ʻO ka makuahine ma Kelemānia: ka hōʻike a Feli

Mai ka hānau ʻana o kaʻu kaikamahine, ua maopopo iaʻu he ʻokoʻa loa ke ʻano o ka nānā ʻana i nā makuahine ʻōpio ma waena o Kelemania a me Farani. “ʻAe, mahalo nui iā ʻoe! I aku au me ka pihoihoi, i ke kupunawahine o ka'u kane ma ka hale hanau. Ua wehe au i kaʻu makana hānau a ʻike me ka pīhoihoi i kahi pūʻulu lole nani. Ua hāʻawi mai ke kupunawahine iaʻu i kēlā manawa i kahi maʻalahi: "ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e poina i kāu kāne ..."

ʻO ka mea liʻiliʻi loa e hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ia ka mea i manaʻo nui ʻia ma Kelemania, kahi i lilo ai nā wahine ʻōpio i hānau hou aʻe i mau makuahine ma mua o nā wahine. He mea maʻamau ka hoʻomaha no nā makahiki ʻelua e hānai i nā keiki. Inā ʻaʻole mākou e hana, ua helu koke ʻia mākou ma ke ʻano he makuahine pono ʻole. ʻO koʻu makuahine, ʻo ka mea mua, ke haʻi mau nei iaʻu e hānau mākou i nā pēpē e ʻike i ko lākou ulu ʻana. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hana. Akā, pono ʻoe e ʻike ua paipai ka ʻōnaehana Kelemania i nā wahine e noho ma ka home mahalo, ʻo ia hoʻi, i ke kōkua aupuni. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole maʻamau ka waiho ʻana i kāu pēpē i loko o kahi kahu hānai a i ʻole ke kula hānai. No ka mea ʻaʻole i hala nā hola mālama ma mua o 13 pm, hiki i nā makuahine ke hoʻi i ka hana ke hana hapa manawa wale nō. Kindergarten (nurseries), i kekahi hihia, hiki ke loaʻa wale mai 3 makahiki.

"E hāʻawi iā ia i ka paracetamol!" »Loaʻa iaʻu ka manaʻo e lohe i kēia ʻōlelo ma ka hana hou ʻana ma aneʻi i ka wā e hū ai kaʻu mau keiki a i ʻole ka wela iki. Haʻohaʻo nui kēia iaʻu no ka mea he kūlohelohe maoli ke ʻano o ka lāʻau lapaʻau ma Kelemānia. ʻO ka mea mua, kali mākou. Ke pale nei ke kino iā ia iho a hoʻokuʻu mākou. ʻO ka lāʻau lapaʻau ka hopena hope loa. ʻO ke ʻano homemade, ʻo ka haʻalele ʻana i nā huahana ʻoihana ʻoi aku ka maʻamau: ʻaʻohe kīʻaha liʻiliʻi, nā mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe organik, nā diapers hiki ke holoi ʻia ... Ma ke ʻano like, huli nā wahine mai ka epidural i mea e ʻike piha ai i kā lākou hānau ʻana. Pono nō hoʻi ka hānai ʻana. Ua ʻōlelo ʻia iā mākou he paʻakikī, akā pono mākou e hoʻomau i nā koina āpau. I kēia lā, mai koʻu manaʻo expat, haʻi wau iaʻu iho aia ka poʻe Kelemania ma lalo o ke koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi. Ua hiki iaʻu me ka manaʻo hewa ʻole, ua hoʻoholo wau e hoʻōki i ka hānai ʻana ma hope o ʻelua mahina no ka mea ʻeha koʻu umauma, ʻaʻole maikaʻi a ʻaʻole ia he mea leʻaleʻa no kaʻu mau keiki a iaʻu paha.

Ma Kelemānia, ʻaʻole pāʻani ka ʻai. Aia ma ka papaʻaina, noho maikaʻi i lalo, he mea nui iā mākou. ʻAʻohe pēpē e ʻakaʻaka me ka mea pāʻani a hoʻokomo mākou i ka puna i loko o kona waha me ka ʻike ʻole. Eia naʻe, ke noʻonoʻo nei ka ʻāina e hoʻonohonoho i nā wahi i hoʻolaʻa ʻia no nā keiki i nā hale ʻaina i hiki ai iā lākou ke hele a leʻaleʻa. Akā ʻaʻole ma ka papaʻaina! Hoʻomaka ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā meaʻai i ka mahina 7 me nā cereals. I ke ahiahi ʻoi aku ka nui, hāʻawi mākou i ka palaoa cereal i hui pū ʻia me ka waiū bipi a me ka wai, ʻaʻohe kō. Ke paʻa ke keiki, hoʻōki mākou i ka ʻōmole. ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa nā waiū o ka makahiki 2 a i ʻole 3.

I kekahi manawa ma Farani, ʻike wau i nā mākua e ʻāhewa ana i kā lākou mau keiki ma ke alanui, ma ka paka, kahi mea e ʻike ʻole ʻia ma Kelemania. Paʻi mākou i nā kamaliʻi ke hoʻi lākou i ka home, ʻaʻole loa i ka lehulehu. Ua paʻi a paʻi lima mākou i kekahi manawa i hala aku nei, ʻaʻole naʻe. I kēia lā, ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana ʻo ka pāpā ʻana i ke kīwī, a i ʻole e ʻōlelo ʻia lākou e hele i ko lākou lumi!

ʻO ka noho ʻana ma Farani e ʻike iaʻu i nā mea ʻokoʻa, me ka haʻi ʻole mai iaʻu ua ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kekahi ala ma mua o kekahi. No ka laʻana, ua koho au e hoʻi i ka hana i ka piha ʻana o kaʻu mau keiki i 6 mahina. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻike wau i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hihiʻo ʻelua: manaʻo koʻu mau hoaaloha Farani e hoʻomaka hou i kā lākou hana a me ka "kūʻokoʻa" i ka hiki ke hiki, ke poina loa ka poʻe ma Kelemania.