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No ka lawe ʻana i nā peni - a i ʻole he hewa ke hana? He aha kāu e haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe? A he aha ke poʻo?

I ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hana e hana i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa "E hana hou, ʻae, hoʻohui," hauʻoli loa wau i ka manawa e hoʻopaʻapaʻa ai. A laila, i koʻu hoʻomaka ʻana e hana i kēia hoʻoikaika kino, ua huhū au. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ka hoʻohana ʻana i kēia ʻenehana, ʻaʻole hoihoi loa ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa.

No laila, hōʻike hou wau. I loko o kēia hana, ua loaʻa iaʻu 3 mau kamaʻilio me nā hoa hana a hoʻokahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa hāʻule i ka home. Pehea ia?

Ua wehewehe au i ka ʻenehana i kaʻu kāne a noi aku iā ia e kōkua mai iaʻu e hoʻopau i ka hana. Ua ʻōlelo ka hana he ʻokoʻa nā manaʻo o ka poʻe interlocutors. Ke ʻimi nei māua me kaʻu kāne i kēia kumuhana no ka manawa lōʻihi loa. E like me kaʻu i manaʻo ai i ka wā mua, he nui kā mākou mau kumuhana like. ʻOiai mākou e hoʻokaʻawale ana i nā koho i hiki ke koho ʻia, ua ʻike ʻia he nui ka like o māua me kaʻu kāne… kāhāhā… ʻO ka hopena, ua loaʻa iā mākou kahi kumuhana a ua ʻike ʻia ke kamaʻilio penei:

O wau: Manaʻo wau e mālama ʻole ʻia ka uē pēpē.

Kāne: ʻAe wau i kekahi manawa pono nā pēpē e uē a hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kā lākou mau kaula leo. A no ka nawaliwali o ke aʻalolo o ka pāpā, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana i kēia i mua o ka pāpā.

O wau: Ua maopopo anei iaʻu iā ʻoe hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele i ka uē ʻana o kahi keiki inā ʻaʻole ʻo ka makuakāne ma ka home? Ke ʻae nei au aia kekahi mau mea ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hana me ka pāpā. A makemake wau e hoʻohui inā inā hoʻomaha ka makuahine i ke keiki me ka makuakāne, a mālama ʻole iā ia me ka ʻole o ka makuakāne, a laila hiki ke hoʻopili i ke keiki. I kēia hihia, inā hopohopo ka makuakāne, a laila hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaha iā ia, ʻoiai ʻo ka makuahine "ʻaʻole ʻike."

Kāne: ʻAe, ʻae wau. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ua ʻōlelo ʻoe pono ʻo ka makuakāne e hoʻopōmaikaʻi i kāna kaikamahine a ʻoi aku ka palupalu me ia ma mua o ka makuahine.

O wau: ʻae au.

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