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Kalikimaka: nui nā makana no kā mākou mau keiki?
E like me kēlā me kēia makahiki i ka Kalikimaka, e hoʻolilo ka Farani i ka hapa nui o kā lākou kālā no kā lākou mau keiki. Wahi a kahi koho balota TNS Sofres, ʻōlelo nā mākua e loaʻa i kā lākou keiki liʻiliʻi he 3,6 mau makana. I ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, e hoʻonohonoho nā ʻohana iā lākou iho i luna ma o ka hana ʻana he papa inoa piha me ka makemake o na keiki."Noʻu, no kaʻu mau keiki ʻelua, ua hoʻolālā ʻia kahi papa inoa. ʻO ka maʻamau, ʻoki lākou i nā papa inoa a kau i ko lākou mau manaʻo ma kahi ʻāpana pepa maikaʻi. na lakou e hoouna aku ia Santa Claus. Inā nīnau ka ʻohana iaʻu i ka mea e hauʻoli ai lākou, alakaʻi au iā lākou ma kēia papa inoa. Loaʻa iā lākou hoʻokahi makana mai kēlā me kēia kanaka, ʻo ia hoʻi ma kahi o 5 a 6 mau makana i kēlā me kēia ”, hōʻike ʻo Juliette, ka makuahine o nā keiki ʻelua i piha i ka makahiki 3 a me 5. Ua hōʻoia ʻo Monique de Kermadec psychologist, ʻoiaʻiʻo, i ka Kalikimaka, ʻo ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā makana i loko o nā ʻohana he ʻāpana o ka moʻomeheu."Ma nā ʻohana he nui, ua ʻae ʻia nā papa inoa i mea e maʻalahi ai ke kūʻai ʻana, e ʻoluʻolu a ʻaʻole e hōʻino", hoakaka i ka psychologist. Ma kekahi mau ʻohana, loaʻa i nā keiki nā makana he ʻumikumamālima a i ʻole iwakālua.
Nā makana e nā kakini
Ma ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa, hoʻokuʻu nā mākua i ka papa inoa, me ka nīnau ʻole i nā nīnau he nui. E loaʻa nā keiki e like me ka nui o na makana e like me ka poe e noho nei, a ʻaʻole paha, i ka lā 24 o Dekemaba. “Ua loaʻa i kaʻu keiki nā makana ma waena o 15 a me 20, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka wā e hele mai ai kona mau kūpuna no ia hanana. Ma hope iho, lawelawe nā makana i ka Kalikimaka iā ia i ka makahiki holoʻokoʻa. Eia kekahi, ʻike ʻo ia i nā mea pāʻani hou i nā mahina ma hope o Dekemaba 25, "wahi a Eve, ka makuahine o kahi keikikāne 5 a me ka hapa makahiki. Moʻolelo like no Pierre, makua kāne o Amandine liʻiliʻi, 3 makahiki. “Me ka makuahine, hana mākou ma ka papa inoa no ka Kalikimaka. Hāʻawi mākou i nā ʻohana ma nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua, a mākou e manaʻo ai e makemake kā kā mākou kaikamahine. A he ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻopau ʻo ia me ka ʻumikūmālima mau makana i ka pō Kalikimaka, maʻamau hoʻokahi i kēlā me kēia kanaka. Pēlā nō. Ke nānā nei ʻo ia i kahi mea pāʻani, ʻaʻole pono ka mea nui loa, no nā lā mua. I ka wā hoʻomaha Kalikimaka, paipai mākou iā ia e pāʻani me nā mea pāʻani āpau ”.
No Monique de Kermadec, kanaka kālaiʻike, ʻo ka mea nui ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka leʻaleʻa me ka helu ʻole. "ʻAʻohe kānāwai paʻakikī a wikiwiki hoʻi. ʻOi aku ka nui o kekahi mau ʻohana ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka waihona kālā, "wahi āna. Ke koho nei kekahi mau makuahine hoʻolaha i ka papa inoa makana ma kahi pūnaewele komo. "Ua hana wau i kahi papa inoa ma ka pūnaewele mesenvies.com no kaʻu mau keiki liʻiliʻi ʻelua. A laila, koho kēlā me kēia lālā o ka ʻohana i hoʻokahi makana a ʻoi aʻe paha, i maopopo iā lākou ke kuhikuhi pololei a loaʻa kahi mea no kēlā me kēia. Hoʻonui hou ka papa inoa. Akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hao ʻia lākou! », wehewehe ʻo Claire, he makuahine ma Facebook.
