PSYchology

ʻO ka moekolohe wahine ʻaʻole ia he nani o waho, ʻaʻole ka nui o ka umauma a ʻaʻole ke ʻano o ka puʻupuʻu, ʻaʻole ka hele mālie a ʻaʻole hoʻi i ka nānā ʻana. ʻO ka moekolohe ka hiki i ka wahine ke ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa kino mai ka launa pū ʻana me ke ao. Hiki ke hoʻomohala ʻia kēia mākaukau.

Loaʻa ka moekolohe i kēlā me kēia wahine, akā ʻaʻole ʻike ka poʻe a pau pehea e hōʻike ai. Hoʻoulu ka moe kolohe me ka ʻike, ʻoiai ke aʻo nui ʻia ka wahine e pili ana i kona ʻano naʻau, pili. No kēia kumu, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā kaikamahine ʻōpio ma mua o nā wahine makua.

Pehea e loiloi ai i kou moekolohe?

1. E like me kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo

Pehea ko lākou mālamalama a hohonu. ʻO kēia ka mea nui a hilinaʻi nui.

  • Ke ʻike nei ʻoe i ka makemake moe kolohe, pehea pinepine a pehea ka ikaika?
  • Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā moeʻuhane a me nā moeʻuhane?
  • Pehea ka maʻalahi o kou ʻili, ʻike anei ʻoe i kāu mau ʻāpana erogenous?
  • ʻO ka moekolohe a me ka pili kino e hoʻohauʻoli iā ʻoe a me nā manaʻo maikaʻi, a i ʻole e hoʻohilahila iā ʻoe, hilahila, makaʻu, a me ka ʻeha kino?
  • Pehea ʻoe, ʻike ʻoe i kāu mau ala e loaʻa ai kahi orgasm?

2. Ma ka pane ʻana o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe iā ʻoe

E pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana o kou moekolohe. Pehea kou wehe ʻana i loko a makemake ʻoe e loaʻa i ka hōʻoia waho he sexy ʻoe.

  • Ke nānā nei lākou iā ʻoe?
  • Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā hoʻomaikaʻi?
  • Hui nā kāne iā ʻoe?

Pehea e hoʻomohala ai i ka moekolohe?

1. Hoopa aku ia oe iho, e hooulu i ka pili kino

Hoʻomaka ka moekolohe me nā manaʻo. E ho'āʻo e hoʻopā i kou ʻili a kuhikuhi i kou manaʻo i kahi o ka pilina. He aha kou manaʻo i kēia manawa? ʻO ka wela, ka puʻupuʻu, ke kaomi?

E noʻonoʻo i kēia manaʻo a ho'āʻo e hoʻoikaika iā ia me kou nānā. E noʻonoʻo i nā manaʻo e pili ana i kēia manaʻo. Manaʻo i ka pili kino a ʻike i nā manaʻo. Pono e hana like i ka wā o ka moe kolohe a me ka pili kino me ka hoa.

2. E 'imi i kou kino

ʻAʻole loaʻa nā wahine a pau i ka orgasm i nā makahiki mua o ke ola moe kolohe, akā ʻo ka hapa nui e hoʻomohala i ka anorgasmia ma hope o kekahi mau makahiki, a ʻo 25% ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike i kahi orgasm i ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa. No ka pale ʻana i ka hāʻule ʻana i kēia ʻāpana:

  • e hoʻomaka, heluhelu i nā puke a me nā ʻatikala e pili ana i ke anatomy wahine;
  • masturbate a e ʻimi i kāu mau ʻāpana erogenous, nā ala e loaʻa ai kahi orgasm.

3. Noʻonoʻo

Ke ʻike ʻoe i kahi kāne hoʻokamakama, e noʻonoʻo ʻoe e moe me ia. He aha ke ʻano o kona kino ma lalo o nā ʻaʻahu, pehea kona ʻala, ka neʻe ʻana, kāna mea e hoʻohana ai, pehea kona ʻili i ka hoʻopā ʻana. Hoʻoulu ka manaʻo ʻino a me ka moe kolohe.

