ʻO kahi makuahine o ʻekolu mau keiki ʻaʻole i haku wale i ka papa 1 me kāna keikikāne, akā ua paʻi pū kekahi i puke e kōkua ai i nā mākua ʻē aʻe.
ʻIke nā mākua o nā haumāna mua i ka paʻakikī o ke keiki e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ke kula. Akā ʻoiai ʻo nā makuahine i koho i ka aʻo ʻohana no kā lākou keiki e ʻike koke ia, i kūlike ʻole i nā mea i manaʻo ʻia, ʻaʻole kōkua koke nā "paia ma ka home". Ua hoʻoholo ʻo Evgenia Justus-Valinurova e aʻo kāna mau keiki ʻekolu i ka home. Ua noʻonoʻo ʻo ia e pili ana i kēia ma Bali: ma laila i hele ai kāna mau keiki i ke Kula ʻōmaʻomaʻo no ʻelua mau makahiki - kahi hale aʻo kū hoʻokahi kahi e mālama ʻia ai nā papa ma ke ʻano a me nā hale ʻohe. ʻO Ramil Khan, ke keiki hiapo a Evgenia, i kēia mau lā e hoʻomaka i ke aʻo ʻana i ka papahana papa ʻelua. Ua haʻi ka makuahine ʻōpio e pili ana i ka makahiki o ka homechocker papa mua ma kāna puke "Nā ʻanuʻu mua i ka ʻohana ʻohana".
"He paʻakikī loa kā māua ʻo Ramil Khan i 2 mau mahina mua. I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke kū: walaʻau au iā ia, hōʻino. Akā he kanaka ola wau, a he ʻike hou loa kēia naʻu - e aʻo nei. A he mea ʻokoʻa iā ia ke lanakila iā ia iho, kākau, heluhelu ke makemake ʻo ia e pāʻani. ʻAe, a hilahila nō hoʻi: ke aʻo nei ʻo ia, a pāʻani nā ʻōpio i kēia manawa, frolic i ka lumi like. Hoʻopili ʻia kēia mau mea āpau i kahi loli o kahi noho, ke aniau, ke kaiapuni. "Sausage" aʻo ia, aʻo wau i ka piha!
'Advicelelo Aʻo mua: i nā manawa ke hoʻonāukiuki a huhū nā mea āpau, e hoʻohuli wale i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi no kāu keiki a hāʻawi iā ia i ka manawa kūpono e hana ai i kāna makemake. A hana i ka mea like me ʻoe iho. Lilo. Hoʻomaha. E kali ka honua holoʻokoʻa.
Ke hoʻomaka nei koʻu lunamanaʻo e ʻehaʻeha iaʻu i ka nānā ʻana o kahi keiki i nā kiʻi ʻoniʻoni no ka lōʻihi, e pāʻani ana me iPad. Pono ʻoe e ʻae me ʻoe iho no ka maikaʻi kēia. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi inā holo ʻo ia i kahi makuahine huhū a i ʻole "lapuwale" i hoʻokahi hola ma kahi hana. Eia kekahi, nānā kaʻu mau keiki i nā kiʻi paʻi kiʻi i ka hoʻomohala a i ʻole i ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, no laila he mea pono kēia. Hoʻohiki wau iaʻu iho i ka lā ʻapōpō e noho mākou me ia a i loko o 5 mau minuke e aʻo ai mākou i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i ia mau pilikia. Paakiki, akā ua hoʻololi ʻia.
ʻ advicelelo aʻoaʻo ʻelua: inā ua haʻalele ʻoe i ka ʻōnaehana kula ʻoʻoleʻa, a laila e hoʻohana i nā mea maikaʻi o ka home. Kūlana maʻalahi, no ka laʻana.
ʻO ke kumuhana mua a mākou i hoʻomaka ai e hoʻopaʻa me Ramil Khan ʻo "The World Around". Mahalo i ka hoihoi i kupu aʻe, ua hele a liʻuliʻu i ke aʻo ʻana i nā kumuhana ʻē aʻe. Inā wau i kau i ka kākau a heluhelu paha i ka manawa koke, hoʻonāwaliwali au iā ia mai ke aʻo ʻana.
ʻ threelelo aʻoaʻo ʻekolu: e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kumuhana a kāu keiki e hoʻomaka ai e aʻo me ka hauʻoli nui, a hoʻomaka me ia.
ʻO Ramil Khan ma ka Hale Hōʻikeʻike Archeology ma Athens
Hōʻoiaʻiʻo wau i kekahi manawa ua kamaʻilio wau e pili ana i ka mea mālama hale i hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e aʻo e heluhelu a kākau. A manaʻo ʻole wau he mea weliweli ia. He ʻoiaʻiʻo - hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kahu hale. A, ma ke ala, ua noʻonoʻo ke keikikāne iā ia a laila hoʻomaka i ke aʻo ʻana. Makemake loa ʻo ia e hemo i ka hau a me nā ʻōpala.
Manaʻo ʻehā: hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i nā puke akamai a aʻo mai iā lākou pehea ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe. Akā ʻike wale ʻoe i ka mea e holo pono ai kāu keiki. ʻO ka mea nui ʻo ia nō ʻoe e ʻike i kāu ʻano aʻo e hōʻeha ʻole iā ia.
Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia keiki kāna kumu ponoʻī e makemake ʻole ai e aʻo. Maliʻa paha i kekahi manawa ua kaomi ikaika ʻia ʻo ia, a he kūʻē kēia i ka hana ʻino. Malia paha ua nele ʻo ia i ka maka o ka makua, a ua hoʻoholo ke keiki e loaʻa i kēia ala: E hōʻeha a maikaʻi ʻole wau - e kamaʻilio pinepine koʻu makuahine iaʻu. Maliʻa o nānā hou ke keiki i nā palena o ka ʻae ʻia. Hoʻoikaika nā keiki e kāohi i ko lākou mau mākua, ʻoiai mākou e hoʻāʻo mau ai iā lākou.
ʻ advicelelo aʻoaʻo ʻelima: inā mālama kāu kuleana me kahi keiki i ka ʻole a kau ʻo ia i kahi pōpoki i kahi kiʻekiʻe ma mua ou, a laila aia kahi hana e hoʻonui ai i kāna hilinaʻi iā ʻoe. Eʻoi aku ana i hoʻokahi lā a ʻaʻole e hōʻike kupua ma Kepakemapa 1st.
He aha inā makemake ʻoe e haʻalele i nā mea āpau a hoʻi i ke kula?
Loaʻa i nā homecchools āpau kēia mau manawa. ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi, a inā i pili kēia iā ʻoe no ka manawa mua, a laila hiki iaʻu ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā ʻoe - ʻaʻole no ka hope loa. Hana ʻia ia i nā mea āpau āpau, ʻeā? I kekahi manawa makemake ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu hana, ʻoiai ʻo ia kāu punahele a lawe kālā. I kekahi manawa makemake ʻoe e haʻalele i ka ʻai olakino a me nā gorge ma nā pōpō a me nā pā. I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hele e hana i ka yoga, ʻoiai ʻike ʻoe he lawe mai ia i ka maluhia a me ke olakino maikaʻi.
E ʻike pono ke hana pono nei ʻoe i nā mea āpau a he wā wale nō kēia, pono ʻoe e ʻike akāka i ke kumu e pono ai ka ʻike ʻohana, inā ʻaʻole ia e kūʻē i kāu (a me kāu keiki) waiwai a me nā pahuhopu. Inā ʻaʻohe kūlike ʻole ma aneʻi, a laila e ola wale, e hoʻomau i ke aʻo ʻana, a e holo pono nā mea āpau! “