Contents
- 11 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka hiki ʻana mai o ka pēpē
- E haʻi aku iā ia me ka hele ʻole ʻole
- E hōʻoluʻolu iā ia
- E hoʻokomo iā ia
- E hoʻomanaʻo i ka waiwai o ka laʻana
- Hōʻalo i ka kaʻawale ʻana i ka wā hānau
- E nānā i nā kiʻi / kiʻiʻoniʻoni o kāna pēpē
- Hana me kona hoka
- E hoʻi hou
- E paipai i kou wahi ma ke ano he kanaka makua
- E hana i nā kaikaina
- E kōkua, e ulu aʻe ka pēpē
11 mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka hiki ʻana mai o ka pēpē
E haʻi aku iā ia me ka hele ʻole ʻole
Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi i kāu keiki e kali ana ʻoe i kahi pēpē i kēlā me kēia manawa āu e makemake ai. ʻAʻole pono e kali no ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo regulatory ʻekolu mahina. Manaʻo nā keiki i nā mea a e hōʻoia hou ʻia ʻaʻohe mea huna a hāwanawana. Eia naʻe, ke hoʻolaha ʻia ka hoʻolaha ʻana, e ʻae i kāu keiki e hana e like me kona makemake a hoʻi mai i laila inā nīnau lākou. He manawa lōʻihi ka ʻeiwa mahina, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi, a ʻo ka kamaʻilio ʻana i nā manawa āpau e pili ana i kahi pēpē i hānau ʻole ʻia he mea weliweli. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka manawa pinepine ka poʻe o ka ʻōpū e puka hou mai nā nīnau a hoʻomaka mākou e kamaʻilio maoli no lākou.
E hōʻoluʻolu iā ia
Aole i maheleia ka naau o ka makuahine i ka nui o na keiki ana. mahuahua kona aloha i kela hanau ana. ʻO kēia ka mea e pono ai kāu keiki e lohe… a lohe hou. ʻO ka lili āna e ulu ai i ka pēpē he mea maʻamau a kūkulu, a i ka wa e oi aku ai, e puka mai no ia mailoko mai o ka ulu ana. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aʻo ʻo ia e kaʻana like, ʻaʻole wale i kona mau mākua, akā i kona kaiapuni a me kona aloha. Ma kou aoao, mai manao hewa. ʻAʻole ʻoe e kumakaia iā ia, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hauʻoli no kekahi manawa, ke kūkulu nei ʻoe i ʻohana nona, nā paʻa hiki ʻole… nā kaikaina! E hoʻomanaʻo, ma mua o nā mea a pau, pono e noʻonoʻo kāu keiki hiapo ʻo ia a he kumu hauʻoli ia no ʻoe a me kona makuakāne, no laila, mai hoʻokaʻulua ʻoe e haʻi aku iā ia a hoʻomaopopo iā ia.
E hoʻokomo iā ia
ʻIke kāu keiki iā ʻoe e "hana" i nā mea āpau e pili ana i ka pēpē i hānau ʻole ʻia a i kekahi manawa ua haʻalele ʻia. ʻO kekahi mau hana, e like me nā kipa prenatal, ua mālama ʻia no nā pākeke, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokomo i ka ʻelemakule ma nā ʻano ʻē aʻe. E hoʻomākaukau i ka lumi no ka laʻana, e nīnau i kona manaʻo, hāʻawi paha iā ia (me ka ʻole e koi iā ia) e hōʻaiʻē a hāʻawi i kahi holoholona pipi ... Pēlā nō, ua mālama paha ʻoe i kahi holoi lole no kāu pēpē mua: e hoʻokaʻawale me ke keiki hiapo. ʻO kēia ka manawa kūpono e wehewehe ai iā ia i nā mea he nui: ʻo ia ka mea ma mua, ua kau ʻoe i kēia lole uliuli liʻiliʻi i kēlā manawa, aia kēia giraffe liʻiliʻi i loko o kāna moena i kona noho ʻana ma ka haukapila…. He manawa kūpono e kamaʻilio hou aku iā ia e pili ana i kāu mau ʻike me ia.
