ʻO ka manaʻo o nā keiki i nā mākua, ma ke ʻano he kānāwai, ua hana ʻia e nā mākua ponoʻī, ʻoiai ʻaʻole i ʻike mau. ʻO ka mea nui ma ʻaneʻi ʻo ka ʻohana kahi e noho ai ke keiki a hānai ʻia.
He mau mea koʻikoʻi nā mākua no nā keiki, akā ʻaʻole i hānau ʻia ke aloha o nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua a ʻaʻole i hōʻoia ʻia. Ke hānau ʻia nā keiki, ʻaʻole lākou i aloha i ko lākou mau mākua. Ke hānau ʻia nā pēpē, aloha lākou i ko lākou mau mākua ma mua o kou makemake i ka ʻai ʻana i ka ʻāpala. Hōʻike ʻia kou aloha i nā ʻāpala i ka ʻai ʻana iā lākou me ka leʻaleʻa. Hōʻike ʻia ke aloha o nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua i ko lākou hauʻoli i ka hoʻohana ʻana i ko lākou mau mākua. E aloha nā keiki iā ʻoe - akā ma hope ke aʻo ʻoe iā lākou i kēia. I mea e aʻo wikiwiki ai nā keiki i ke aloha i ko lākou mau mākua, pono lākou e aʻo ʻia i kēia. Hoʻomaka nā mea a pau me nā mākua, me ka manawa a me ka ikaika a lākou e hāʻawi ai i kā lākou mau keiki. Me nā kūlana i loaʻa iā lākou, ma ke ʻano he makua; mai ke ʻano o ke ola a lākou e alakaʻi ai - a mai kēlā mau hiʻohiʻona o ka pilina a lākou e hōʻike ai i kā lākou mau keiki me ko lākou ola. Inā he mea maʻamau iā ʻoe ke aloha a mālama i kekahi, inā hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka hauʻoli ʻoiaʻiʻo, a laila ke hoʻokumu nei ʻoe i kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi no kāu mau keiki… See →
ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā makua kāne a me nā keikikāne, ʻoiai i loko o nā ʻohana maikaʻi, e loli ana i nā makahiki. He mea maʻamau kēia ʻano o ke keiki kāne i kona makuakāne: 4 mau makahiki: ʻike koʻu makuakāne i nā mea āpau! Makahiki 6: ʻAʻole ʻike koʻu makuakāne i nā mea a pau. Makahiki 8: He ʻokoʻa nā mea i ka wā o koʻu makuakāne. 14 makahiki: Ua ʻelemakule koʻu makuakāne. 21: ʻAʻohe mea a koʻu ʻelemakule! 25 makahiki: Huhu iki koʻu makuakāne, akā maʻamau kēlā i kona mau makahiki. 30 makahiki: Manaʻo wau e noi ʻoe i kou makuakāne no ka ʻōlelo aʻo. Makahiki 35: ʻAʻole pono wau i hana i kekahi mea me ka noi ʻole ʻana i koʻu makuakāne no ka ʻōlelo aʻo. 50 makahiki: he aha ka hana a koʻu makuakāne? 60 makahiki: He kanaka naʻauao koʻu makuakāne a ʻaʻole au i mahalo. Inā aia ʻo ia i kēia manawa, e aʻo nui wau iā ia. E nana →
ʻO ke kuleana o nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua. Aia anei ia? He aha ia? Hiki iā ʻoe ke pane me ka wiwo ʻole: pono anei i nā keiki ke aloha i ko lākou mau mākua? A pehea ʻoe e pane ai i kekahi nīnau: pono anei e hahai nā keiki makua i nā berita makua?
Pehea e mālama ai i kahi pilina mehana a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ma waena o nā mākua a me nā keiki? E nana →
Halawai me ka makua kāne hou. Ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, hālāwai ka wahine me kahi kāne hou e lilo i makuakāne hou no ke keiki. Pehea e ulu wikiwiki ai nā pilina maikaʻi? E nana →