i nā poʻe e kōkua i nā poʻe.
A i mea e ʻimi ai i kahi hoʻonā i ka pilikia, pono ʻoe…
AM: … e hoʻolohe i kāu mau makemake, ʻo ia - a he mea nui loa kēia - ʻaʻole pono e huikau me ka makemake. Ke hele mai ke kanaka iaʻu me kēia a i ʻole kēlā pilikia, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i kāna mau makemake, a ʻaʻole makemake - ʻaʻole hiki, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole makemake - e ola iā lākou. ʻO ka psychophilosopher kahi mea kamaʻilio e kōkua i ke kanaka e ʻike i kāna mau makemake a hoʻomaopopo i ke kumu i hana ai ʻo ia i kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo i hauʻoli ʻole ai ʻo ia. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ka mea e hoʻohuli iā mākou, a hiki iā mākou ke hana i kēia ʻoiaʻiʻo, koho i ka mea e pili ana iā mākou a me ka mea ʻole.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i kahi laʻana kikoʻī mai ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa?
AM: Ua hele mai kekahi wahine opio i o'u nei no ke kukakuka ana, i hana ma ka hui o kona makuakane a ua maikai loa kona noho ana. ʻAʻole hoihoi ʻo ia i ka ʻoihana, makemake ʻo ia e lilo i mea pena. I loko o kā māua kamaʻilio ʻana, ua ʻike maopopo ʻo ia, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hoʻokō i kāna moeʻuhane, e ola makehewa ana kona ola. Pono ʻo ia i ke kākoʻo.
ʻO ka hana mua i kahi ola hou a maikaʻi ʻole ke kūʻai aku i kahi kaʻa pipiʻi a me ke kūʻai ʻana i kahi kumu hoʻohālike kālā. A laila haku pū mākou i kahi haʻiʻōlelo i koʻu makuakāne.
Piʻi ka nui o nā pilikia ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻike nā mākua i kahi ʻano i kā lākou keiki.
Ua hopohopo nui ʻo ia, makaʻu i ka hopena maikaʻi ʻole, akā ua ʻike ʻo kona makuakāne ponoʻī iā ia e ʻeha ana, e hana ana i kahi mea aloha ʻole, a kākoʻo iā ia i kona makemake e lilo i mea pena. Ma hope mai, ua lilo ʻo ia i mea hoʻolālā i makemake nui ʻia. ʻAe, ma ke kālā, ua nalowale ʻo ia, akā i kēia manawa ke ola nei ʻo ia e like me kāna makemake, ʻo ke ʻano he "pololei" nona.
Ma kēia laʻana, ke kamaʻilio nei mākou no kahi keiki makua a me kona makua. Pehea e pili ana i nā paio me nā keiki liʻiliʻi? Maanei hiki ke kōkua ka psychophilosophy?
AM: I loko o ka psychophilosophy aia kahi ʻāpana "psycho-philosophical pedagogy", kahi aʻu i paʻi ai i nā puke he nui. ʻO ke kumu nui: he kanaka ke keiki. Piʻi ka nui o nā pilikia a me nā kuhihewa ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻike nā mākua i kahi ʻano i kā lākou keiki, ʻaʻole mālama iā ia he kanaka.
Ke kamaʻilio pinepine nei mākou e pili ana i ke aloha i ke keiki. He aha ka manaʻo? ʻO ke aloha ʻo ia ka hiki ke hoʻokau iā ʻoe iho ma kona wahi. A i ka wā e ʻāhewa ai ʻoe no nā deuces, a i kou hoʻokomo ʻana i kahi kihi ...
He nīnau a mākou e nīnau pinepine ai i nā psychologists a me psychotherapists: pono anei ke aloha i nā kānaka i mea e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ai?
AM: I koʻu manaʻo, ʻo ka mea nui ka hōʻike ʻana i ka hoihoi maoli i nā kānaka, inā ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e kōkua iā lākou. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha i nā mea a pau, akā hiki iā ʻoe ke aloha me nā mea āpau. ʻAʻohe kanaka hoʻokahi, mai ka poʻe home ʻole a hiki i ke aliʻi wahine Pelekane, ʻaʻohe mea e uē ai i ka pō, ʻo ia hoʻi, pono nā kānaka a pau i ke aloha ...
Psychophilosophy - he mea hoʻokūkū i ka psychotherapy?
AM: ʻAʻohe hihia. ʻO ka mea mua, no ka mea, pono e hana ʻia ka psychotherapy e ka poʻe ʻoihana, a ʻo ka psychophilosophy - ke haʻi hou aku nei au - e kamaʻilio ʻia i nā kānaka āpau.
Ua hoʻokaʻawale ʻo Viktor Frankl i nā neuroses āpau i ʻelua ʻano: clinical a existential. Hiki i ka psychophilosopher ke kōkua i ke kanaka me ka neurosis existential, ʻo ia hoʻi, me kēlā mau hihia i ka wā e loaʻa ai ke ʻano o ke ola. Pono ke kanaka me ka ma'i ma'i neurosis e nīnau i ke kauka - he psychologist a psychotherapist.
Hiki i nā manawa a pau ke hana i kahi ʻoiaʻiʻo harmonious kūʻokoʻa i nā kūlana o waho?
AM: ʻOiaʻiʻo, i ka nele o nā kūlana force majeure, e like me ka wī, ke kaua, ka hoʻopaʻi, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o kēia hana. Akā i loko o kahi kūlana koʻikoʻi, hiki ke hana i kahi ʻano ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. ʻO kahi laʻana kaulana ʻo Viktor Frankl, ʻo ia hoʻi, ua hoʻohuli ʻo ia i kona paʻahao i loko o kahi kahua hoʻopaʻa ʻia i loko o kahi keʻena noʻonoʻo.