Ua wehewehe ʻia nā kiʻi a nā keiki i nā mākua

E hōʻike mai iaʻu i kāu kaha kiʻi… E haʻi aku au iā ʻoe ʻo wai ʻoe!

I ka hoʻolālā ʻana o Mathilde i kona hale aliʻi wahine, ua hāʻawi ʻo ia i kona puʻuwai a pau i loko. He ʻōlinolino kona mau kala, piha kona ʻano i ka neʻe ʻana a he ʻakaʻaka loa kona mau hiʻohiʻona. E like me ia! Ua hauʻoli mākou me kona makuakāne i ke kālena o kā mākou mea pena 4 makahiki! », Nā memo me ka mahalo iā Séverine, kona makuahine. ʻAe, hōʻoia ʻo Patrick Estrade, psychologist: " ʻO ka mea e hōʻailona ai i nā kaha kiʻi a nā keiki, ʻo ia ko lākou noʻonoʻo a me ko lākou maʻalahi kupaianaha. ʻAʻole lākou pilikia i nā manaʻo i ʻaelike ʻia. ʻOiai mākou e ʻae iā lākou e hana a lawe iā lākou pākahi (e pale iā lākou mai ka hoʻohuli ʻana i kekahi i kekahi), hoʻokuʻu lākou i ko lākou noʻonoʻo a me kā lākou noʻonoʻo e holo hihiu ma ka makemake o ko lākou manamana lima. »Penikala ʻeleʻele, pastel kala, markers, markers, pena, maikaʻi nā mea a pau no ka hōʻike ʻana i ko lākou mau manaʻo. ʻO ka home kahi kumuhana e hoʻoulu nui i nā kamaliʻi. "ʻOiai mākou he poʻe mākua he mea maʻamau a paʻa i kā mākou moʻolelo. nā keiki, hōʻike lākou i ka wiwo ʻole i ka manawa like me ka mele. E kahakiʻi paha ke kanaka makua i ke ʻano maʻamau o ka hale a i ʻole e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāna e hōʻike ai. E hoʻokuʻu ke keiki i kāna hana maʻamau. ʻAʻole like me ke kanaka makua, ola ʻo ia, ʻaʻole mākaukau e ola. No laila hiki koke ke kaʻina hana kiʻi a manuahi, "wahi a ka psychologist.

E heluhelu pū hoʻi: Ka wehewehe ʻana i nā kaha kiʻi a Baby

Ma ke kiʻi ʻana, hōʻike ke keiki i kona mau manaʻo e pili ana i ke ola

No ka laʻana, hiki i ke keiki ke huki maʻalahi i nā lā ʻelua ma luna o kona hale, ʻaʻole ia he pilikia nona. ʻAʻole ʻaʻa a noʻonoʻo paha ke kanaka makua. Nui nā mea like ʻole i ka hoʻolālā ʻana o nā hale o nā keiki. Aia ka hale triangular, nā puka makani ma luna, ʻaʻole ma ka papahele o ka honua, he puka pōʻai pinepine (e hāʻawi i ka palupalu), i lako me kahi ʻau (no laila hoʻokipa), kahi kapuahi ma ka ʻākau (kakaʻikahi ma ka hema)) a me ka uahi. e hele ana i ka akau (ina he ahi ma ke kapuahi, he mea ia e nohoia ana ka hale. O ka uahi e hele ana ma ka akau, ua like ia me ka mua aku), he -ox i ka hale (hiki ke manaoia he maka). Inā hōʻike ka hale i ke keiki ponoʻī, he mea hoihoi nō hoʻi ke nānā ʻana i ka mea a puni. Aia paha nā lāʻau, nā holoholona, ​​nā kānaka, ke ala e hele ai i laila, kaʻa, loko, manu, māla, ao ... Maikaʻi nā mea a pau no ka haʻi moʻolelo ma loko a ma waho. Ma kēia manaʻo, hāʻawi ke kiʻi o ka hale i ka ʻike e pili ana i ka pilina o ke keiki me ka honua a me nā mea ʻē aʻe.

ʻO ka mea e makemake ai ka psychologist i ke kiʻi ʻana ʻaʻole kona ʻano nani, akā ʻo ka ʻike noʻonoʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi, ka mea a ka hale e haʻi ai e pili ana i ke keiki a me kona ola. ʻAʻole ia he nīnau ma ʻaneʻi o kahi wehewehe psychoanalytic e manaʻo nei e ʻike i kekahi mau hewa a i ʻole nā ​​​​maʻi noʻonoʻo, akā no ke ʻano maoli.

