ʻO ka paradoxically, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi ke hāʻawi i kahi wehewehe maopopo i ka manaʻo e hoʻomalu i ka honua. ʻAʻohe kumu hoʻohālikelike o ke aloha, nā kumu, nā ʻano āpau. ʻO ka manaʻo a ʻaʻole paha i ke aloha wale nō kā mākou e hana ai.
ʻO kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi e pūliki ana i kona makuahine a me kahi keiki e uē ana i ka huhū no ka hewa o ka makuahine. ʻO ke kāne nāna i hāʻawi i nā pua i kāna mea aloha, a ʻo ka mea i hahau i kāna wahine me ka huhū. ʻO ka wahine lili i kāna kāne no kahi hoa hana, a ʻo ka mea i ʻapo aloha i kāna mea aloha. Hiki iā lākou a pau ke aloha me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻohe mea nani a i ʻole, hoʻowahāwahā i ke ʻano o ka hōʻike ʻana i kēia manaʻo.
Kū'ē i ka manaʻo nui he nui ka poʻe o ka honua i hiki ʻole ke aloha, ʻōlelo ʻia nā helu ʻokoʻa. ʻO Psychopathy, i hōʻike ʻia i ka hiki ʻole ke ʻike i ka empathy a me ke aloha, a ma muli o ke aloha, aia ma 1% wale nō o ka heluna kanaka o ka honua. A ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki i ka 99% o nā kānaka ke aloha. Eia naʻe, i kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole loa kēia aloha i ka mea a kākou e ʻike ai. No laila ʻaʻole mākou ʻike iā ia.
"Ke kānalua nei au he aloha maoli ʻo ia iaʻu" he huaʻōlelo aʻu e lohe pinepine ai mai nā hoa kāne e ʻimi nei i ke kōkua. ʻO ka hui ʻana i kahi kanaka me kahi ʻano ʻē aʻe o ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo, hoʻomaka mākou e kānalua - aloha maoli ʻo ia? A i kekahi manawa e alakaʻi kēia mau kānalua i ka pilina i kahi hopena make.
I nehinei, ua kūkākūkā au me kekahi mau hoa i ulu aʻe nā hoa i nā kūlana like ʻole. ʻO ia ke keiki hiapo o ka ʻohana, kahi i manaʻo ʻia mai ka wā kamaliʻi e hoʻokō kūʻokoʻa ʻo ia i kāna mau pilikia a kōkua i nā ʻōpio. Ua aʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole e hōʻike i nā ʻike ʻeha, ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia i ka poʻe i aloha ʻia a "hele i loko ona" i nā kūlana pilikia.
A ʻo ia wale nō ke kaikamahine i loko o ka ʻohana "Italian type", kahi i wehewehe ʻia ai ka pilina me ka leo kiʻekiʻe, a ʻo ka pane ʻana o nā mākua impulsive ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia. I kona wā kamaliʻi, hiki iā ia ke mālama maikaʻi ʻia a hoʻopaʻi ʻia no kekahi mea. Ua aʻo kēia iā ia e hoʻolohe me ka nānā pono i nā manaʻo o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a e makaʻala mau.
Ua hui pū ʻo Fate iā lākou! A i kēia manawa, i ke ʻano o ka haʻalulu liʻiliʻi, nānā ʻo ia me ka weliweli ma kona helehelena mamao a hoʻāʻo e "kikeke" ma kahi liʻiliʻi loa (ʻo ia hoʻi, ka manaʻo) me nā ʻano impulsive maʻamau. A ua hoʻopaʻa ʻo ia i nā mea ʻē aʻe mai ka hoʻopuka ʻana o kona mau manaʻo, no ka mea, manaʻo ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻokō, a ʻo ka hopohopo e lilo ʻo ia i pōhaku hou aʻe! ʻAʻole maopopo kēlā me kēia o lākou i ke kumu o ka hana ʻana o ka lua i kēia ʻano, a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka manaʻo he aloha maoli lākou iā ia.
ʻO ka ʻokoʻa o kā mākou ʻike kamaliʻi e hoʻoholo i ke ʻano o ke ʻano o kā mākou aloha. A ʻo ia ke kumu i ʻokoʻa ai mākou i kekahi manawa i nā hōʻike o kēia manaʻo. Akā, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka pau ʻana o ke aloha e like me ke kumumanaʻo i kau ʻia i loko o ka wā kamaliʻi? ʻO ka pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole. Hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia nā ʻano pilina maʻamau a ʻehaʻeha, ʻoiai ka hoʻoilina ʻohana. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kanaka makua ka manawa e kākau hou i kā lākou ʻano o ke aloha.
… A i loko o kēia mau kāne, i ka pau ʻana o kā mākou hui ʻekolu, ua hoʻomaka ka ʻōpuʻu o ka manaʻolana. "Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei au ua aloha ʻoe iaʻu," wahi āna, me ka nānā ʻana i kona mau maka. A maopopo iaʻu e hoʻomaka ana lākou e hana i kahi moʻolelo aloha ponoʻī.