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Aia kekahi mau makuahine e manaʻo e noho me ke keiki a hiki i ka hope loa. A ʻo kā mākou mea kākau a me ka makuahine o kā mākou keikikāne ʻelima mau makahiki, ʻo Lyubov Vysotskaya, haʻi ke kumu o kona makemake e hoʻi i ka hana.
- Eia kahi helehelena a ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻekolu mau makahiki i ka keʻena ʻaʻole e ʻikea, - aloha aloha ʻo Svetka i kāna ʻōpū āpau. - ʻĀ, ua lawa. Ua holo pono. E noho pū wau me ka pēpē a hiki i ka hiki.
ʻAe wau i ka ʻae: ʻo ka makuahine ma hope iā ia i nā makahiki mua ʻelua o ke ola - he pēpē mālie kēia, a me nā pilina kuikahi, a me ka hoʻoponopono kūpono, a me ka manawa kūpono e ʻike ai i nā ʻanuʻu mua, e hoʻolohe i nā huaʻōlelo mua. Ma nā mea āpau, mai haʻalele i nā kī nui.
"E noho au i waho no ʻekolu mau makahiki," hoʻomau ʻo Sveta. “A i ʻole e haʻalele paha wau. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka home.
ʻAʻole wau e hoʻopaʻapaʻa me ia. Akā, ʻaʻole i hoʻolilo hoʻokahi makahiki, ʻaʻole ʻelua, akā ʻeono mau makahiki holoʻokoʻa i ka wā hānau makuahine, hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo noʻu iho: inā ʻaʻole no kekahi ʻano, a paʻakikī iaʻu e hoʻopaʻapaʻa, ʻaʻole wau e hele i ke keʻena - E holo wau, e hāʻule ana i koʻu paheʻe.
ʻAʻole, ʻaʻole wau e hana i kahi hana kupanaha i kēia manawa (ʻoiai, maliʻa paha ma hope iki, a ʻae). ʻAʻole wau kekahi o ka poʻe e mākaukau e kū ma ka pāka a hiki i ke aumoe, e hoʻokau nei i kaʻu keiki aloha i nā kahu maʻi. Akā maopopo nō iaʻu he lā pono ka lā hana piha. A ʻaʻole wale iaʻu, akā kaʻu keiki hoʻi. A ʻo ia ke kumu.
1. Makemake wau e kamaʻilio
Hiki iaʻu ke kikokiko koke. Wikiwiki loa. I kekahi manawa makemake wau e kikokiko wikiwiki ma mua o kaʻu ʻōlelo. No ka mea he kamepiula ka 90 pakeneka o kaʻu kamaʻilio. ʻO nā pūnaewele kaiaulu, Skype, nā ʻelele koʻu mau hoaaloha, nā hoapili a me nā mea ʻē aʻe āpau. I ke ola maoli, ʻo kaʻu mau mea kamaʻilio nui kaʻu kāne, makuahine, makuahine a me kaʻu keiki kāne. Basically, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke keiki kāne. A hiki i kēia manawa ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kūkākūkā i nā mea āpau aʻu e makemake ai me ia. ʻAʻole mākaukau ʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka politika, a ʻaʻole mākaukau wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ke kau hou o Paw Patrol. Ua pau ka ʻōlelo hoʻoholo i ka peʻa "lolo pani" i loko o ka palapala hoʻoholo, akā ʻo kēia, auwe, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Ua hele hihiu au. ʻO ka hui ʻana me nā ipo wahine i nā hopena pule, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻopakele ai i ka "makuakāne o ke aupuni a ke Lūkia aupuni lehulehu." E mālama i ka puka e ola hana.
2. Makemake wau e nalo
- Māmā, hiki koke mai koʻu makuakāne, - hoʻomaka ʻo Timofey e hele wāwae i mua o ka puka i ʻelua mau hola ma mua o ka pau ʻana o ka lā hana.
- Pāpā! - Holo ke keikikāne i mua o ka poʻe a pau i ka puka, hālāwai me kāna kāne mai ka hana.
- ʻĀ, i ka manawa hea ...
Mai waho mai, me he mea lā he keu ke kolu o ka makuahine ma aneʻi. ʻOiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole ia. Akā kū'ē i ke kumu o ka makuakāne, ka mea mai ka Pōʻakahi a ka Pōʻalima i ke ola o ke keiki no ʻelua mau hola i ka lā, maopopo pales ka makuahine. Eia kekahi, maopopo iā ʻoe ka mea, i kēia kūlana, e ʻāhewa a aʻo hou aku. No laila ua hoʻololi ʻia he lā nui ka makuakāne, a ʻo Mom ka mea maʻamau. Mālama ke keiki i kāna mālama me ke aloha nui aʻe, me he mea lā aia kekahi mea. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole pololei kēia.
I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole wau e ʻeha e nalo pono i ke keiki. Maliʻa paha e nānā aku iā ia me kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa iki. A liʻiliʻi iki mai ka ʻaoʻao e ʻike pehea kona ulu ʻana. A ke pili ʻo ia iā ʻoe kokoke i kahi kaʻawale, ʻano like ʻo ia me kahi ʻāpana.
3. Makemake wau e loaʻa
Ma ka haʻalele makuahine ua haʻalele wau i kahi kūlana maikaʻi a me kahi uku uku. Hoʻohālikelike kā mākou loaʻa kālā me kaʻu wahine. Ua hoʻomaka wau e hana manawa hapa i ka manawa o 10 mau makahiki o Timofey. Akā he mea hoʻomakeʻaka ka nui i hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa mai ka home ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka mea ma mua a me ka mea i hiki i kēia manawa.
ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole pono ka ʻohana i ke kālā i kēia manawa. Eia nō naʻe, me ka loaʻa ʻole o kaʻu uku ponoʻī, ʻoluʻolu wau a hapa hoʻi i kekahi wahi me ka palekana ʻole. ʻIke wau i ka ʻoluʻolu ke maopopo iaʻu: inā hiki mai kekahi mea, hiki iaʻu ke kuleana no ka ʻohana.
Akā inā ʻaʻole wau e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka mea maikaʻi ʻole, ʻo wau, no ka laʻana, hōʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka lawe kālā ʻana mai kā kaʻu kāne uku e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi makana.
4. Makemake wau e hoʻomōhala kaʻu keiki
I ka makahiki i hala, ua ʻike nā ʻepekema Pelekane nā mākau o nā keiki a nā makuahine hana e koi ʻia e hele i ke kula kamaliʻi he 5-10 pakeneka ke kiʻekiʻe ma mua o ka poʻe i hoʻāʻo e aʻo i nā mea āpau ma ka home. Eia kekahi, ʻo nā kūpuna i kēia mea e hoʻohuli i nā moʻopuna ma mua o nā mākua. E leʻaleʻa paha lākou i ka hana, a i ʻole hana hou lākou.
Ma ke ala, ua ʻike ʻia kekahi hanana like e ka hapanui o nā makuahine ma mua o hoʻokahi manawa. A me aʻu pū. ʻOi aku ka ʻeleu o nā keiki a ʻoi aku ka makemake e hana i kahi mea hou me kahi malihini ma mua o ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne, kahi e maʻa ai lākou a hiki iā ʻoe ke wili e like me kou makemake.