ʻO ka mea mele, i lilo i makuahine no ke kolu o ka manawa i ka mahina i hala aku nei, ʻike pehea e hōʻoia ai ʻaʻohe lili ma waena o nā keiki.
18 May 2017
E ʻike i ka manawa kūpono e hoʻomaopopo ai i kou poʻe kūpuna e pili ana i ka hoʻohui i ka ʻohana
- ʻAʻole wau i haʻi i kaʻu mau kaikamahine e kali ana wau i kahi pēpē no ka manawa lōʻihi. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hilinaʻi i kona hauʻoli. Makemake au i kahi pēpē no ka lōʻihi! Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ma ka hā a ʻo ka lima paha o ka malama. Ua hōʻiliʻili wau iā lākou a ʻōlelo aku: "He ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi kaʻu nāu: he kaikunāne a he kaikuahine kou." ʻO Monica (ʻelima mau makahiki o ke kaikamahine. - Approx. "Antenna") ʻoliʻoli koke, aloha nui ʻo ia me mākou, a ʻo Alina, i ka makahiki 12, e mālama i nā manaʻo āpau iā ia iho, no laila ua manaʻo nui ʻo ia i ka nūhou. Ua hoʻomanaʻo pū paha ʻo ia i ke ʻano o ka wā i hānau ai ʻo Monica. He ʻano pahū kona, ʻeleu ʻo ia, aloha i ka maka, no laila a loaʻa i ka hiapo.
Hana i nā kūpuna i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia.
Hoʻomaopopo wau i kaʻu mau kaikamahine e helu ana wau i kā lākou kōkua, e hoʻoinu lākou a hānai i ka pēpē me aʻu, a hauʻoli loa nā kaikamahine e pili ana i kēia. ʻAʻole hele ʻo Monica i ka papa māla me ka honi ʻole ʻana i koʻu tummy. A ʻo Alina, ma ke ʻano he kanaka makua, hopohopo huhū ʻo ia iaʻu, e hōʻoia ʻaʻole wau i hāpai i kekahi mea kaumaha. Ma ka laulaha, ke kakali nei kēlā me kēia i ka lālā o ka ʻohana hou.
I mea e wāwahi ʻole ai ma waena o nā keiki, noho manawa pū.
ʻO ka mea aʻu i manaʻo ʻole ai ʻo ka ʻāpana paʻakikī loa o ka hiamoe ʻana o kēlā me kēia me ke keiki ʻekolu. Moe nā keiki āpau i ka manawa like. A maʻa lākou i ka wili ʻia o ko lākou kua, e haʻi ana i nā kaʻao, akā ʻaʻohe ou mau lima. Hoʻoholo ʻia e hiamoe no ka manawa ʻehā, i ʻole e haehae. A ʻaʻole i namunamu nā kaikamahine i ka ala ʻana o ko lākou kaikaina i ka pō. Ma ka ʻokoʻa, ke holo nei koʻu ikaika, a mākaukau wau e hāʻawi pio, i ka manawa pōʻeleʻele ka lima o Monica me kahi nipple i kī mai iaʻu. Kōkua ʻo Monica lāua ʻo Alina iaʻu i ka hoʻoluliluli ʻana i kuʻu kaikaina a hōʻoluʻolu iā ia. He waiwai nui kēia.
Mai hae i ka pilikia a hiki i ka wā e puka ai
ʻO ke kū ʻana o kahi lālā o ka ʻohana hou e kuhikuhi ana i kahi hoʻololi i ke ʻano maʻamau o ke ola no nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau. ʻIke nui ke keiki iā ia. A hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i ka lili. Akā ʻaʻohe a māua ʻōlelo ma ka lexicon ʻohana. Hilinaʻi wau ua lanakila ka ʻīlio hae āu e hānai ai. Inā ʻoe e nānā nui i ka hihia o ka lili a hoʻomau hou i kāu poʻe kūpuna: "Mai hōʻehaʻeha i ka loaʻa hou ʻana o kou kaikaina, aloha pū ʻia kou makuahine iā ʻoe," e hoʻomaka paha nā keiki e manaʻo nele.