4. E hoʻonui i kou libido

E kōkua kēia i nā hana kino like ʻole, nā hoʻomaʻamaʻa no nā ʻiʻo pili a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka hoʻonui ʻana iā ʻoe iho.

5. Flirt, pane i ka noonoo kane

Inā loaʻa i ka wahine kahi hoa paʻa a me kahi pilina kuʻikahi e māʻona ai iā ia, ʻaʻohe ona pono kūikawā e hōʻike i ka moekolohe a huki i nā kāne ʻē aʻe. Inā he sexy ka wahine, akā me ka ʻole o ka hoa pili, ua wehe maʻamau ʻo ia i ka hōʻike o ka moekolohe, pono nō hoʻi ʻo ia e huki i kahi hoa. ʻAʻole ia he mea ʻino i ka wahine makua ke ʻakaʻaka.

Eia naʻe, he nui ka poʻe i kapu ʻia ka hōʻike ʻana o ka moekolohe, aia ma lalo o ka pāpā ʻana o nā mea hoʻohewa kūloko.

Loaʻa iaʻu nā mea kūʻai aku e ʻimi nei i kahi pilina, akā ʻaʻole hōʻike ʻia kēia ma kekahi ʻano. ʻAʻole lākou e lawe i ka manaʻo, no ka mea, i ko lākou manaʻo, he mea ʻino i ka wahine ke hana i kēia. Ma lalo o ka makaʻu i nā pāpā o loko, ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike i ko lākou pono i kahi hoa. A ʻaʻole ʻike nā hoa pili i kēia pono.

I ka hoʻomaka ʻana, e aʻo i ka pale ʻana i ka nānā ʻana o ke kāne a pili pū me ka hilahila ʻole a i ʻole ka hilahila. E hoʻomau i ka nānā ʻana i ka maka, e mālama i ka nānā ʻana i ka maka, e ʻakaʻaka i ka pane ʻana i ka minoʻaka, mai hilahila i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo a hoʻomaka i ka flirting a me ka flirting iā ʻoe iho.

6. E hana i kāu ʻeha moe kolohe me ke kauka lapaʻau

ʻAʻole i hoʻomohala ʻia a hōʻike ʻia ka moe kolohe i kēlā mau wahine i loaʻa i ka trauma haʻalulu a i ʻole ka ʻeha ulu e pili ana i ka moekolohe i ka wā kamaliʻi:

  • ua hoʻomāinoino ʻia ke kaikamahine a i ʻole he mea hōʻike ʻo ia i ka hana ʻino;
  • ua hōʻole a hoʻāhewa kekahi o nā mākua (ʻo ia hoʻi ka makuahine) i ka moe kolohe o ke kaikamahine a i ʻole ko lākou moekolohe ponoʻī ʻana, a i ʻole ka moekolohe e like me ia he kapu i loko o ka ʻohana;
  • ka moe kolohe, kahiko, holoholona o kekahi o na makua, me ke aloha ole;
  • ʻO kahi kaikamahine i ka wā ʻōpio i ʻike i ka moe kolohe a ua makaʻu ʻia e ia.

ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo i nā ʻeha o kou wā kamaliʻi. Akā inā makemake ʻoe i ka lokahi i ka moekolohe a manaʻo ʻoe e pale ana kekahi mea i kāu moekolohe, he manawa kēia no ka psychotherapy.

7. E nānā iā ʻoe iho i ke aniani, e hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho

Inā pale kekahi mau manaʻoʻiʻo iā ʻoe mai ka ʻike ʻana i kou nani a aloha iā ʻoe iho, e hana pū me nā mea hoʻohewa i loko i ka psychotherapy.

8. A ʻoiaʻiʻo, e moe kolohe.

E ʻae kākou he waiwai ko ka moekolohe. ʻOiai ʻo ia wale nō ka ʻoluʻolu o kahi pono physiological. E hāʻawi i ka leʻaleʻa i ke kino, e loaʻa i nā manaʻo maikaʻi, ua nui ka hauʻoli.

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