E hoʻomanaʻo i ka waiwai o ka laʻana
Inā hoʻokahi wale nō kāu keiki i loko o ka ʻohana i kēia manawa, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ia i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā kaikaina, nā ʻohana i ulu. E haʻi iā ia e pili ana i kāna mau hoaaloha liʻiliʻi he kaikaina. E haʻi aku hoʻi iā ia no kou ʻohana ponoʻī, e haʻi i kāu mau hoʻomanaʻo o ka wā kamaliʻi me kou mau kaikaina. Hoʻolaha i ka pāʻani, nā hilinaʻi, nā moʻolelo ʻakaʻaka, nā ʻakaʻaka. Mai hūnā i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa a me ka lili i hoʻomaopopo ʻo ia, inā he hauʻoli wale nō ka mea e kali nei iā ia, ʻo kona manaʻo lili he mea maʻamau. ʻO ka hope, hoʻohana ka nui o nā puke e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana o ke kaikunāne pēpē a i hana maikaʻi ʻia. Lilo pinepine lākou i puke moe no nā poʻe ʻelemakule e hiki mai ana.
Hōʻalo i ka kaʻawale ʻana i ka wā hānau
ʻAʻole maopopo ia akā ʻo ka mea kūpono i ka wā hānau keiki e noho ka hiapo me kona makuakāne ma kona wahi noho mau. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke manaʻo ʻaʻole i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia a i ʻole ka manaʻo ua hūnā kekahi mea iā ia. Hiki iā ia ke komo ma ka hele ʻana e ʻike i kona makuahine a me ka pēpē hou ma ke keʻena hānai, a e manaʻo nui ʻo ia e kaʻana like i kahi pāʻina nui me ka makuakāne ke hiki mai ke ahiahi. ʻAʻole hiki i nā manawa a pau ke hana i kēia, akā ʻo ka mea nui e wehewehe i ka mea e hana nei, pehea ka lōʻihi o kou haʻalele ʻana, no ke aha ʻoe i loko o ka haukapila me ka pēpē, he aha ka papa e hana nei i kēia manawa. manawa…
E nānā i nā kiʻi / kiʻiʻoniʻoni o kāna pēpē
Makemake nā keiki e ʻike hou kekahi i kekahi a hoʻomaopopo ua loaʻa iā lākou kā lākou " manawa hanohano “. Inā mālama ʻoe, e hōʻike iā ia i nā makana liʻiliʻi i loaʻa iā ia iho, nā ʻōlelo hoʻomaikaʻi. E wehewehe iā ia i kāu mea i hana ai me ia i kona wā kamaliʻi, pehea ʻoe i mālama ai iā ia… E haʻi iā ia i kona ʻano, i kāna mea i aloha ai a haʻi aku iā ia he aloha ʻoe iā ia a he pēpē maikaʻi ʻo ia: no ka mea, ʻo ia kona manaʻo nui no ka hānau hou !
Hana me kona hoka
ʻO ka hope, ʻaʻole ʻakaʻaka kēia pēpē! ʻAʻole ʻo ia e neʻe, ʻaʻole komo i kekahi pāʻani, akā monopolize maoli i ka makuahine. Nui nā makuahine i lohe i kēia ʻōlelo ʻono " i ka manawa hea mākou e hoʻihoʻi mai ai? ». ʻAe, ʻaʻole iaʻu ka BT. E hōʻike ʻo ia i kona hōʻeha. ʻAʻohe nīnau o ke aloha ma laila. Ke hōʻike wale nei kāu keiki i ke kahaha a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa. Ua maopopo iā ia ke ʻano o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kaikaina a i ʻole kaikuahine liʻiliʻi a ʻaʻole i holo nā mea e like me kāna i hoʻolālā ai. E hoʻomaopopo koke ʻo ia, no ka manawa, ʻaʻole e lawe ka pēpē i kona wahi ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia e like me ia.
