Inā ua kāhea ʻia ʻoe i loko o ka hale kahi i puka mai ai kahi pēpē, hāʻawi ʻia ʻoe i ka hanohano nui. I kēia manawa he mea nui ʻaʻole e wili i luna.
ʻO nā keiki hānau he mau mea akahai. ʻO kā lākou mau makuahine - ʻoi aku. No laila, pono ʻoe e mālama iā lākou e like me ka ipu kīʻaha. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ia e pili iā ʻoe e kipa iā lākou me ke kono ʻole ʻia, a i ʻole lawe mai i kāu keiki puʻupuʻu ponoʻī me ʻoe. Akā aia kekahi mau lula hou āu e pono ai e hāhai, ʻoiai inā ua kono ʻia ʻoe i ka wahine mare.
1. Mai nīnau iā ʻoe iho
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kono ʻia e hui me ka pēpē, mai hoʻokaumaha i ka makuahine ʻōpio. Kū kekahi i hoʻokahi mahina mai ka lā hānau, pono i kekahi manawa i ka manawa hou e "hele hou i ka honua". I ka manawa e nīnau unobtrusively ke hoʻolālā lākou e kono iā ʻoe e kipa, a nīnau hou kokoke i ka lā. Inā ʻaʻole lākou e pane, ka manaʻo o kāu kipa ʻaʻole ia e lawe i ka hauʻoli. Noho mākou i ke kūlana kali.
2. Mai lohi
Loaʻa ka lunamanaʻo. Ke paʻakikī nei ka makuahine ʻōpio: ʻaʻohe ona manawa no kekahi mea, ʻaʻole lawa ka hiamoe, ʻaʻole ʻai, a paʻa ka hau o kāna kakahiaka, poina ʻia ma ka papa. No laila, paʻakikī paha ka manawa no ka poʻe kipa e ʻoki ai i ka papa kuhikuhi. He hewa weliweli ka haki ʻana i kēia papa kuhikuhi.
3. Mai noho lōʻihi
ʻAʻole hiki i nā makuahine āpau ke ʻōlelo pololei i kekahi mea e like me: "Hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i iwakālua mau minuke, e kala mai, a laila ʻaʻohe manawa nou." No laila, hoʻāʻo e noʻonoʻo a mai hoʻokaumaha i ka makuahine ʻōpio me kou alo. Inā ʻaʻole, ʻo ia nō, nīnau ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kahi ʻē.
4. Lawe pū i ka meaʻai
"Maʻi loa wau i ke kuke ʻana iaʻu iho," i hōʻike mai ai kahi hoaaloha i hānau ʻehā mau mahina i mua oʻu me ka hāwanawana. Na kēia, ua hōʻike paha ʻo ia i nā manaʻo o nā makuahine ʻōpio āpau. No laila, ke hele aku nei e kipa, e lawe pū me ʻoe i kekahi mea no ka tī. Maliʻa paha he keke i hoʻomoʻa ʻia me kona lima ponoʻī, ʻo ka sanwī punahele paha a kahi hoaaloha, a ʻoi aku paha ma mua o hoʻokahi. I ka manawa like, hānai i kou makuahine. Nānā wale i nā mea hoʻohui: inā hānai ʻo ia, hāʻawi ia i kekahi mau kuleana ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka papaʻai.
5. E holoi i kou mau lima a mai hoʻopā i ke keiki me ka noi ʻole.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, makemake ʻoe e lālau a cuddle i kēia pēpē momona! Akā kāohi iā ʻoe iho. ʻOi aku ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe. ʻAʻole ia he mea nui ua holoi ʻoe iā lākou he ʻumi mau manawa. ʻO ka kānalua a ka makuahine he palena palena ʻole. Inā, ma hope o hoʻokahi minuke, i kou lawe ʻana i ka pēpē, ua hoʻomaka mua ʻo māmā e nānā iā ʻoe me ka maʻalahi, hāʻawi koke iā ia i kāna mea hoʻonani.
6. E kono i ka makuahine e noho pū me ka pēpē i kona wā hiamoe a i ʻole ʻauʻauʻau.
ʻO kēia mau mea ʻelua i nele i ka ola o kahi makuahine ʻōpio. Inā hilinaʻi nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe e waiho wale iā ʻoe me ka pēpē, he kanaka waiwai nui ʻoe. Akā inā hōʻole ʻo ia i kāu hāʻawi, mai koi aku. Ke kānalua o ka makuahine - maikaʻi, hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe.
7. Haʻalele i nā mālama
Inā hāʻawi kahi hoa iā ʻoe i ke kī / kope / hulahula, hōʻole wale nō. Ua hele mai ʻoe e kipa e kōkua iā ia, ʻaʻole no ka lilo ʻana i kanaka ʻē aʻe nāna e mālama. I ka hopena, hiki iā ʻoe ke ninini iā ʻoe iho i ke kofe - a ma ka manawa like e hana i tī no ia. Akā inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hiamoe i ke aumoe no ʻoe a hoʻomoʻa i keke, ʻai wale ʻoe ia.
8. Mai lawe i nā keiki me ʻoe
ʻOiai ke olakino lākou. ʻOiai inā ua noi ʻoe i ka ʻae a ʻōlelo aku kahi hoa ʻaʻole ia e noʻonoʻo. Maopopo iā ʻoe e pono ʻoe e mālama i kāu mau keiki, a ʻaʻole huikau me kāu ipo wahine? A ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio. A inā makemake kāu ʻeono makahiki e hoʻopaʻa i ka pēpē, hiki i ka makuahine ke loaʻa i ka hysterical.
9. Mai hāʻawi i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i noi ʻole ʻia
Auē, kēlā mau lālani maikaʻi "Hana hewa ʻoe" āpau. Inā nīnau ʻia ʻoe e pili ana pehea ʻoe e hānai ana i ka waiū, he aha kāu i hana ai me ka colic, a inā ua maʻi maʻi ke keiki i ka meaʻai āu i ʻai ai, pane, ʻoiaʻiʻo nō. Akā e waiho i nā manaʻo e pili ana i kāu hoaaloha e ʻai nei i nā kuki he nui iā ʻoe iho.