Hoʻomaha a leʻaleʻa me kou ʻohana
Ma keʻano laulā, me ke kolu o ke keiki, aia kahi loiloi nui o nā waiwai, hoʻomaka ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i nā mea koʻikoʻi a hoʻemi iki i ka nānā ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi. He kanaka hoʻohalahala weliweli wau ma ke ʻano. He mea nui iaʻu ke ʻaʻahu maikaʻi kaʻu mau kaikamāhine, hele i ke kula me nā haʻawina i hoʻopau maikaʻi ʻia. ʻAʻole hiki ke ʻaʻahu i nā keiki ʻekolu i nā mea maʻemaʻe a pau, e loaʻa ka manawa e hānai ai a hoʻouna i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kā lākou ʻoihana. ʻOiai ʻoe e hana ana i ka lua, ua ninini mua ka mea mua i ka compote iā ia iho. Ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo nei au iaʻu iho he maikaʻi inā hele kaʻu kaikamahine i ke kula me kahi ʻeleʻele ma kona pālule. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana i kou mau aʻalolo, me he mea lā iaʻu ʻo ka makuahine mālie ke kī o ka hauʻoli ʻohana. I kēia manawa, no ka laʻana, ke hana nei ʻo Monica i kāna haʻawina home ʻoiai e kū ana ma luna o kahi noho me kona mau wāwae, e hoʻōho ana i kekahi mea a pena i nā puke puke. Pono ʻoe e loaʻa i kahi puʻupuʻu koʻikoʻi i ʻole e hoʻomaka i ka hoʻōho ʻana: "E noho ma luna o kou hoki, e hoʻōki i ka hoʻoluhi ʻana," akā e hoʻokuʻu wale iā ia e hana i kāna haʻawina home e like me ke kūpono iā ia. ʻOiai paʻakikī hoʻi iaʻu, e manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu.
E waiho ke keiki iā ia iho, mai hoʻohālikelike iā ia me kekahi, mai hāʻawi i nā kumu keu e manaʻo ai he kīnā ʻole.
I kēia mau lā, no ka manawa mua, ua hakakā ikaika wau me Alina. Ma muli o ka lilo o ka manawa ma ke kelepona. Pau, me he mea lā iaʻu. ʻO wau, e like me nā mākua āpau, lawe ʻia i kekahi manawa i ke kaʻina o ka hana ʻana i kope maikaʻi aʻe noʻu iho mai nā keiki, ke haʻi hou aku nei wau i kēlā me kēia lā ua maʻalahi ka maʻalahi o nā ʻōlelo i kēia manawa ma mua o 22, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i kēia manawa ma mua o ka 44. Makemake wau e hōʻalo i nā kuhi hewa o ia manawa, a ʻo nā keiki, e like me nā keiki āpau, makemake ʻole i kekahi e hoʻopā iā lākou a ola wale nō. No laila pono ʻoe e hakakā me kāu mau kaikamahine, a laila me ʻoe iho, e hoʻomanaʻo nei iā lākou he ala kā lākou. A ʻaʻohe aʻu mea e hopohopo ai, he mau keiki kupaianaha wau, ʻo lākou ka waiwai nui i koʻu ola. Ua holo mai kekahi o lākou a huki me ka lima, no laila ua hele wau e hana i kaʻu haʻawina home.
E lilo i kime. Akā e loaʻa i kēlā me kēia keiki ka manawa kūpono e noho manawa me ka makuahine wale nō.
Aʻo wau i nā kaikamahine e noʻonoʻo pono i nā mea maikaʻi, haʻi wau iā lākou he ʻohana mākou, he kime, pono mākou e kākoʻo kekahi i kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu keʻaʻa me ka ʻole o lākou, a ʻaʻole hiki i koʻu kaikaina ke kaʻawale me lākou, no ka mea ʻo lākou ka mea nui loa. kanaka i kona ola. Pono kēlā me kēia keiki e pono e pono, he kuleana e pāʻani i ka home, a i ka manawa like he manawa kaʻawale e noho kaʻawale ai me ko lākou makuahine. Pā ʻole ʻia. Me Monica, no ka laʻana, hana mākou i kā mākou haʻawina home i kēlā me kēia lā, me Alina mākou e hele wāwae nei i ka ʻīlio.