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    Ernest, 3 makahiki

    "Ua hauʻoli wau i ka ʻike o ke kaha kiʻi a Ernest. Ua hewa paha wau, akā manaʻo wau ʻaʻole ʻo Ernest ke keiki hoʻokahi. Aia kahi pilina maikaʻi ma kēia kiʻi. ʻO nā kānaka, nā holoholona, ​​nā kumulāʻau, ʻike mākou i ka trio maʻamau ke noi ʻia ke keiki e kaha kiʻi hale me kahi ʻīlio, ma ka hema o ka hale. Makemake au e poina ʻo ia i ka lā, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i "kope" mai kahi mea nui aʻe. Loaʻa i kona hale kahi hoʻohiwahiwa phallic, akā maopopo loa ua kaha ʻo Ernest i kahi hale. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻole pale kekahi i kekahi. Ma ka ʻaoʻao hema, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ka mea e pono ai he elevator. Noho paha ʻo ia ma kahi papahele kiʻekiʻe? Ma ke kikowaena, ma luna o ka puka, kahi alapiʻi e alakaʻi ana i nā hale i hōʻailona ʻia e nā puka aniani. ʻOiai ʻo nā mea a pau, ʻo ke kaupaku o ka hale he ʻelua pali, e like me nā hale kuʻuna. Makemake ʻo Ernest i ke ola, nā kānaka, ʻoluʻolu ʻo ia i nā kānaka a me nā mea. He mea maʻamau a wiwo ʻole, ʻaʻole ia he hoʻokamani (transparency of the frame). Ua kaulike maikaʻi kāna kaha kiʻi ʻana, e ʻōlelo wau ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia i nā hakakā e ola ai. He ʻano ʻano ʻoluʻolu a aloha paha kona. “

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    ʻO Joséphine, 4 mau makahiki

    "Eia mākou i ka hihia maʻamau o kēlā mau kiʻi hoʻolālā kupanaha i hiki i nā keiki ʻōpio ke hiki, ʻaʻole mālama i nā stereotypes a lākou e hana hou ai ma hope. ʻAʻole nele ʻo Joséphine i ke kumu maoli, ʻike ʻo ia i ka hoʻohiki ʻana iā ia iho. Loaʻa iā ia kona ʻano liʻiliʻi, kona ʻano liʻiliʻi!

    E like me ke kiʻi ʻana a ʻAʻarona, ʻo ke kaupaku ka hale pale. Hoʻohālikelike ʻia ka hale a i ka manawa like, manaʻo wau ʻo "toihuhti" ke kuhikuhi ʻana i ka hale, ke ʻole he ʻōlelo haole, no ka laʻana, ka ʻōlelo Tahiti aʻu i ʻike ʻole ai. A i ʻole, ke ʻōlelo nei mākou he "hale hale" ma "toihuhti"? I kekahi hihia, hōʻike mai ʻo Josephine iā mākou ua ʻike mua ʻo ia i ke kākau ʻana. A ma nā leka nui, e ʻoluʻolu! Manaʻo mākou he moʻolelo aloha e haku hou ʻia kēia kiʻi hale. Hoʻomanaʻo ka ʻaoʻao haʻahaʻa o ke kaha kiʻi i ka puʻuwai. Akā, ua hoʻokaʻawale ʻia kēia puʻuwai mai ka ʻaoʻao waena e like me ke ʻano o ka piko o kahi maka. He ʻāpana o kona ʻohana mamao? 'Ōleloʻo Josephine i kēlā me kēia hihia he mea nui ka hale a he mau maka kona. Noʻonoʻo wau inā makemake ʻoe e nānā i nā mea e hana nei ma kahi mamao, pono ʻoe e piʻi i kahi kiʻekiʻe. Eia kekahi, 6 mau hahau i ka puʻuwai, me he mea lā e pono e kaʻana like me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. No laila, ʻaʻole hōʻike kēia kiʻi i kahi hale, haʻi ia i ka moʻolelo o kekahi e kali ana i kekahi mea a i ʻole kekahi. Ma lalo o ka maka hema, ua kaha ʻia kekahi huinakolu i like kona waihoʻoluʻu me ka piko o ka mea aʻu i kapa ai he puʻuwai. Inā mākou e nānā i ka ʻaoʻao haʻahaʻa (naʻau) a me ka ʻāpana me nā maka, loaʻa iā mākou ka manaʻo inā e hui pū ʻia lākou, inā mākou e hui hou iā lākou, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoponopono i kahi hui, e like me ka hua manu. Ua haʻi mai ʻo Joséphine iā mākou he hale kaʻa ka hale. Manaʻo wau e hoʻomaopopo ʻia kēia kikoʻī ma ke ʻano he pono e hoʻokumu i ka hale i ka lepo, i paʻa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole huki ʻo Josephine i kahi hale, haʻi ʻo ia i kahi hale. Ke ulu ʻo ia, hiki iā ia ke hana i ka hoʻolaha me ka pilikia ʻole. “

