Ua kamaʻāina ʻoe i ke kumu i hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia ke kumu o kā mākou pilina me ke keiki - kona ʻae ʻole ʻole, ʻae ʻole. Ua kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ka nui o ka haʻi mau ʻana i ke keiki e pono a mālama mākou iā ia, ʻo kona ola ʻana he mea hauʻoli iā mākou.
Ua kū koke mai kahi nīnau-kūʻē: maʻalahi ka hahai ʻana i kēia ʻōlelo aʻo i nā manawa mālie a i ka wā e holo pono ai nā mea a pau. A inā hana ke keiki "ka mea hewa", ʻaʻole hoʻolohe, hoʻonāukiuki? Pehea e noho ai i kēia mau hihia?
E pane mākou i kēia nīnau ma nā ʻāpana. Ma kēia haʻawina, e kālailai mākou i nā kūlana i paʻa ai kāu keiki i kekahi mea, hana i kekahi mea, akā, i kou manaʻo, "hewa", hewa, me nā hewa.
E noʻonoʻo ʻoe i kahi kiʻi: e ʻoliʻoli ana ke keiki i ka mosaic. ʻIke ʻia ʻaʻole kūpono nā mea a pau iā ia: ʻo nā mosaics e hāʻule, hui pū ʻia, ʻaʻole i hoʻokomo koke ʻia, a ʻike ʻia ka pua "ʻaʻole like". Makemake ʻoe e komo, aʻo, hōʻike. A ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke kūpaʻa: "E kali," ʻōlelo ʻoe, "ʻaʻole like me kēia, akā e like me kēia." Akā, pane mai ke keiki me ka huhū: "Mai, naʻu wale nō."
ʻO kekahi laʻana. Kākau ka papa ʻelua i kahi leka i kona kupuna wahine. Nānā ʻoe ma luna o kona poʻohiwi. Hoʻopā ka leka, akā ʻo ka lima lima wale nō ka palaka, a he nui nā hewa: ʻo kēia mau keiki kaulana "ʻimi", "manaʻo", "ʻike wau" ... Pehea e ʻike ʻole ai a pololei ʻole? Akā, ʻo ke keiki, ma hope o nā ʻōlelo, huhū, ʻawaʻawa, ʻaʻole makemake e kākau hou.
I kekahi manawa, ua ʻōlelo kekahi makuahine i kahi keikikāne ʻoi aku ka makua: "Auē, ʻano palaka ʻoe, pono ʻoe e aʻo mua ..." ʻO ia ka lā hānau o ke keiki, a me ka ʻuhane nui ua hula ʻo ia me ka poʻe a pau - e like me kāna hiki. Ma hope o kēia mau ʻōlelo, noho ihola ʻo ia ma luna o kahi noho a noho ʻoluʻolu no ke koena o ke ahiahi, ʻoiai ua hōʻeha ʻia kona makuahine i kāna ʻōlelo hōʻino. Ua pōʻino ka lā hānau.
Ma keʻano laulā, ʻokoʻa ka hana a nā keiki like ʻole i ka "hewa" o ka makua: kaumaha kekahi a nalowale, huhū kekahi, kipi kekahi: "Inā ʻino, ʻaʻole wau e hana!". Me he mea lā he ʻokoʻa nā hopena, akā hōʻike lākou a pau ʻaʻole makemake nā keiki i kēlā ʻano hana. No ke aha mai?
No ka hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ʻana i kēia, e hoʻomanaʻo kākou iā kākou iho he kamaliʻi.
Pehea ka lōʻihi o ka hiki ʻole iā mākou ke kākau i kahi leka iā mākou iho, kahili i ka papahele me ka maʻemaʻe, a i ʻole ka hamare maʻalahi i ke kui? I kēia manawa ua maʻalahi kēia mau mea iā mākou. No laila, ke hōʻike a hoʻokau mākou i kēia "maʻalahi" i kahi keiki e pilikia maoli ana, ke hana hewa nei mākou. He kuleana ko ke keiki e huhū mai iā mākou!
E nānā kākou i kahi pēpē hoʻokahi makahiki e aʻo ana i ka hele wāwae. Ma ʻaneʻi ua wehe ʻo ia mai kou manamana lima a lawe i nā ʻanuʻu mua i maopopo ʻole. Me kēlā me kēia ʻanuʻu, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e mālama i ke kaulike, ʻoluʻolu, a hoʻoneʻe ikaika i kona mau lima liʻiliʻi. Akā, hauʻoli a haʻaheo ʻo ia! Kakaikahi nā mākua e manaʻo e aʻo: “Penei kā lākou hele ʻana? E nana i ka pono! A i ʻole: “ʻAe, he aha kā ʻoukou e haʻalulu nei? ʻEhia mau manawa aʻu i ʻōlelo aku ai iā ʻoe ʻaʻole e nalu i kou mau lima! E hele hou, a i pololei nā mea a pau?
Komeka? He ʻakaʻaka? Akā, e like me ka hoʻohenehene mai ka manaʻo noʻonoʻo, ʻo nā ʻōlelo koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ke kanaka (inā he keiki a makua paha) e aʻo nei e hana i kekahi mea iā ia iho!
ʻIke au i ka nīnau: pehea ʻoe e aʻo ai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e kuhikuhi i nā hewa?
