ʻO nā mea a pau i hūnā ʻia mai iā mākou e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana

E hōʻino wau i ka pale keiki .. A me kaʻu hoa!

ʻO mākou paha ke kaikamahine maikaʻi loa ma ka honua, i ka wā e pili ana i ka ʻeha, ʻaʻohe mea e like me ... No laila, hoʻomaka kekahi mau wahine, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ka hoʻokalakupua iā lākou iho, e hōʻino i kā lākou hoa pili copiously a hoʻohiki e like me nā kaʻa. i ka wā hānau. Mai makaʻu, ʻike pono nā kahu mālama i kēia ʻano hana, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he epidural. Ua hōʻoluʻolu mākou, ke ʻike mākou ua nānā nā neuro-psychologists i kēlā ʻo ka hoʻohiki ʻana i ka wā ʻeha e hoʻohuli i ka lolo mai ka ʻeha. No laila… e hoʻokuʻu mākou? No ka poʻe hilahila, hiki ke hana i loko o ko lākou poʻo, a hana pū kekahi!

No ke kākoʻo ʻana i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa a hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo o ka lolo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ka sophrology, hypnosis, etc.

E lilo hou au i holoholona

Inā he manawa e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ai kā mākou holoholona, ​​ʻo ia i ka wā hānau. 

"ʻO nā wahine momona a pau e hānau ana, hoʻokaʻawale lākou iā lākou iho i kahi mālie, i ka pōʻeleʻele," wehewehe ʻo Nicolas Dutriaux, kahu hānai. "I ka wā o ka hānau ʻana ma ka home, hoʻokomo ka makuahine hāpai iā ia iho i kekahi manawa i nā kūlana acrobatic e kōkua i ka pēpē e puka mai i waho: no ka mea ʻo ia ka mea i ʻike / manaʻo i ka holomua o kāna pēpē e puka i waho. ʻO ka uē hiki iā ia ke hana he hohonu a he puʻu, ikaika loa. 

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, i ka wā e hānau ai mākou i loko o ka hale hānai, makemake mākou e hōʻole i kēia "ʻike" o ka makuahine e hiki mai ana. Ma ka haukapila, nā protocols e kāohi i kēia kūʻokoʻa. »ʻOiai inā heʻuʻuku a emiʻole kaʻoiaʻiʻo aʻo nā hui 

e hana i ka mea maikaʻi loa e ʻae i kēia kūʻokoʻa i nā wahine e hahai a hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo ...

E ʻike: I kēia lā, ke kāhea nei nā palekeiki i nā hoʻoponopono he nui, me ka ʻōnaehana uku o ka haukapila. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole i helu ʻia ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka noho ʻana ma hope o ka mea maʻi i ka wā hana, me ka ʻole o ka hana ʻenehana (ʻaʻole peri, ʻaʻole suture, etc.). No laila, he hana ʻike ʻole ia… ʻoiai inā lōʻihi ka lā a pau i kekahi manawa!

 

E hele ana au i ka hypershirst

He mea ʻeha ke ʻike aku i kāu hoa kāne e inu mālie ana i ka ʻumeke ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi noe liʻiliʻi! Ke hoʻomau nei kekahi mau makuahine Farani i ka pāpā ʻana i ka ʻai a me ka inu ʻana i ka wā hānau. No ka pale ʻana, i ka hopena o ka maʻi maʻi maʻamau (kakaikahi loa me ka hōʻea ʻana o ka spinal anesthesia) ʻaʻole e piʻi aʻe nā mea o ka ʻōpū a ʻaʻole e laha i loko o ka māmā. Eia nō naʻe, ma 1996, ka French Society of Anesthesia (i hōʻoia ʻia e ka HAS ma 2017) ua ʻae ʻia ka inu ʻana, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea inu kō, i ka wā o ka hana ʻana, me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana he liʻiliʻi loa ka pilikia i ʻole e hoʻonele i ka wai i ka wā o ka hoʻoikaika kino o ka hānau ʻana, a ʻo kēia me ka nānā ʻole i ka manawa o ka hana a me ke kipaku ʻana. "Ua like ia me ka noi ʻana i kahi mea pāʻani pōpeku ʻaʻole e ʻai a inu ʻole ma mua o ka pāʻani, a i ʻole ʻoe e hōʻole ʻole e hana i kahi ulia kaʻa… no kona haʻalele ʻana i ka hale ʻaina!" », Quips Nicolas Dutriaux.

No ka hele hou aku, heluhelu mākou ʻO ka pani ʻana ʻO kahi puke comic na Mathou (screenplay) a me Sophie Adriansen (designer) ed. Ka mua

E kiola ana au

He aha ka "beans" no kēlā mau kīʻaha liʻiliʻi a pepa pahu paha āu e ʻike ai ma ka mater? E ohi i ka luai o na mai! E luaʻi kekahi o mākou i nā wā hana like ʻole, ʻoiai ke neʻe mai ka pēpē. ʻO Paradoxically, he nūhou maikaʻi kēia. ʻOiaʻiʻo, inā ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu loa, ʻo ka hoʻoikaika ʻana o ka luaʻi ʻana, ma ka hoʻonui ʻana i ke kaomi ʻana o ka ʻōpū, hiki ke kōkua i ka pēpē e holomua a hiki i ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka hānau ʻana.

'Ōlelo Aʻo: ʻo ka luaʻi ʻana he hōʻailona ia ʻaʻole i ʻae maikaʻi ʻia ka epidural, ʻoi aku hoʻi inā hele pū ʻia me ke poʻo.

