ʻO ka makuahine i loko o ka ʻIseraʻela: ka hōʻike a Misvam

"Eia, ʻaʻole noi ʻia nā keiki e maikaʻi."

"Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i keke naʻu no nā keiki 80?" “, i ninau aku ai au i kahi kahu palaoa. I ka ʻIseraʻela, aʻo ʻoe e kaʻana like i ka wā mua. No ka lā hānau o kā mākou mau keiki, kono mākou i kā lākou mau hoa papa āpau (ma ka laulā, he 40 lākou), hele pinepine mai me ko lākou mau kaikunāne a me nā kaikuahine, a i ʻole nā ​​hoalauna. Kūʻai mau ka makuahine o ʻIseraʻela i pāpālua i ka nui o nā baluna a me nā pā plastik, a ʻo ka hapa nui o ka kuke ʻana i hoʻokahi tona keke!

Ua hānau ʻia kaʻu mau māhoe ʻo Palma lāua ʻo Onyx ma Palika ʻelima pule ma mua. He liʻiliʻi loa lākou (ma lalo o 2 kg), a ʻaʻole hanu kekahi o lākou. Ma hope koke o ka hānau ʻana, ua hoʻoneʻe ʻia lākou i kahi haukapila ʻē aʻe. ʻAʻohe mea i wehewehe mai iaʻu. I loko o ka ʻIseraʻela, ua hoʻopuni ʻia ka makuahine ʻōpio: aia nā pale keiki, nā kauka a me nā doulas (nā wahine e hele pū ana me ka makuahine i kona wā hāpai) e hoʻolohe iā ia.

Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia ʻohana kona mau ʻano a me nā lāʻau lapaʻau, ʻaʻohe hoʻokahi ʻano hana. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻaʻole mālama ʻo Ashkenazim, mai nā ʻāina ʻEulopa Hikina, i kā lākou mau keiki ma ke ʻano like me ka Sephardim, mai ʻApelika ʻĀkau. ʻO ka mea mua e hāʻawi i kahi spoonful o ka waiʻona ikaika me ke kō no ka ʻeha o ka ʻōpū (ʻoiai i nā keiki), ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe, he spoonful o ka ʻaila ʻoliva e kūʻē i ka coughs.

Manaʻo nā Pediatricians iā mākou e hoʻomaka i ka hoʻololi ʻana i ka meaʻai me kahi mea ʻono (e like me ka ʻāpala). ʻO wau, hoʻomaka wau me nā mea kanu, nā mea kūlohelohe a me nā kau. I ka makahiki hoʻokahi, ua ʻai mua kaʻu mau kaikamāhine i nā mea āpau, ʻo ka hummus. ʻAʻole paʻa nā manawa ʻai. ʻAi pinepine ma kahi o 10 am, ʻai nā keiki i ka "aruchat esser" (kahi meaʻai) a laila ʻai i ka ʻaina awakea ma ka home. No nā manawa hoʻomaha, hiki ke maʻalahi. ʻAʻole hiamoe nā pēpē i ke awakea, akā mai ke kula kindergarten, ʻaʻole lākou e hiamoe hou. Ua pani ʻia e ka wā mālie. ʻAʻole manuahi nā kahu hānai, hiki i nā hale kūʻokoʻa ke kūʻai i ka like me ka € 1 i kēlā me kēia mahina. A loaʻa iā mākou ke kōkua liʻiliʻi.

ʻAʻole haʻalele wale nā ​​​​pacifiers a me nā mea pāʻani palupalu, ua aʻo ʻia kā mākou mau keiki 4 makahiki i ka mea e hana ai inā he hoʻouka kaua. ʻO kekahi mau makuahine e makaʻala mau, ʻoi aku ka hoʻomaha ma ke ʻano. ʻO kaʻu hoaaloha, i ka wā o nā hakakā hope loa, hoʻi wale mai kahi maʻalahi e peʻe me kahi stroller. Ma laila, aʻo koke ʻoe ʻaʻole e hopohopo a e hoʻomau mau. ʻO ka makaʻu nui o nā makuahine ʻIseraʻela ʻo ia ka pūʻali (ʻo kēlā me kēia makuahine e ʻōlelo ana ua hauʻoli ʻo ia e hoʻouna i kāna mau keiki i ke kaua wahaheʻe!).

I ka manawa like, he nui ke kuokoa o na keiki i ka Iseraela : i ka 4 o ko lakou mau makahiki, hele lakou i ke kula o lakou iho a hele i ka home o ko lakou mau hoa me ka hele ole. I ka wā mua loa, nui kā lākou pane i nā mākua. Ua kuhi hewa pinepine ʻia a ʻike mākou ua lawe maikaʻi ʻia lākou. Akā ʻaʻole like nā ʻano o ka politeness, ʻaʻole pono nā keiki e ʻōlelo "mahalo" i nā mea āpau. Hana kaʻu mau kaikamahine i ko lākou ola, ʻae wau iā lākou e ʻike i ka honua. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomanawanui i kekahi manawa, akā ʻike wau ua hoʻokō lākou a hauʻoli! I Farani, lohe pinepine au i ka ʻōlelo ʻana o nā mākua: “Ke hoʻonui nei ʻoe, e hooki koke! Hoʻokuʻu maʻalahi ka poʻe ʻIseraʻela. Ke kuhikuhi ʻia nei au i kekahi manawa i koʻu palaualelo, akā ʻo ia wale nō ma koʻu ʻāina, ʻaʻole mākou e noʻonoʻo inā he naʻauao ke keiki a ʻaʻole paha. ʻO ka nonsense kekahi hapa o ka wā kamaliʻi. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hele nā ​​mea a pau i laila no kā lākou ʻōlelo aʻo. He manaʻo ko ka poʻe i nā mea a pau a mai kānalua e hāʻawi. Manaʻo wau no ka mea, aia kahi manaʻo nui o ke kaiāulu, me he mea lā he ʻohana nui mākou.