ʻAe, pono ka ʻike o nā hewa a pono pinepine, akā pono e kuhikuhi ʻia me ka akahele loa. ʻO ka mua, mai ʻike i kēlā me kēia hewa; ʻO ka lua, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kūkākūkā ʻana i ka hewa ma hope, i ka lewa mālie, ʻaʻole i ka manawa i makemake nui ai ke keiki i ia mea; ʻO ka hope, pono e hana ʻia nā ʻōlelo kūʻē i ke kua o ka ʻae ākea.
A ma kēia ʻano hana e aʻo mai nā keiki ponoʻī. E nīnau kākou iā kākou iho: ʻike paha ke keiki i kāna mau hewa i kekahi manawa? ʻAe, ʻike pinepine ʻo ia - e like me ka ʻike ʻana o kahi pēpē hoʻokahi makahiki i ka unsteadiness o nā ʻanuʻu. Pehea ʻo ia e hana ai i kēia mau hewa? Ua ʻoi aku ka hoʻomanawanui ma mua o nā mākua. No ke aha mai? A ua māʻona ʻo ia i ka holomua ʻana, no ka mea, ua "hele" ʻo ia, ʻaʻole naʻe i paʻa. Ma waho aʻe, manaʻo ʻo ia: ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lā ʻapōpō! E like me nā mākua, makemake mākou e hoʻokō i nā hopena maikaʻi aʻe i ka hiki. A ʻo ka mea pinepine e hoʻololi i ka ʻokoʻa.
ʻEhā Nā hopena o ke aʻo ʻana
Ke aʻo nei kāu keiki. ʻO ka hopena holoʻokoʻa e loaʻa i kekahi mau hopena hapa. E inoa mākou i ʻehā o lākou.
Ka mua, ʻo ka mea maopopo loa ʻo ia ka ʻike e loaʻa iā ia a i ʻole ke akamai e loaʻa iā ia.
Ka lua ʻaʻole maopopo ka hopena: ʻo ia ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i ka hiki ke aʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi, ke aʻo ʻana iā ia iho.
ʻO ke kolu ʻO ka hopena, he ʻike manaʻo mai ka haʻawina: ka ʻoluʻolu a i ʻole ka hōʻeha, ka hilinaʻi a i ʻole ka maopopo ʻole i nā hiki o kekahi.
'O ka hope, nā ka ʻehā ʻO ka hopena he hōʻailona ma kāu pilina me ia inā ʻoe i komo i nā papa. Maanei hiki ke hopena maikaʻi (ua māʻona kekahi i kekahi), a i ʻole maikaʻi ʻole (ua hoʻopiha ʻia ka waihona o ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole).
E hoʻomanaʻo, pilikia nā mākua i ka nānā wale ʻana i ka hopena mua (aʻo? aʻo ʻia?). Mai poina i nā mea ʻē aʻe ʻekolu. ʻOi aku ka nui o lākou!
No laila, inā kūkulu kāu keiki i kahi "hale aliʻi" ʻē aʻe me nā poloka, kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio e like me ka moʻo, kākau ma ka lima kākau lima ʻino, a kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni ʻaʻole maʻalahi loa, akā makemake nui a nānā ʻole - mai hoʻohewa, mai hoʻoponopono. iā ia. A inā ʻoe e hōʻike i ka hoihoi maoli i kāna hihia, e manaʻo ʻoe i ka hoʻonui ʻana o ka mahalo a me ka ʻae ʻana o kekahi i kekahi, i mea e pono ai iā ʻoe a me ia.
‘I he taimi ‘e taha na‘e fakahā ai ‘e he tamai ‘a ha tamasi‘i ta‘u ‘eiwa: “‘Oku ou fili lahi ‘i he ngaahi angahala ‘a ‘eku foha na‘á ku fakalotosi‘i ia mei hono ako ha me‘a fo‘ou. I kekahi manawa, makemake mākou i ka hui ʻana i nā kumu hoʻohālike. I kēia manawa hana ʻo ia iā lākou iho, a hana nui ʻo ia. Ua paʻa naʻe ma luna o lākou: nā hiʻohiʻona āpau ʻae nā hiʻohiʻona. Akā ʻaʻole makemake ʻo ia e hoʻomaka i kahi ʻoihana hou. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu, ʻaʻole e holo - a manaʻo wau no ka mea ua hoʻohewa loa wau iā ia.
Manaʻo wau ua mākaukau ʻoe i kēia manawa e ʻae i ke kānāwai e alakaʻi i kēlā mau kūlana i ka wā e paʻa ai ke keiki me kāna mea ponoʻī. E kāhea kākou
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Mai hoʻopili i ka hana a ke keiki ke ʻole ʻo ia e noi i ke kōkua. Me kāu hana ʻole ʻana, e haʻi aku ʻoe iā ia: “Ua pono ʻoe! ʻOiaʻiʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke hana!"
Nā hana home
Hana hoʻokahi
E noʻonoʻo i ka nui o nā hana (hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kahi papa inoa o ia mau mea) hiki i kāu keiki ke lawelawe ponoʻī iā ia iho, ʻoiai ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa.
Hana ʻelua
No ka hoʻomaka ʻana, e koho i kekahi mau mea mai kēia pōʻai a hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia i kā lākou hoʻokō ʻana i hoʻokahi manawa. I ka hopena, e ʻae i ka hana a ke keiki, me ka nānā ʻole i kā lākou hopena.
Hana ʻekolu
E hoʻomanaʻo i ʻelua a ʻekolu mau hewa o ke keiki i mea hoʻonāukiuki loa iā ʻoe. E ʻimi i kahi manawa mālie a me ka leo kūpono e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā lākou.