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    Aarona, 3 makahiki

    "I ka nānā mua ʻana, he kiʻi kiʻi ia e manaʻo ʻia mai kahi keiki o 2 mau makahiki a 2 a me ka hapa makahiki, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā scribbles ma mua o nā ʻike ʻike ʻia, akā ma ka heluhelu ʻelua, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i kahi hale. He kaupaku, paia. He mea paʻakikī iā mākou nā mākua ke noʻonoʻo he hale ia, aia naʻe ka manaʻo. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻike maopopo i kahi hale i kālai ʻia me ka uliuli, he mea maʻamau iaʻu: ʻo ka hale kahi hōʻailona o ka pale. I ka manawa like, hōʻailona ka hale i ka attic i loko. Hoʻokomo mākou i nā mea i loko o ka hale a mākou e makemake ai e mālama, a i ʻole e mālama i nā lako ma laila. ʻO nā laina polū ʻelua ma ka ʻaoʻao hema a me ka laina ʻeleʻele ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻākau e kahakaha i nā paia o ka hale. Hāʻawi kēia kiʻi i kahi manaʻo o ka verticality, a me ka ikaika. A i kēia makahiki, he mea nui loa kēia. ʻO wau iho, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu makemake maoli ʻo Aaron e kaha kiʻi, makemake paha ʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe? Ua koi ʻia kona lima? I kekahi hihia, ua hana ʻo ia i ka hoʻoikaika a hōʻike i ka manaʻo nui. Hiki iaʻu ke ʻike iā ia e kīkoʻo mai ana i kona alelo me ke kaomi ikaika ʻana i kāna māka. Makemake ʻoe i hale? Eia nō. “

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    ʻO Victor, 4 mau makahiki

    “Eia kahi hale nani loa i hoʻolālā ʻia e Victor. ʻO ka manaʻo holoʻokoʻa ke hilinaʻi nei kēia hale ma ka hema. Hoʻohālikelike pinepine nā puke wehewehe ʻōlelo hōʻailona i ka hema me ka wā i hala (kekahi manawa ka puʻuwai) a me ka ʻākau me ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ke ʻimi nei ka hale o Victor i ka palekana. Inā ʻaʻole ʻo Victor ka lima hema? I kēlā me kēia hihia, aia nā waiwai hōʻailona a pau (me ka stereotype o ka bull's-eye, ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole i hana ʻia e Victor, akā kope ʻia mai kahi mea nui). ʻO ke kapuahi me ka uahi e puka mai ana a hele i ka ʻākau, ʻo ia ke ʻano he ola, noho i loko o kēia kapuahi. Poapuni ka puka (soft access), me ka laka, aole oe e komo pela. Hoʻopili ʻia nā puka makani me nā bays, akā ʻaʻole maopopo mākou i ka mea i huki ʻia ma ka ʻākau o ka puka, he puka makani? ʻO ka puka wale nō ke kala. Ua luhi paha ʻo Victor a makemake e hoʻōki i kāna kiʻi? ʻAʻole pilikia ʻo ia i nā kikoʻī. ʻO ka home kēlā, ʻo wau ka home. He kāne au, ua hana au i hale hoa. ʻAʻole pono e ʻohi i ke awakea a i ka hola ʻelua. Me he mea lā e haʻi mai ana ʻo Victor iā mākou: ma laila ʻoe i noi ai i hale, ua hana wau i hale no ʻoe! “

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    Lucien, 5 ½ makahiki

    “Ma ka hale o Lucien, pono wau e kau i ka plural no ka mea ua huki ʻo ia i ʻelua. ʻO ka mea nui, me ke kapuahi ma ka ʻākau, ʻaʻohe uahi. ʻAʻohe ola ? Malia paha, akā, aia paha ke ola maoli i loko o ka hale liʻiliʻi ma ka attic, me ka makuahine? ʻO ka mea liʻiliʻi, aia i loko o ka hale kupapaʻu me ka kākau ʻana iā Mama (mom?). ʻAʻohe puka mua, he puka aniani ma ka papahele mua. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole iʻikeʻia ka hale maoli i ka hale nui, akā,ʻo ka hale liʻiliʻi, kahi e noho ai kekahi i loko o ka malu, ma ka attic. A laila, ʻo ka bestiary: ʻo nā ʻanuʻu paʻakikī, mau pūʻulu mau, a ʻo ka snail e lawe pū ana i kona hale me ia (ka pūpū). Inā kahakiʻi ʻia ka hale, ʻike maopopo ʻia ka lāʻau. He lāʻau ikaika ia, ikaika ke kumu, a hānai ʻia, ʻoiaʻiʻo cherries… Hele nā ​​lālā i ka hale, ʻaʻohe kānalua ka manaʻo e hānai i ka hale. ʻAʻole nele ka hale i nā mea kāne kāne? ʻAʻohe puka a laka. ʻO ka lumi o loko o Lucien, ʻo ia hoʻi, hōʻike kona ʻāina i kahi palupalu. ʻAʻole pale ka pā, ʻike mākou i loko (papa). ʻO ka hale maoli ka mea liʻiliʻi kahi i kākau ʻia ai ʻo MAM MA. “

