Ua moe lōʻihi ke keiki e loaʻa kahi pipi, akā kānalua paha ʻoe e mālama maoli ke keiki iā ia? Paipai mākou iā ʻoe e alakaʻi i kahi hoʻokolohua kūikawā - a e ʻike koke ʻia ka mea huna.
ʻAe a whine ʻo ia, ke nānā kaumaha nei i nā holoholona shaggy a pau ma kahi kaula ... Ma hope a ma hope paha, makemake kekahi keiki e loaʻa kahi pipi. ʻO ka pinepine, ʻo ia ka ʻīlio e lilo i mea o nā moemoeā, hiki ʻole ke lilo i hoa pāʻani wale nō, akā he hoa kūpaʻa maoli nō hoʻi. Pono e noʻonoʻo pono i kēlā noi. ʻAʻole paha kēia he mau ʻōlelo hakahaka, akā he pono maoli ma hope o ka hūnā o ka mehameha, ka nele o ke aloha makua, a i ʻole ka makemake e pono ʻia e kekahi. ʻOiai, i loko o nā ʻohana kūwaho kūwaho loa, hiki i kahi keiki ke noho mehameha. Akā pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke haʻi i kahi kohune mai kahi pono maoli? Ua haʻi ʻo Natalia Barlozhetskaya, kahi psychologist keiki kūʻokoʻa a mea hōʻike TV, i ka Lā Wahine e pili ana i kēia.
Hele koke ka makemake maʻamau. Ua lawa no nā mākua e papa inoa i nā kuleana e pono ai e lawe i ka mālama ʻana i ka holoholona. ʻO ka hele wāwae, hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana a me ka hānai ʻana i ka ʻīlio he mau hana leʻaleʻa ia, akā ʻaʻole mākaukau kēlā me kēia keiki e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i nā puʻu a me nā puddles ma hope o kahi ʻīlio pēpē, holoi i ka sofa a me kahi o ka ʻīlio mai ka huluhulu, holoi ipu.
Ina paakiki ka pepe i kona makemake a ua makaukau no ka mohai no ka ilio, e haawi aku ia ia i hoao iki.
Aia kekahi nīnau nīnau: "Hiki a hana". ʻO ka mea mua, e wehewehe i kāu keiki e hoʻomaka ka mālama ʻana i ka holoholona me ka hana ʻana i nā mea maʻalahi. ʻO kahi laʻana, e mālama iā ʻoe iho a me kāu poʻe i aloha ai. A kono iā ia e pane "ʻae" a i ʻole "ʻaʻole" i nā nīnau:
1. Hiki iaʻu ke holoi iaʻu iho.
2. Holoi wau i nā papahele a kōkua paha i koʻu mau mākua e hana i kēlā me kēia lā.
3. Hiki iaʻu ke huʻu iaʻu iho.
4. Hū a kōkua paha wau i koʻu mau mākua e hana ia i kēlā me kēia lā.
5. Hiki iaʻu ke holoi i nā pā.
6. Holoi wau i nā pā a kōkua paha i koʻu mau mākua e hana i kēlā me kēia lā.
7. Kū wau i luna iaʻu iho i kēlā me kēia kakahiaka.
8. E ʻauʻau au iaʻu iho a hana i nā kaʻina hana hoʻomaʻemaʻe kūpono āpau me ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻole ʻana i koʻu mau mākua.
9. Hele wāwae wau i waho i nā anilā.
10. Naʻu nō e mālama pono i koʻu mau kāmaʻa. Holoi wau iā ia a holoi iā ia me kahi lole maloʻo.
A kēia manawa loiloi mākou i nā hopena.
Pane "ʻAe" i nā nīnau 9-10: kūʻokoʻa ʻoe a ʻike pehea e mālama ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi ʻia a hāʻawi ʻia i ke kuleana maoli.
Pane "ʻAe" i nā nīnau 7-8: ua kūʻokoʻa ʻoe, akā ʻo ka mālama ʻana i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole ia kou kiko ikaika. Liʻiliʻi iki a e kūleʻa ʻoe.
Pane "ʻAe" i nā nīnau 6 a ʻoi iki paha: lawa ʻole kāu pae o ke kūʻokoʻa. ʻO ke ahonui a me ka hana e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokō i kāu makemake.
Eia kekahi, i mea e hoihoi maoli ai kāu keiki i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ʻīlio, e kono i kāu keiki e aʻo hou e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka lilo ʻana i mea nona kahi hoa aloha ʻehā. E kōkua nui nā puke, nā makasina, nā ʻatikala ma ka Pūnaewele, nā wikiō hoʻomaʻamaʻa a me ke kamaʻilio pū ʻana me nā mea hoʻohua ʻīlio ʻē aʻe. Aia kekahi papahana aʻo i hoʻolālā pono ʻia no nā keiki - "1st" Af "papa". He papa pūnaewele kēia e haʻi ʻia ai nā keiki i kahi i hele mai ai nā ʻīlio, ua hoʻolauna ʻia lākou i nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole, kamaʻilio lākou e pili ana i ke olakino o nā holoholona, nā meaʻai, nā mālama ʻana, ka hoʻopaʻi a me ke aʻo ʻana.
A pono e hoʻonui ʻia ke kumumanaʻo me ka hana. Ma hope o nā mea āpau, ʻaʻole maopopo ʻole paha i kahi keiki he mea nui nona ke kuleana o kahi ʻīlio. He mea nui e hoʻāʻo i ke keiki i ka hana. ʻO ka holoi ʻana i nā papahele, nā kīʻaha a me nā ʻūpā, ka holo ʻana, ke ala ʻana i kakahiaka nui, ka hele wāwae ʻana i kēlā me kēia wā ke ʻano paʻakikī loa i kahi keiki. Inā hana ʻo ia a mākaukau paha e hana i kēia mau mea āpau, ʻaʻole ia he kumuhana hou, akā he pono maoli.