Ma ka haukapila a i ʻole ma ka home me kahi pale keiki haole: nā hihia ʻē aʻe o ka hānau ʻana ma waena o nā palena

ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa nā kiʻi ma ka pae aupuni, ʻoiai inā he kuhi wale nō e pili ana i kēia mau wahine e hele i ka palena, a i ʻole e lawe mai i nā ʻoihana ma kēlā ʻaoʻao o ka palena e hānau e like me ko lākou makemake. Loaʻa ka CPAM Haute-Savoie ma kahi o 20 mau noi i kēlā me kēia makahiki. ʻO ka hihia o Eudes Geisler, kū'ē i ka Moselle CPAM, ma kekahi hihia e paipai i nā wāhine e haʻi e pili ana i ko lākouʻike, a me ko lākou mau pilikia i ka laweʻana. Noho ʻo Maud ma Haute-Savoie. "No kaʻu keiki mua, ma ka haukapila, ua hōʻike wau ʻaʻole wau makemake i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, akā ke loli nei nā hui a paʻakikī ke kākoʻo ʻia i kā lākou koho ʻana i ka manawa. Ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi epidural i koʻu makemake ʻole. ʻAʻole i noho kaʻu pēpē ma luna oʻu, ua ʻauʻau mākou iā ia koke. » Hānau ʻo ia i kāna pēpē ʻelua ma ka home, me kahi pale keiki Farani. "I ka wā i ʻono ai ʻoe i ka hānau ʻana ma ka home, paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. “ Akā, ke hāpai ʻo ia i kāna keiki ʻekolu, ʻaʻole hoʻomaʻamaʻa ka pale keiki. 

 Hānau home me kahi kahu hānai Swiss: hōʻole ʻana i ka palekana

"Makemake au e ʻimi i kahi hopena ma Farani," wahi a Maud. Akā ʻo ka pale keiki wale nō i loaʻa iaʻu ma Lyon. Ua mamao loa ia, ʻoi aku no ka hapakolu. ʻAʻole mākou ʻike ʻole, ʻaʻole makemake mākou e waiho i ko mākou ola a i ʻole ko ke pēpē i ka pōʻino. Pono ʻoe e hoʻihoʻi koke ʻia i kahi haukapila. Ma na kamaaina ua huli makou i Switzerland. Ua wehewehe mai kekahi mau kāne iā mākou ua hānau lāua ma ka home, ma Farani, me kahi pale keiki Swiss, a ua uku ʻia lāua me ka pilikia ʻole. Hoʻokahi mahina a me ka hapa ma mua o ke kau, hoʻopili mākou i kēia pale keiki nāna i ʻae. "Ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo nei kēia i ka male ʻaʻole pilikia ka mālama ʻana, ua lawa ka noi ʻana i ka palapala E112. gula, Ua hui ʻia ʻo Maud me kahi hōʻole. ʻO ke kumu: ʻaʻole pili ka pale keiki Swiss me ke kauoha o nā pale keiki Farani. "Ua lilo ʻo ia i pili," wahi a Maud. Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke kiʻi i kēia palapala. ʻAʻole i uku ʻia ka pale keiki no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻonui i ka huina piha. ʻO 2400 euro ka uku no ka mea ua hana wau i kahi hana hoʻopunipuni, kahi i hoʻonui ai i ka bila. Makemake wale mākou e uku hou ʻia ma ke kumu o ka lawe ʻana a me nā kipa ma mua a ma hope o ka hānau ʻana. ”

Ka hānau keiki ma ka haukapila ma Luxembourg: piha piha

Ua hānau ʻo Lucia i kāna kaikamahine mua i ka makahiki 2004, i loko o kahi hale hānai hānai "maʻamau" ma ka ʻāina ʻo Paris. "I koʻu hōʻea ʻana, ua 'aʻahu' iaʻu, ʻo ia hoʻi ke kapa ʻole ma lalo o kahi blouse hāmama ma ke kua, a laila hoʻopaʻa koke i kahi moe e ʻae i ka nānā ʻana. Ma hope o kekahi mau hola, i ka wā i hāʻawi ʻia iaʻu i ka epidural, ua ʻae wau, me ka huhū iki akā ua hoʻomaha. Ua hānau ʻia kaʻu kaikamahine me ka pilikia ʻole. Ua "hōʻino" nā kahu hānai iaʻu i ka pō mua no ka lawe ʻana i kaʻu kaikamahine ma koʻu wahi moe. I ka pōkole, hele maikaʻi ka hānau ʻana, akā ʻaʻole ia ka hauʻoli aʻu i hana ai. Ua hāʻawi mākou i ke kākoʻo haptonomic, akā i ka lā o ka lawe ʻana, ʻaʻole ia he mea pono iā mākou. ” No kāna kaikamahine ʻelua, ʻo Lucia, ka mea i noiʻi nui, makemake e lilo i mea hana keaka i kona wā hānau. Huli ʻo ia i ka haukapila Metz, i ʻike ʻia he "wehe". ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻokipa nā pale keiki aʻu i hālāwai ai i koʻu papa hanau kahi aʻu i wehewehe ai i koʻu makemake e hiki ke neʻe e like me koʻu makemake a hiki i ka hopena, hiki i ka hānau ʻana ma ka ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole i loaʻa nā mea e wikiwiki ai. ka hana hana (prostaglandin gel a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea ʻē aʻe). Akā, i ka ʻike ʻana o ka gynecologist i kēia papa hana hānau, ua kāhea ʻo ia i ka pale keiki e aʻo mai iaʻu inā e hoʻoholo wau e hele i Metz, e like ia me kāna mau ʻano a ʻaʻole ʻole. ” 

Ua hoʻihoʻi hou ʻia nā kūkākūkā ma Switzerland ma ke kumu o ka uku kumu Farani

Ua hoʻoholo ʻo Lucia e hele e hānau ma Luxembourg, i loko o ka hale hānai o ka "Grand Duchess Charlotte", i loaʻa i ka lepili "pēpē-aloha". Kākau ʻo ia i kahi leka i ke kauka lapaʻau o ka CPAM e wehewehe ana i kona makemake no kahi hānau haʻahaʻa kokoke i koʻu home. "Ma kēia leka ua hōʻike au inā kokoke mai nā wahi hānau iaʻu, ʻo ia kaʻu koho mua. “ Ma hope o ke kūkākūkā ʻana i ke kākāʻōlelo lapaʻau aupuni, loaʻa iā ia ka palapala E112 e ʻae ana i ka mālama ʻana. "Ua hānau koke kaʻu kaikamahine, e like me koʻu makemake. Manaʻo wau ʻaʻole au i hoʻonui i nā kumukūʻai no ka mea he ʻaelike ko ka haukapila. Ua uku au i nā kūkākūkā gynecological i uku hou ʻia, ma ke kumu o ka uku palekana. ʻO mākou ma kahi o 3 mau kānaka Palani i kākau inoa ʻia i ka manawa like no nā papa hoʻomākaukau hānau. ”

ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona he nui a ʻo ke kākoʻo ʻokoʻa. ʻO ka mea i manaʻo mau ʻia i loko o kēia mau hōʻike, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka hōʻino ʻia ma hope o ka hānau mua ʻana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau, ka pono maoli no kahi noho maluhia, kahi kākoʻo pilikino a me ka makemake e hoʻopili hou i kēia manawa kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia ka hānau ʻana.

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