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Hoʻopuehu ʻia nā keiki, hoʻopuehu i ka ʻike i kahi keiki: he aha ka mea e hana ai
No ke aha ka hoʻopuehu ʻana o nā keiki, palaka a lohi? ʻO kahi nānā ʻole, "ke kau nei i nā ao" ke keiki i lilo i pilikia maoli no nā mākua, a ʻo ka mea moeʻuhane ponoʻī, ka mea hiki ʻole ke kū i kēia hiʻona iā ia iho, ʻehaʻeha loa. Pehea e hoʻokumu ai i nā kumu no ka hana maʻamau ʻole, pehea e loaʻa ai kahi kokoke i ka pēpē? E noʻonoʻo kākou.
No ke aha e noʻonoʻo ʻole ai nā keiki?
I ka makahiki mua o ke ola, manaʻo nui ʻia ka heleleʻi i ke keiki. I ka wā ʻōpio, ʻike ʻole ʻia ka wae ʻike i nā pēpē. Kū ka maka o nā ʻāpana i kēlā me kēia mea makemake iā ia. ʻO ka hiki ke noʻonoʻo i hoʻokahi kumuhana no ka ʻoi aku ma mua o ʻumikūmālima mau minuke i hoʻokumu ʻia e ka makahiki ʻeono.
I ke kaʻina o ka ulu ʻana a me ke ʻano ʻana o ka lolo, nā haunaele haʻahaʻa i kāna hana i kekahi manawa, akā ʻaʻole ia he ʻano like ʻole e like me ka ulu kino ʻole.
E nānā pono ʻoe i kāu pēpē, kona hiki, hūnā ʻia e nā ʻano kūwaho o ka pololei ʻole
Loaʻa ka pilikia o ka hemahema o ka nānā o nā keiki i kēlā me kēia keiki he ʻumi. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole like me nā kaikamahine, ʻelua a ʻoi paha nā keiki kāne i ka makaʻu. Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e makaʻu a holo i ka hale kūʻai lāʻau no nā lāʻau lapaʻau ma muli wale nō o ka lilo ʻana o ka pēpē i kāna mea pāʻani punahele, hoʻopoina i kona lākeke ma ke kula, a i ʻole noho i ka puka aniani, me ka moemoeā e nānā ana i ka honua a puni iā ia.
He aha inā inā hele ʻole kāu keiki?
ʻO ke aloha, ka nānā a me ka mālama mau ʻana i nā keiki ke ʻano kūpono loa, kahi koho i hoʻohiki ʻia i nā lāʻau ʻoi loa. ʻO nā kamaliʻi noʻonoʻo pono ʻole e poina i kekahi mea. ʻO ka mea nui ka hoʻomanaʻo o ko lākou mau mākua i nā mea āpau!
He mea nui e kālailai a kāpae i nā kūlana maikaʻi ʻole āpau e hiki ai ke hopena maikaʻi ʻole i ka naʻau o ke keiki.
inā hele ka pēpē i ka papa mālaaʻo, pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i ka mālama ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā o nā ʻoihana. Inā pono, e ʻike i kahi kula māla me kahi papa hana maʻalahi;
nā hana kula, kahi o ke keiki e hele a manaʻo ʻole ʻole ma muli o ka hyperactivity, he mea pono e pani me ka homechooling. ʻO kahi ʻoluʻolu e ʻae iā ʻoe e hoʻolilo i ke kaʻina hana i mau hana hoihoi me nā mea aʻo;
Hāʻawi nā hana haʻuki i nā manawa kūpono maikaʻi loa no ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana o ka nui o ka ikehu. Ma ke kahua pīpeku a i ʻole ke keʻena haʻuki, ʻo kahi keiki i lilo i mea hoʻonāukiuki e ka hana nui e hiki ke hāʻawi manuahi i kona ikehu ʻole.
E kōkua nā papa ʻōnaehana a me ke kōkua o nā psychologists keiki e hoʻonui i ka noʻonoʻo a me ka hoʻomanawanui. Pono pono e manaʻoʻiʻo i kahi keiki, hoʻohoka a nānā ʻole i nehinei, hiki ke aʻo e kaohi i kāna mau manaʻo i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā.
Ua manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo Jean-Jacques Rousseau ʻaʻole loa e hiki ke hana i nā kāne naʻaupō mai nā keiki inā e luku ʻia nā mea kolohe i loko o lākou. Ua hoʻopuehu loa nā keiki āpau, kākoʻo i kāu pēpē, ke aloha a me ka mālama e kōkua i ka lanakila ʻana i nā ālai āpau i kāna ala.