Homoparentality: kāhea lākou i kahi makuahine pani

"Ma ke ʻano he kāne no nā makahiki he nui, ʻaʻole hiki iā Alban lāua ʻo Stéphan ke noʻonoʻo i ke keiki ʻole. Ke hoʻokokoke nei lākou i kā lākou kanahā, makemake lākou e hoʻomaka i kahi ʻohana, "e hāʻawi i ke aloha a me nā waiwai". A ua paʻa lākou e kūʻē i ke kānāwai no ka mea ʻaʻole ia e hāʻawi iā lākou i ke kuleana e lilo i makua. "ʻO ka Adoption, ua noʻonoʻo mākou no ia mea, akā ua paʻakikī loa ia no nā kāne, no laila no ke kanaka hoʻokahi", mihi ʻo Stéphan. "Aia paha he nīnau pilikanaka, ʻo ia hoʻi ka wahaheʻe. ʻAʻole wau i ʻike pehea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hūnā i ko mākou pilina. "

ʻO kahi hoʻonā ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka hānai pū ʻana, akā he nui nā pilikia o kēia ʻōnaehana. ʻO ka hope loa, hoʻoholo ka male e hoʻohana i ka makuahine pani. Kākoʻo ʻia e kā lākou poʻe aloha, lele lākou i ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa. ʻO ka ʻāina wale nō me India a me Rūsia ʻaʻole i mālama i nā makuahine pani no kona lāhui. I ko lākou hōʻea ʻana i Minneapolis, ʻike lākou i ke ʻano o ka hoʻomohala ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana o ka mākeke makuahine. Ua hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻia lākou: "ʻOiai ma kekahi mau ʻāina he palena palena loa nā kūlana e pili ana i ka etika. ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, ua kūpaʻa ka ʻōnaehana kānāwai a ua nui nā moho. He ʻāpana ia o nā kuʻuna, "wahi a Stéphan.

ʻO ke koho o ka makuahine pani

Hoʻopili ka male i kahi faila me kahi hui kūikawā. A laila hui koke me kahi ʻohana. He aloha i ka ike mua. "ʻO ia ka mea a mākou i ʻimi ai. ʻO nā kānaka kaulike i loaʻa kahi kūlana, nā keiki. ʻAʻole hana ka wahine i kēia no ke kālā. Ua makemake ʻo ia e kōkua i nā kānaka. Holo wikiwiki nā mea a pau, kau inoa ʻia kahi ʻaelike. ʻO Alban ka makua kāne ola a ʻo Stéphan ka makua kāne kānāwai. “Me he mea lā he hoʻololi maikaʻi ia iā mākou, ua loaʻa i kēia keiki ka hoʻoilina hoʻoilina o kekahi a me ka inoa o kekahi. Akā, ua hoʻomaka wale nā ​​mea a pau. Pono ʻo Stéphan lāua ʻo Alban e koho i ka mea hāʻawi hua manu. Ma ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, ʻaʻole ka makuahine pani ka mea nāna e hāʻawi i kāna mau hua. Wahi a lākou, he ala kēia e pale aku ai i ka pili ʻana o ka wahine me kēia pēpē, ʻaʻole nāna. ” Ua koho mākou i ke kanaka olakino maikaʻi i hāʻawi mua i kā lākou mau hua », wehewehe ʻo Stéphan. "ʻO ka hope, ua nānā mākou i ke kiʻi a he ʻoiaʻiʻo aia kekahi i like me Alban, no laila ua hāʻule kā mākou koho." Ke hele maikaʻi nei ka protocol olakino. Hāpai ʻo Mélissa i ka hoʻāʻo mua. Aia ʻo Stéphan lāua ʻo Alban i ka lani. E hoʻokō ʻia kā lākou makemake nui.