No ke aha kēia mau mauna makana?
"Me he mea paʻakikī ke hāʻawi i ka helu kūpono o nā makana i kēlā me kēia keiki," wahi a Monique de Kermadec. Eia naʻe, kuhikuhi ʻo ia i ka nui o nā makana.“Makemake nā mākua e hana i kēia e hōʻike i ka nui o ko lākou aloha. Hoʻopili ke keiki i ka makana, ka mea kūʻai aku me nā hōʻailona o ke aloha », ho'ākāka i ka psychologist. "He mea nui ka wehewehe ʻana o ka makua i ke keiki ʻo ka nui o nā makana a me ke kumukūʻai ʻaʻole ia he hōʻike maoli o ko lākou aloha. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia ʻohana kona mau kuʻuna a me kāna ʻano ponoʻī. Pono nā mākua e koika mea nui o ke aloha, ke alo o ka ʻohana a me nā manawa i hui pū ʻia », wehewehe ka loea. ʻO ia hoʻi ka nānā ʻana o kekahi makuahine ʻo Geraldine, ka mea ma mua o nā mea āpau e makemake i kāna mau keiki e loaʻa i nā mea kupanaha a e noʻonoʻo lākou i ka waiwai o nā mea. “He ʻelua aʻu mau kaikamahine i piha i ka makahiki 8 a me 11. Hana lāua i kahi papa inoa maikaʻi no Santa Claus. Heluhelu pū mākou a ʻae wau iaʻu iho e hana i kahi koho mua, ma ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "paha", Santa ʻaʻole hiki ke lawe mai i nā makana he nui. Me kaʻu kāne, lawe mākou i ka papa inoa a hāʻawi mākou i nā makana ʻaʻole ma luna. Pono kēia mau mea kupanaha iā lākou. Eia kekahi, makemake mākou e hoʻomaopopo lākou i ka waiwai o nā mea a ʻaʻole mākou makemake e popopo lākou. Makemake mākou iā lākou e hauʻoli i kēlā me kēia makana a pāʻani iā ia e like me ka hiki ”, kiko'ī ka makuahine.
ʻO kēia hoʻi ka manaʻo o ka psychologist. « E hoʻolohe i kāu keiki i loko o ka makahiki, nā mahina ma mua o nā lā hoʻomaha. E kākau i kāna mea i makemake ai, me ka wikiwiki ʻole e kūʻai. E noʻonoʻo mau a e noʻonoʻo i ka waihona kālā ʻohana », Ua hoakaka ia. Paipai ʻo ia i ke koho ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi a i ʻole nā mea nani, e hoʻopiha i kahi makana nui aʻe.
“Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia ʻohana kāna mau kuʻuna a me kāna ʻano ponoʻī. Pono nā mākua e koi ke koʻikoʻi o ke aloha, ka noho ʻana o ka ʻohana a me nā manawa i hui pū ʻia », Wehewehe ʻo Monique de Kermadec, keiki psychologist.
E hāʻawi i ka loina
No ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kāu keiki ʻaʻole ʻo Kalikimaka ka manawa e kūʻai nui ai, he mea nui e hoʻomākaukau i kekahi mau mea liʻiliʻi me ia e hauʻoli ai. “E hana i nā mea hoʻonani no ka lāʻau Kalikimaka me ka muli loa, nā makana na ke kupunawahine a i ʻole ʻanakē Isabelle, e hoʻomoʻa i nā kuki a i ʻole nā keke. Hoʻopili iā lākou i ka wā hiki iā ʻoe a haʻi iā lākou i ka manaʻo o ka hāʻawi ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, "wahi a ka loea. Hoʻohui ka psychologist e hiki i nā mākua ke "noi i ke keiki e koho i kahi makana liʻiliʻi e hāʻawi ʻia i kahi keiki ʻilihune. Hiki ke koho ʻia kēia mai nā mea pāʻani kahiko i hoʻokuʻu ʻia akā i ke kūlana maikaʻi, a lawe ʻia mai nā makana i loaʻa ".
La heluhelu anaʻO kahi manawa pōmaikaʻi ʻē aʻe kahi e hiki ai iā mākou ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea a mākou e hāʻawi ai no ka Kalikimaka. "Hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻohana i nā moʻolelo a i ʻole nā moʻolelo e haʻi i nā leka koʻikoʻi, akā e haʻi pū kekahi ke kilokilo o nā manawa ʻoliʻoli a me nā hui ʻohana no kā lāua keiki ”, hoʻopau ʻo Monique de Kermadec.