E hoʻi hou
Loaʻa mau manawa o ka regression ke hiki mai kahi mea liʻiliʻi. Ke aloha lākou, ʻike nā keiki i kekahi i kekahi. No laila ke pulu ʻo ia i ka moena a i ʻole ke noi ʻana i kahi ʻōmole. ke hoʻi hou nei kāu hiapo e "like me kēlā pēpē" i makemake nui ʻia e nā mea a pau. Akā makemake ʻo ia e like me kona kaikaina no kona aloha iā ia. ʻAʻole pono mākou e pāpā akā e ʻōlelo. E hōʻike iā ia ua maopopo iā ʻoe ke kumu e makemake ai ʻo ia e loaʻa i kahi ʻōmole (ʻaʻole loa na ka pēpē). Ke pāʻani nei ʻo ia i kona wā kamaliʻi, a ua ʻae ʻoe i kēlā i kekahi ʻano. ʻO kēia māhele, maʻamau loa, maʻa mau i ka wā e ʻike ai ke keiki ʻaʻole ia he mea ʻakaʻaka ke keiki!
E paipai i kou wahi ma ke ano he kanaka makua
Loaʻa i ka hiapo o ka ʻohana ke kuleana o ka loaʻa ʻole o kona makuahine i kona wā pēpē. I kekahi manawa maikaʻi ke hoʻomanaʻo, me ke kiʻi a i ʻole ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni e hoʻihoʻi. Ma waho aʻe o ia mea, ma ke ala like ʻo ia i ʻike koke ai ʻaʻole hoihoi loa ka pāʻani pēpē. E hoʻomaopopo koke kāu hiapo i ka waiwai o ka "nui", oi loa aku inā kōkua ʻoe iā ia. E hoʻoikaika i nā manawa kūikawā āu a i ʻole makua kāne me ia (no ka mea ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hana me ka pēpē). E hele i ka hale ʻaina, e pāʻani i ka pāʻani, e nānā i kahi kiʻi kiʻi…. I ka pōkole, ʻo ka nui e hāʻawi iā ia i nā pono i loaʻa ʻole i ka mea liʻiliʻi.
E hana i nā kaikaina
ʻOiai inā mālama ʻoe i nā manawa " kiʻekiʻe Me ka ʻelemakule, he mea nui ka huli ʻana. He ʻohana ka ʻohana. E paʻi pū i nā kiʻi o nā keiki ʻelua. ʻO ka pēpē ka hōkū, akā mai poina i ka mea nui. I kekahi manawa he mea kōkua nui ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka pepeke a me kahi kaʻa kaʻa liʻiliʻi i ke keiki nui e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou ke kaʻana like nei lākou i ka moʻolelo hānau. E paipai pū iā ia e kōkua iā ʻoe inā makemake ʻo ia e: hāʻawi i kahi ʻōmole, hele e kiʻi i kahi diaper ... ʻO ka hope, ma hope o kekahi mau pule, ʻo ka ʻauʻau ka hana maoli mua loa e hiki ai i nā kaikunāne ke kaʻana like.
E kōkua, e ulu aʻe ka pēpē
Aia ka muli loa ma waena o 1 a me 2 makahiki e paʻakikī loa ai. Lawe ʻo ia i nā wahi he nui, lawe i kāna mau mea pāʻani, hoʻōho nui loa… ʻO ka pōkole, ʻike mākou iā ia a hoʻopoina ʻo ia i ke keiki hiapo i kekahi manawa. ʻO ka manawa pinepine ka lili i kona kiʻekiʻe i kēia manawa,ʻoiai e ho'āʻo ana ka pēpē e pani i kona wahi ma nā kaikunāne a ma ka puʻuwai o nā mākua. ʻOi aku kēia ma mua o ka manawa e kaʻana like i nā hana me ia wale nō, e hōʻike iā ia i kona ʻano kūikawā a kū hoʻokahi.