Makaʻu nui i ka ultrasound mua

Akā i ka ultrasound mua, ʻo ia ka makaʻu nui. Hōʻike ʻia kahi wahi ʻeleʻele ma ka pale. 'Ōlelo ke kauka iā lākou he 80% ka pilikia o ka hāʻule ʻana. Ua pōʻino ʻo Stéphan lāua ʻo Alban. Hoʻi i Farani, hoʻomaka lākou e kanikau i kēia keiki. A laila, he leka uila i hoʻokahi pule ma hope: “maikaʻi ke pēpē, ua maikaʻi nā mea a pau. ”

E hoʻomaka i kahi marathon ikaika. Ma waena o nā huakaʻi hoʻi a hoʻi i ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, nā leka uila i kēlā me kēia lā, ua komo ikaika nā makuakāne e hiki mai ana i ka hāpai ʻana o ka makuahine pani. "Ua hoʻopaʻa mākou iā mākou iho e haʻi i nā moʻolelo. Ua kau ʻo Mélissa i ka mahiole ma kona ʻōpū i hiki i kā mākou pēpē ke lohe i ko mākou leo. », Haʻiʻo Stéphan.

He hānau maikaʻi

Ke kokoke mai nei ka lā hoʻopuka. Ke hiki mai ka manawa, ʻaʻole makemake nā keikikāne e hele i ke keʻena hānai akā e kali hoʻomanawanui ma hope o ka puka. Ua hānau ʻia ʻo Bianca ma Nowemapa 11. ʻO ka hui mua he kupua. ” I kona kau ʻana i kona mau maka i loko oʻu, ua nui ka manaʻo nui iaʻu », hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Stéphan. ʻElua makahiki o ke kali ʻana, pono ka pāʻani i ke kukui. Noho nā makua me kā lāua keiki. Loaʻa iā lākou ko lākou lumi ponoʻī i loko o ka hale hānai a hana i nā mālama pediatric āpau e like me nā makuahine. Hana koke nā pepa.

Hāʻawi ʻia kahi palapala hānau e like me ke kānāwai Minnesota. Ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo Mélissa lāua ʻo Stéphan nā mākua. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ke hānau ʻia ke keiki ma waho, pono e haʻi ʻia i ka consulate o ka ʻāina hānau. "Akā inā ʻike ʻo ia i kahi kāne e hiki mai ana i hānau keiki me kahi wahine mare ʻē aʻe, maʻa mau ka hihia."

ʻO ka hoʻi ʻana i Farani

Haʻalele ka ʻohana hou iā ʻAmelika Hui Pū ʻIa, he ʻumi lā ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o Bianca. I ka hoʻi ʻana, haʻalulu nā ʻōpio i ko lākou hoʻokokoke ʻana i ka hana maʻamau. Akā ua holo pono nā mea a pau. ʻIke ʻo Bianca i kona home, kona ola hou. A me ka lāhui Farani? I loko o nā mahina ma hope o nā makuakāne e hoʻonui i nā ʻanuʻu, e pāʻani i kā lākou pilina a laki, loaʻa. Akā, ʻike maikaʻi lākou he ʻokoʻa. ʻOiai e hoʻolauleʻa koke ana kā lāua kaikamahine i kona lā hānau mua, Makemake ʻo Alban lāua ʻo Stéphan i kā lāua kuleana hou ma ke ʻano he makua kāne. Ua loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka ko lākou wahi i loko o kēia ʻohana ʻokoʻa. ” Ua ʻike mākou e hakakā kā kā mākou kaikamahine ma ke kahua pāʻani. Akā ke loli nei ke kaiāulu, ke loli nei nā noʻonoʻo, "wahi a Stéphan, manaʻolana.

No ka male kāne hoʻokahi, kahi e ʻae ʻia e ke kānāwai hou, ua manaʻo nui nā kāne e hele i mua o ke kuhina. “He koho maoli anei kā mākou? », koi aku o Stéphan. ” ʻAʻohe ala ʻē aʻe e pale ai i kā mākou kaikamahine ma ke kānāwai. Inā loaʻa iaʻu kekahi mea i ka lā ʻapōpō, pono iā Alban ke kuleana e mālama i kāna keiki. “

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