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1,5% mau makua noho ma ka home ma Farani
ʻEhiku o nā mākua kāne he ʻumi e lawe i kā lākou haʻalele makua ma Farani. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, he kakaikahi ka poʻe i hoʻoholo e hoʻōki i ka hana ʻoi aku ma mua o 11 mau lā e mālama i kā lākou mau keiki i ka pule āpau. No laila, ʻo 4% wale nō o nā kāne e hoʻolōʻihi i kā lākou hoʻomaha makua kāne e lawe a haʻalele hoʻonaʻauao makua. A e like me ka INSEE, ka helu o makua kāne noho ma ka home (i kapa ʻia ʻo PAF) hāʻule i ka 1,5%! Eia nō naʻe, e like me kahi noiʻi i hana ʻia e Sarenza ma 2015 (1), 65% o nā kāne e mākaukau e lilo i kāne ma ka home. ʻO ka pōʻino, he kakaikahi lākou e ʻaʻa. ʻOi loa ke ʻike ʻoe i ka paʻakikī o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā makuahine he kaulike hana-ola maikai, no ka nele o nā wahi hānai, ʻaʻole makemake nā hui e hoʻololi i kā lākou mau hola a i ʻole e hāʻawi i ka hana kelepona. He aha ka mea e kāohi ana i nā makuakāne mai ke koho ʻana i nā keiki ma luna o ke keʻena? ʻO ka makaʻu i ka ulu ʻole. Wahi a ka noiʻi i alakaʻi ʻia e Sarenza, 40% o lākou makaʻu i ka luhi ʻana ma ka home a ʻaʻole manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki ke hana ʻole ...
ʻO ke ala kūpono e hoʻonui ai i kāu mau keiki
ʻO kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hoʻopau koke nā makuakāne noho ma ka home. He 37 makahiki o Rieg. Ua haʻalele ʻo ia i kāna hana no ka mālama ʻana i ka 100% o kāna keiki ʻelua no hoʻokahi makahiki, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻolilo i 12 mau mahina e molowa ana ma kahi mamao loa… Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: “Ua hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo i ke ola o kaʻu wahine i kēlā me kēia lā. ! »A piha« He manawa kū hoʻokahi a ikaika, pono ʻoe e ola i ka piha. Ma mua, ua hoʻopau wau i ka manawa liʻiliʻi me kaʻu kaikamahine hoʻokahi makahiki, a ma hope o kekahi mau lā ma ka home, hiki iā mākou ke hana hou i kahi pilina maoli. Akā ʻo ke koho ʻana o ka noho ʻana ma ka home no ka makua kāne kekahi manawa e pane i ka a manaʻo hoʻokele waiwai. ʻO ka nele i ka hana a i ʻole ka uku haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa ma mua o ko ka makuahine hiki ke kumu i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana o nā kāne iā lākou iho ma kēia ʻano a ma ke kaʻina hana e mālama i nā koina mālama keiki a me kahi hapa o nā ʻauhau. I kēia hihia, e makaʻala i nā hōʻino, no ka mea, ʻo ka mālama ʻana i ke ola o nā keiki i kēlā me kēia lā e pono ai ka ikaika a me ke ahonui 24 mau hola i ka lā. A ʻaʻole loaʻa nā haʻihaʻi a me RTT!
Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka lilo ʻana i makua kāne noho hauʻoli
ʻO Benjamin Buhot, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻo Till the Cat, ka punaewele PAF kaulana loa o ka pūnaewele, ke koi nei i ka pono e lilo i makua noho ma ka home ma ke koho ʻana a ʻaʻole ma ke koi. A i ʻole, nele paha nā mākua i ka rʻike pilikanaka i ka maka o ka poʻe a puni. ʻOi loa inā noʻonoʻo lākou i ke kālā he hōʻailona o ka kūleʻa… Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopilikia i ke koena o nā kāne. ʻO ka makuahine e ʻimi nei i kāna ʻoihana me ka wikiwiki a hilinaʻi i kāna kāne no ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana i nā keiki a me ka hoʻokele ʻana i ka ʻohana, pono e ʻae i ka hāʻawi ʻana i nā hana i manaʻo ʻia he "feminine". I ka pōkole, pono nui ka manao hamama a me ka hilinai like. ʻO kekahi lua e pale aku ai: mehameha. ʻO nā makua kāne noho ma ka home, ʻoiai inā he ʻoihana kā lākou e kamaʻilio mau ai i ke kanaka, makemake lākou e komo i nā hui o nā mākua a me nā hui ʻē aʻe o nā mākua e kūkākūkā i kā lākou mau nīnau a mālama i kahi loulou me ka honua a puni lākou. Hana kekahi mau makua kāne i kahi koho waena a hoʻolohi i ko lākou ola ʻoihana e mālama i kā lākou mau keiki, akā e ʻimi pū kekahi i nā pahuhopu pilikino ʻē aʻe: hana ʻoihana, hoʻomaʻamaʻa hou, papahana hoʻomohala ... makua kāne he hoololi ʻaʻole hoʻi he koho ola no nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. No ka noʻonoʻo ʻana ma ke ʻano he kāne?
No ka mea hou aku…
– Haalele makua ma ka hana
- ʻO ka puke a Damien Lorton: "He makuahine ka makuakāne e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe"
(1) E aʻo "He kāne kāne anei nā ʻoihana e like me nā kāne?", Lawe ʻia e Sarenza me ka hui pū ʻana me Harris Interactive i ka manawa o ka Lā Wahine, ma waena o 500 mau kāne he 18 a ʻoi aku.