Kōkua ʻo Halloween i nā ʻōpio e hakakā me nā makaʻu o ke keiki - psychologist

Ma ke Komohana, makemake nui ʻia ka lā o nā lā haipule āpau. A ma Rūsia, he hoʻopaʻapaʻa ka Halloween. E noʻonoʻo pehea nā mea maikaʻi i hiki ke kiʻi ʻia mai kēia hanana.

Hoʻonohonoho pinepine ʻoe i nā lā hoʻomaha? No laila me nā malihini, nā makana, nā hakakā a me nā meaʻai? ʻOiaʻiʻo, e like me mākou a pau, ma nā makahiki hou wale nō, ma nā lā hānau, a ma nā lā kūikawā. A ʻo ka Halloween kekahi kumu e hui pū ai me nā ʻohana. E hoʻouna i nā kono i kāu mau hoaaloha a e aʻo aku e pili ana ke kāʻei lole: ʻo nā kilokilo, nā ʻuhane a me nā ʻuhane ʻino ʻē aʻe e ʻae ʻia i ka pāʻina. E moeʻuhane lākou i nā lole. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻonohonoho i kahi hoʻokūkū no ka lole maikaʻi loa me nā makana leʻaleʻa. A he mea weliweli wale nō ke kiʻi kiʻi!

ʻAʻole ʻo ka Halloween wale nō he masquerade, akā, ʻo ka hana hana. E hōʻike i kāu keiki i ka noʻonoʻo. Eia kekahi, makemake nā keiki e hoʻoheheʻe i loko me nā mea hoʻonaninani home. No ka laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i ka lei o nā ʻōpeʻapeʻa mai ka pepa, e kau i kahi pūnaewele spider artificial ma nā kihi. Ke nānā nei ʻoe, i ka manawa like, ʻaʻole e makaʻu hou i nā spiders. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona iā makuakāne no ke kōkua a hoʻohuli pū i ka ʻukena i kukui a Jack. A me koʻu makuahine, e hoʻomoʻa i nā kuki hoʻomaha maoli ma ke ʻano o nā manamana lima me nā maiuu a i ʻole kekahi makaʻu ʻē aʻe. Makaʻu akā leʻaleʻa! A he mea kōkua ia – ke hana pū ʻoe me kāu mau keiki i kekahi mea, he mea maikaʻi loa ia i kāu pilina.

ʻĀ, ʻo wai o mākou e makemake ʻole e hāʻawi i nā mea āpau mai kēlā me kēia manawa, poina e pili ana i kā mākou kuleana makua a manaʻo e like me ke keiki? ʻO Halloween kahi manawa kūpono loa no kēlā. Ke komo nei i loko o ka lapuwale, akā ʻo ia leʻaleʻa leʻaleʻa a me ka lapuwale ʻana me kāu mau keiki, ʻaʻole ʻoe e pili wale me kāu keiki, akā e hōʻoluʻolu hoʻi i ke kaumaha o kēlā me kēia lā.

Aia paha, hoʻokahi wale nō "akā". ʻO nā lole, mālama a me nā pāʻani, ʻoiaʻiʻo, maikaʻi. Akā i kēlā ʻano mea, ʻaʻole e lawe ʻia ka mea nui a hoʻohuli ʻole i nā hui ʻohana i pōpō a Sātana. Inā he keiki ʻuʻuku kāu i kāu pōʻai, e hoʻomanaʻo i hiki i nā mummers weliweli ke hoʻoweliweli iā lākou. ʻO kahi laʻana, e ʻoliʻoli kahi ʻōpio me ka mask zombie, akā hiki i ke keiki o ʻelua a ʻekolu paha ona mau makahiki ke uē me ka makaʻu.

- Loaʻa i nā keiki kamaliʻi kahi psyche nāwaliwali a ʻano ʻole hoʻi. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ka moʻolelo haʻi a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO nā ʻōpio kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Pono lākou e hoʻāʻo i nā hana like ʻole, a he mea pono paha iā lākou e noʻonoʻo no lākou iho i ka maikaʻi a me ka hewa.

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