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Nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni Disney: no ke aha he keiki makua ʻole nā koa
Eʻoki i nā hiʻohiʻona kaʻawale i ke kiʻi:ʻaʻole pono!
Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi Kanada hou i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni a nā keiki ma mua o nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni o nā pākeke. He laʻana nā mea kākau i nā meʻe makua ʻole o nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni Disney Studios. Ke nānā pono mākou, hoʻokahi mea like nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni Disney nui loa: he keiki makua ole ka meʻe o ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Ua haʻi ʻo Sophie iā mākou i ka piha ʻana o Mina i 3 mau makahiki, ʻoki ʻo ia i ʻelua a ʻekolu paha mau hiʻohiʻona mai kekahi Disney i ʻole e hōʻeha iā ia, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka make ʻana o ka makuakāne a i ʻole nalo ka makuahine. I kēia lā, ua ulu kāna kaikamahine liʻiliʻi, hōʻike ʻo ia iā ia i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni holoʻokoʻa. E like me Sophie, nui nā makuahine i hana ia e pale i kā lākou keiki liʻiliʻi. Wahi a ka psychologist Dana Castro, " ʻO nā moʻolelo Disney a i ʻole nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni he ala kūpono e hoʻokokoke ai i nā nīnau e pili ana i ke ola me kāu mau keiki “. ʻAʻole makemake nā makuahine i ka hōʻike ʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona koʻikoʻi i kā lākou poʻe liʻiliʻi, akā naʻe, no ka mea loea, "hiki iā ia ke pāʻani i ke kumuhana o ka make, no ka laʻana". Aia nā mea a pau i ka makahiki o ke keiki a me kāna i ʻike ai i kona ʻohana ponoʻī. "I ka wā liʻiliʻi o nā keiki, ma mua o 5 mau makahiki, ʻaʻohe pilikia o ka haʻalele ʻana i nā hiʻohiʻona nalo, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me ka make ʻana o kahi makua a holoholona paha," wahi a Dana Castro. No ia, "inā ʻoki ka makua i ka hiʻohiʻona, ʻo ia paha ka paʻakikī o ke kumuhana o ka make." Inā nīnau ke keiki i nā nīnau, no ka mea pono ʻo ia e hōʻoluʻolu. Eia hou, no ka psychologist, " he mea pono e pane i na ninau, aole e paa ka pohihihi. Pono mākou e pale i ka haʻalele ʻana i ke keiki me ka ʻole o nā pane, ʻo ia ka mea hiki iā ia ke hopohopo ".
Nā meʻe makua ʻole: Ua hana hou ʻo Walt Disney i kona wā kamaliʻi
I kēia kauwela, Don Hahn, ka mea hana o "Beauty and the Beast" a me "The Lion King", i haʻi aku i loko o kahi hālāwai ninaninau i hāʻawi ʻia i ka mana ʻAmelika ʻo Glamour i nā kumu i koi ai iā Walt Disney e "pepehi" i ka makuahine a i ka makuakāne (a i ʻole nā mea ʻelua) i kāna kiʻiʻoniʻoni nui loa. holomua. ” ʻElua kumu no kēia. ʻO ke kumu mua he kūpono: mau nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma waena o 80 a 90 mau minuke a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka pilikia o ka ulu ʻana. ʻO ia ka lā koʻikoʻi i ke ola o kā mākou mau ʻano, ʻo ia ka lā e kū ai lākou i kā lākou kuleana. A ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka ulu ʻana i nā huaʻōlelo ma hope o ka nalowale ʻana o ko lākou mau mākua. Ua pepehi ʻia ka makuahine o Bambi, ua koi ʻia ka fawn e ulu ". ʻO ke kumu ʻē aʻe e hahai mai ʻO ka moʻolelo pilikino a Walt Disney. ʻOiaʻiʻo, i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā makahiki 40, hāʻawi ʻo ia i hale i kona makuahine a me kona makuakāne. Ma hope koke o ka neʻe ʻana, ua hala kona mau mākua. ʻAʻole i haʻi ʻo Walt Disney iā lākou no ka mea ua manaʻo ʻo ia ke kuleana pilikino no ko lākou make. No laila ke wehewehe nei ka mea hana, ma o kahi ʻano pale, ua hana ʻo ia i kāna mau mea nui e hoʻokani hou i kēia trauma.