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Nā kiʻi kiʻi a ke pēpē, nā makahiki ma ka makahiki
I ka ulu ʻana o kāu keiki, e ulu ana kāna maʻi penikala! ʻAe, ʻoi aku ka ulu ʻana o kona naʻauao, ʻoi aku ka nui o kāna mau kaha kiʻi i ke ʻano a hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo. ʻO Roseline Davido, ka loea i ke kula, wehewehe iā ʻoe i nā ʻano like ʻole o ke kiʻi ʻana i nā kamaliʻi ...
Kii Pepe
Ke kaha kiʻi a ke pēpē: hoʻomaka ia me kahi… stain!
Hiki ke pena ma mua o ka makahiki! Wahi a Roseline Davido, psychoanalyst a loea i nā kiʻi kiʻi a nā keiki, " ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona mua o nā keiki ʻo ia nā kiko a lākou e hana ai i ka wā e hopu ai lākou i ka pena, ka niho niho a i ʻole kā lākou porridge “. Eia naʻe, ʻo ka manawa pinepine, ʻaʻole ʻae nā mākua i kā lākou keiki liʻiliʻi e loaʻa i kēia ʻano ʻike ... no ka makaʻu i ka hopena!
Nā palapala kākau mua a ke pēpē
Ma kahi o 12 mahina, hoʻomaka ke kamaliʻi e doodle. I kēia wā, makemake ʻo Baby e kaha i nā laina ma nā ʻaoʻao āpau, me ka ʻole o ka hāpai ʻana i kāna penikala. A ʻo kēia mau ʻano hoʻolālā like ʻole ke ʻike nui ʻia. A no ke kumu maikaʻi, "ke kākau ʻo ia, hana ke keiki i kahi projection nona iho. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, hāʻawiʻo ia i kāna "me", e lilo ka penikala i ka hoʻonui pololei o ka lima. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻo nā kamaliʻi hauʻoli i ke ola ʻana e kahakiʻi i nā ʻāpana āpau, ʻaʻole like me ke keiki paʻa ʻole a maʻi ʻole paha. Eia naʻe, E hoʻomanaʻo i kēia makahiki, ʻaʻole paʻa pono ke keiki i kāna penikala. ʻO ka "me" i hāʻawi ʻia no laila ua "pilikia".
ʻO ka hana doodle
Ma kahi o 2 mau makahiki, hele ke keiki i kahi pae hou: ʻo ka hana doodling. He ʻanuʻu nui kēia no ka mea ua lilo ke kaha kiʻi o kāu keiki me ka manaʻo. ʻO kāu keiki liʻiliʻi, e hoʻāʻo nei e paʻa i kāna penikala maikaʻi, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohālike i ke kākau ʻana a ke kanaka makua. Akā wikiwiki loa ka manaʻo o nā kamaliʻi. Hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa kahi manaʻo ma ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kā lākou kaha kiʻi a hoʻololi iā ia ma ke ala. I kekahi manawa, ʻike ke keiki i ke ʻano o kāna kaha kiʻi ma ka hope loa. He mea like paha ia a i ʻole kona manaʻo i kēia manawa. A inā ʻaʻole makemake kāu keiki liʻiliʻi e hoʻopau i kāna kaha kiʻi, ʻaʻole ia, makemake wale lākou e pāʻani i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. I kēia makahiki, paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i ka mea like no ka lōʻihi.
ʻO ka ʻūhā
Ma kahi o 3 makahiki, ʻoi aku ke ʻano o nā kiʻi a kāu keiki. ʻO kēia ka wā tadpole kaulana. "Ke huki ʻo ia i ke kanaka," (e hōʻike ʻia e ka pōʻai e hana ana ma ke ʻano he poʻo a me ke kumu, hoʻopili ʻia me nā lāʻau e hōʻailona ai i nā lima a me nā wāwae), "ʻo ia ka mea liʻiliʻi", wehewehe ʻo Roseline Davido. ʻOi aku ka nui o kona ulu ʻana, ʻoi aku ka kikoʻī o kāna kāne: ʻike ʻia ke ʻano o ke ʻano ma ke ʻano o ka pōʻai lua, a ma kahi o 6 mau makahiki ua ʻōlelo ʻia ke kino..
Hōʻike ka loea e hiki i ke kāne tadpole ke nānā i ke ʻano o ke keiki. Akā, e hiki wale ana ʻo ia i laila ke ʻike ʻo ia i ka schema o kona kino, ʻo ia hoʻi "ke kiʻi i loaʻa iā ia o kona kino a me kona kūlana ma ke ākea". ʻOiaʻiʻo, e like me ka psychoanalyst Lacan, ʻo ke kiʻi mua i loaʻa i ke keiki iā ia ua ʻāpana. A hiki i kēia kiʻi ke hoʻomau i nā keiki i hoʻomāinoino ʻia. Ma kēia hihia pololei " keiki, a hiki i 4-5 makahiki, wale scribble, hoole lakou i ko lakou kino. He ala ia e ʻōlelo ai ʻaʻole lākou he kanaka, "hoʻohui ʻo Roseline Davido.