ʻO Libertinism kahi hana moekolohe e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka hilinaʻi. ʻAe ia, i loko o kahi mau, e moe kolohe me nā hoa ʻē aʻe, me ka nīnau ʻole i nā manaʻo. He aha ka libertine a pehea e kau ai i kahi i kāu pilina?

ʻO ka huaʻōlelo ʻo "libertine" e wehewehe i kahi kanaka e noho ana i kahi ala libertine, me ka ʻole o ka mahalo i nā loina i ka ikaika i ke kaiāulu. I kēia lā, pili hou ka manaʻo i ke ʻano o ke ola i loko o ka pālua e komo pū ana i nā leʻaleʻa o ke kino me ke kūʻokoʻa i manaʻo ʻia, a ke nīnau nei i ka manaʻo o ka monogamy.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻae ka libertine iā ia iho e moekolohe me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka mea āna i launa ai. Pili kēia hana i nā kāne a me nā wahine, o nā makahiki a me nā ʻikepili.

He ʻokoʻa ka Libertinism mai ka moekolohe ʻole, ʻoiai ma aneʻi ʻike ʻia ka moekolohe ma waho o ka male e ka hoa ʻē aʻe. Manaʻo nā kāne Libertine i kēia mau huakaʻi e like me ka ʻae a like me ka leʻaleʻa a me ka hoʻokō ʻana i ka wahine, me ka ʻole o ka hoʻoweliweli i kā lāua kāne. 

I loko o kahi libertine, manaʻo ʻia ka manaʻo o ke kūpaʻa ma kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa ma mua o nā kāne monogamous. Ke hāʻawi nei mākou i kēia hana i kā mākou hoa, ʻaʻole ia he mea o ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou ʻaʻole mākou makemake hou, akā i ka mea ʻē aʻe ua lawa ko mākou hilinaʻi i kā mākou pilina a me ko lākou mau manaʻo e hiki ai ke hāʻawi iā lākou i nā mea hou. nā ʻike.

No laila, kau ka libertinism i kahi kūpaʻa ikaika: ʻo ka mea a mākou e pili nei i ka pilina ʻaʻole e loli, a kūpaʻa mau mākou i kēia kāne. Hoʻokaʻawale nā ​​kāne libertine i ka moekolohe o nā manaʻo, a noʻonoʻo i ka pili moekolohe ma waho o kā lāua kāne he mea leʻaleʻa wale nō, kahi leʻaleʻa o ke kino a nā hoa e hāʻawi ai i kekahi i kekahi. Eia nō naʻe, mau ka pili o kā lāua pilina a ma loko o ia e hoʻokō ʻia ai ke aloha a me ke kuko.

ʻO ka Libertinism kahi hana e pono ai ka makemake e nā hoa ʻelua. He ʻano hana ia i loko o ka wahine, a pono e noʻonoʻo pono ʻia ma mua o ka hoʻokumu ʻia ʻana. Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike iā ia me kāu hoa, e hoʻomaka me ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou i ke kumu āu e makemake ai e ʻike i kēia mea me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. E hoʻokumu i kahi kamaʻilio a ʻike inā hoihoi a makemake ʻole kāu hoa.

Hiki ke hana i ka Libertinism ma nā wahi like ʻole. Aia kekahi laʻana nā kalapu a i ʻole nā ​​kī, ʻoi loa i kēia hana, kahi e hiki ai i kekahi ke hui me nā kāne libertine ʻē aʻe. Koho maʻamau kēia ʻano hoʻokumu, a he lālā ʻoe e komo ai iā ia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele ma laila me ke komo ʻole ʻana e nānā, a ʻike inā kūpono kēia hana na ʻoe.

Aia pū kekahi nā noi a me nā pūnaewele e hoʻopili i nā kāne libertine i kekahi me kekahi. ʻO ka mea hope loa, mai poina e pale iā ʻoe iho i ka wā e moekolohe ai me ka poʻe i ʻike ʻole ʻoe i kāu kūlana e pili ana i ka kānana. 

ʻO Libertinism, ʻoiai e ʻae ʻae i nā hoa e launa pū me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, hiki ke lilo i ala e hoʻopau ai i kahi lili. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hoʻolohe ka wahine libertine i nā lula, a pono ka hilinaʻi. Hōʻike nā hoa i kekahi i kekahi i nā mea āpau e pili ana i kā lākou ʻike moekolohe, ʻaʻohe kapu a malu paha. No laila, hoʻopau ia i nā haunaele a me nā lili o ka lili e hoʻokahakaha ai e pili ana i ka pili o ka male hou: eia, ʻōlelo ʻia nā mea āpau i ke ao ākea.

Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole i loko o ka hiki o kēlā me kēia ka libertinism. ʻAʻole kū kekahi poʻe me ka maopopo ʻole hiki i kā lākou hoa ke moe kolohe me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe. I kēia hihia, e lili ka lili ma muli o kēia hana hou. 

ʻO Swinging kahi hana moekolohe e like me libertinism a hana ʻia ma waena o nā kāne ʻelua, me ka nānā ʻole i kā lākou moekolohe. ʻO ka pahuhopu e "hoʻololi" i nā hoa o kekahi kāne me kekahi, ka manawa o ka pilina moekolohe. Hiki i kēia mau mea ke hana i loko o ka lumi like, kahi e ʻike ai nā ipo i kekahi i kekahi: ua kapa ʻia kēia ʻo voyeurism. Hāʻawi ka Swinging iā ʻoe e ʻike i nā ʻano mea hou a hoʻohui i ka mea hou i ka moekolohe o kāu kāne.

ʻO kēia hana, e like me ka debauchery, koi i ka hilinaʻi piha i kāu kāne a i kāu hoa. Pono nō hoʻi ia e ʻoluʻolu me nā kāne ʻē aʻe, no laila ʻaʻohe mea hōʻoluʻolu i ka wā o ka moekolohe. Hāʻawi nā hoa āpau i kā lākou ʻae āpau, a ʻo ka huaʻōlelo kia manuahi: ʻo ka manaʻo e leʻaleʻa a ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa ʻana o kāna hoa.