 

 

ʻIke au i kaʻu pēpē hypermoche (A hilahila wau ke noʻonoʻo pēlā!)

Akā, he aha kēia iwi poʻo? A ʻo kēlā kala ʻulaʻula e like me ka ula? E hoʻihoʻi mai iaʻu i kaʻu pēpē maoli! (ʻO ka mea ma ka Baby Cadum ad.) No ka hapanui o mākou, aia kahi ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka pēpē moeʻuhane, aia i loko o ko mākou ʻōpū, a me ka pēpē maoli a mākou i ʻike ai. Hoʻonui hou ʻia kēia āpau i kekahi mau wahine i ʻike i ka hānau ʻana me ka makaʻu (ke ʻōlelo nei mākou he puʻupuʻu). He mea paʻakikī loa iā lākou ke launa hou me kā lākou pēpē ke puka lākou i waho. ʻAʻole pono e hopohopo, ʻaʻohe mea e hilahila ai: e kamaʻilio wale me kahi ʻoihana perinatal (psychologist, etc.) ka mea maʻalahi i kēia mau nīnau. E hoʻi koke nā mea a pau ... a ʻike mākou ʻo kā mākou keiki ka mea nani loa. (A i ʻole! LOL!)

Mehameha loa au

Ua moe mākou i kahi hui mālama, akā ʻokoʻa ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Ma nā halemai hānai Farani, hoʻokele maʻamau ka poʻe loea hānau i ʻekolu a ʻehā paha i ka manawa like. "Ke mālama nei ka pale keiki i kekahi manawa i nā kūkākūkā pilikia, a ʻo ia wale nō i kekahi manawa e hoʻokomo i nā helu o nā hāpai ʻana i ka nui. "I kēia hihia, paʻakikī ka manaʻo ʻole a haʻalele ʻia, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole hiki i kā mākou hoa ke hele pū me mākou, koi ʻo Covid-19. "He pilikia ia, wahi a Nicolas Dutriaux, no ka mea, hoʻonui ke koʻikoʻi i ka hana ʻana o cortisol, ka mea e pale ai i ka oxytocin maoli. Kōkua kēia hormone i ka holomua maikaʻi o ka hana. ʻO ka makaʻu e pili ana i kēia kaʻawale hiki ke hoʻonui i nā hola hana. ”

 

 

Consulting : Inā ʻoe hoʻokahi no ka ʻōlelo hana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe iho-hypnosis, a i ʻole e like me ke ʻano o ka pale keiki ʻo Ariane Seccia, hoʻohana ʻoe i nā "mea hana liʻiliʻi" e like me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kahi "anuenue o ke aloha", e hoʻopili ai iā mākou i kā mākou hoa a i ʻole. kā mākou pēpē inā mākou e kaʻawale mai iā lākou ma hope o ka hānau ʻana.

 

 

E poop au i ka manawa hope o ka hana

Aloha aloha! I ka hoʻomaka ʻana e iho i loko o ke pelvis i ka manawa hope o ka hana ʻana, kaomi ke poʻo o ke pēpē i ke kiko. Ua like ia me ka paipu o ka toothpaste, hoemi ia i na feces ma laila. “ I kekahi mau lā ma mua o ka hānau ʻana, aia ka wikiwiki o ka transit, a ʻo ka hapa nui o ka manawa, he liʻiliʻi ka nui ", wehewehe ʻo Nicolas Dutriaux. Inā pēlā, mai hopohopo, na nā palekeiki e hoʻoponopono, me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā compresses wela, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe koke lākou iā mākou. Inā paʻa maoli ia iā mākou, hiki iā mākou ke noi i kahi ʻōlelo no ka laxative suppository e haʻalele ma mua o ka hānau ʻana.

 

Hiki iaʻu ke loaʻa kahi orgasm

E hiki mai ana ka hānau keiki orgasmic, ʻaʻole ia he moʻolelo. leʻaleʻa i ka wā o ka hana ʻana, ʻoiai ka loaʻa ʻana o ka orgasm i ka wā e puka mai ai ke pēpē, hiki. Pehea? 'A'ole' He aha ? Hoʻokomo ʻia ka hānau keiki ʻana i nā kino like… He mea weliweli paha ia, akā, inā i loko o kā lāua huʻihuʻi, inā manaʻo mākou ua wehe lākou i ka pilikia, aʻo mākou i ka wahine e masturbate, e hoʻohuli i ka lolo mai ka ʻeha. Maikaʻi nā ala a pau!

* Inā makemake mākou i ke kumuhana, heluhelu mākou "E hānau ʻoe me ka hauʻoli" ma Mama Éditions, mai Dr Marie-Pierre Goumy, kauka lapaʻau, nāna i hoʻokolohua me ia!

»Ma ka wati, ʻaʻohe mea i hana ʻia no ka pono o nā mākua! “ 

"ʻO kaʻu mea kahaha nui ʻaʻole i kūpono ka hale hānai a i ʻole ke keʻena kino i nā mākua a me nā keiki hānau hou. Nui ka walaʻau, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaha, hoʻāla ʻia au i koʻu hiamoe ʻana, no ka ʻauʻau ʻana a i ʻole ka mālama pēpē, ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa ka meaʻai (Ua pōloli au a ua kuleana wau i ka ʻāpala no kaʻu meaʻai!) . No kaʻu lua, ua hānau au ma ka home, aia he niu maoli! »Anne, makuahine o Hélio a me Nils

Ma ka wikiō: Video: hānau keiki ma ke kaʻa

 

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