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😉 Aloha mai i ka poʻe a pau i ʻauwana i kēia pūnaewele! E nā makamaka, ma ʻaneʻi mākou e kālailai i nā ʻano ʻino o nā keiki maikaʻi. Aia ke kānāwai: aʻo nā keiki mai ko lākou mau mākua mai.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike i kāu keiki pehea e hoʻokō ai i kahi kūlana paʻakikī, pehea e aʻo ai i ke kuleana no kāna mau hana, a pēlā aku. Akā me nā ʻano maikaʻi, ke aʻo pū nei mākou i kā mākou mau keiki i nā maʻamau maikaʻi ʻole, me ka ʻike ʻole.
Nā hana maikaʻi ʻole o nā keiki maikaʻi: e nānā i ke wikiō ↓
Nā hana maikaʻi ʻole: pehea e hoʻoponopono ai
Aloha no ka uila
He nui ka poʻe e kamaʻilio me kā lākou mau keiki e pili ana i ka pōʻino o nā hāmeʻa, TV, kamepiula, akā i ka manawa like ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻokuʻu i kā lākou kelepona. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā ʻo ka makuahine a i ʻole ka makua kāne e noho mau ana ma ke kamepiula ma muli o nā pono hana, hoʻokahi mea kēia. Akā inā e nānā ana kekahi makua i kahi hānai pāpaho a pāʻani paha me kahi mea pāʻani, ʻokoʻa loa kēlā.
E ho'āʻo e hoʻopau i nā mea uila mai kou ola ma kahi liʻiliʻi no kekahi manawa a pāʻani i nā pāʻani papa me kāu mau keiki a heluhelu paha i kahi puke.
Kupunipuni
E like me ke kānāwai, hana kēia ma hope o ke kipa ʻana. Hoʻomaka ka poʻe mākua e kamaʻilio ikaika i kekahi, e waiho ana i kahi hoa hana a pili paha i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia, no ka mea e aʻo koke ke pēpē i kēia. Makemake nā kānaka a pau i ka ʻōlelo ʻino, akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻāla i kahi ʻōlelo, a laila mai kamaʻilio i kekahi i mua o kahi keiki, akā hoʻomaikaʻi.
ʻAʻole mahalo
ʻO ka manaʻo mahalo ʻole i ka ʻohana a i ʻole kekahi mea koʻikoʻi. Ke hoʻohiki nei ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, aʻo ʻoe i ke keiki i kēia ʻano. Aia nā ʻohana e hoʻohana ai nā mākua i ka ʻōlelo ʻino, e hoʻohana i ka ʻōlelo ʻino i mua o ke keiki. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, e kamaʻilio pū ʻo ia me kona ʻohana. Hiki i kēia ke pili i kou mau mākua, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo ʻoe.
ʻAiʻai kūpono ʻole
Inā ʻoliʻoli ʻoe i ka ʻai ʻana i ka meaʻai ʻōpala, makehewa ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā keiki ʻo ka ʻōpala, cola, burgers a me ka pizza he meaʻai ʻōpala. E hōʻike ma kāu laʻana pono ʻoe e ʻai pono, a laila e ʻai wale ke keiki i ka meaʻai olakino.
Kaʻa hoʻokele mālama ʻole
ʻIke ka hapa nui o ka poʻe mākua he mea maʻamau ke kamaʻilio ma ke kelepona i ke kaʻa ʻana. Hoʻopilikia kēia i ke alanui a hiki ke alakaʻi i kahi pōʻino. No laila, i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e noʻonoʻo ana kāu keiki liʻiliʻi i kēia hana maʻamau.
Puhi a inu waiʻona
ʻAʻole hiki i ka makua kāne puhi puhi a inu ʻole ke hoʻomaopopo i kāna keiki he mea pōʻino ia i ke olakino. Inā makemake ʻoe e ulu i ke ola olakino mai kāu pēpē, e hoʻomaka me ʻoe iho.
Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe nā nāwaliwali, e hoʻomau i ka hoʻopau ʻana i ʻole e hoʻoikaika kāu keiki i kēia mau ʻano. ʻO ka hānai ʻana i nā keiki i loko o ka ʻohana he hana paʻakikī a make ʻole inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hahai i nā lula āu e hoʻāʻo nei e aʻo.
😉 Waiho i nā manaʻo, nā ʻōlelo aʻo i ka ʻatikala "Na keiki a me nā mākua: nā maʻamau ʻino o nā keiki maikaʻi". Kaʻana like i kēia ʻike me kāu mau hoaaloha ma nā pūnaewele kaiapili. Mahalo!