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    Marius, 6 makahiki

    "Ke neʻe nei mākou i kahi hui makahiki ʻē aʻe. I ka makahiki 6, ua ʻike mua ke keiki i nā kiʻi o nā hale. A ua hiki iā ia ke huki i ka hoʻoikaika mai ia mea. Mai kēia mau makahiki, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ke ʻano o ke kūkulu ʻia ʻana o nā hale. He mau hale noho liʻiliʻi lākou, hale noho ma mua o nā hale cerebralized, hoʻonohonoho ʻia, noʻonoʻo. Pela, o Marius. Akā ʻoiai nā mea a pau, noho lākou i nā hale i noho ʻia e ka poʻe ʻike ʻole. Ua lawe ʻo Marius i ka pilikia e hana i kahi kiʻi piha. He mea kānalua loa ʻo ia, makemake ʻo ia e hāʻawi lima, ʻo ia ka meticulous a no laila koi. Hoʻokuʻu ʻia ka puka a me he mea lā ke komo ʻia e kahi alapiʻi. Me ia, pono mākou e hōʻoia iā mākou iho. He mea kakaikahi, huki ʻo Marius i ke kapuahi ma ka hema. A piʻi pololei ka uahi. I ole e hoopau i ka manu ma ka akau? No laila mālama ʻo Marius i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Me he mea lā ua kope ʻia ke poʻo o ka pōpoki Minette mai kahi kiʻi ʻē aʻe. Ua "poina" ʻo Marius e huki i kāna kaikaina ʻo Victor - hana ʻole? -. ʻO kēlā me kēia hihia, ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka ʻohana hōkū: makuahine, makuakāne, wau (narcissist, Marius). He ʻaoʻao "ʻo wau mua" kāna, ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻohana. “

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    Ludovic, 5 ½ makahiki

    “He kiʻi kiʻi a ke keiki maʻamau?” Hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ma waena o ka ʻike phallic (kaua) a me ka ʻike sentimental (ahi ahi). He hale kēia e pale ana iā ia iho a hoʻouka. Ma hea e loaʻa ai iā Ludovic kēia hōʻike o ka hale? ʻO kahi liʻiliʻi paha e makemake e hāʻawi iā ia iho i ke ea o kahi kanaka nui, a i ʻole kahi mea liʻiliʻi i ulu wikiwiki? Aia ka ʻike me ka makua kāne mana a i ʻole ka poʻe i ʻoi aku ma mua o ia, ka mana, a i ʻole ka Playstation e moe pū me ia ma kona wahi moe? A ʻo kēlā lā nui ma ka hema, akā ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike. He kāne paʻakikī ke ʻōlelo? A ʻo kēlā hale ʻē aʻe ma ka ʻaoʻao hema, me kona mau maka ʻelua, he aha ke ʻano? ʻAʻole anei ʻo ka hale maoli, ka hale akahai, ka mea e hoʻohālikelike ai i ka hale pā kaua-koa i waenakonu? Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Ludovic e hoʻopā nei ka hale i nā hale ma ka hema, no ke aha? He hale a he kanaka paha. He paio anei ma waena o nā hale ʻelua, a e hoʻopaʻi ʻia nā hale liʻiliʻi ma ka hema? Nui ka symmetry i nā kikoʻī, kokoke i ka nānā. ʻO ka mea kupanaha, ua like kēia mau hale liʻiliʻi ʻehā ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻākau, ua like lākou me nā "hale koa". ʻO kekahi kikoʻī hoihoi: ʻo ka puka ma ʻaneʻi kahi hiʻohiʻona liʻiliʻi o kahi hale. A, kakaikahi ka ʻike ʻia, aia nā puka makani ma lalo. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā wahi āpau, ʻaʻole e hopu ʻia. ʻO ka mea kupanaha ke ʻike ʻia, haʻalele ka uahi ma ke kūpaʻa, e hāʻawi ana i ka verticality ʻoi aʻe i ka holoʻokoʻa (ʻimi no ka ikaika). “

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