PSYchology

ʻO ka kapu ʻana i nā ʻano he nui o ka moekolohe kanaka he ala maikaʻi loa ia e kūkulu ai i kahi hui inaina, i hoʻohana ʻia ma Rūsia a me nā mea hoʻoweliweli Islam.

Hoʻomaka ka "Iliad" o Homer me kahi o ka huhū o Achilles: Ua huhū ʻo Achilles iā Agamemnon no ka mea ua lawe pio ʻo ia iā Briseis ma muli o ke koa nui. He hopena kūlohelohe maoli kēia o ke kāne huhū. ʻO ka mea hiki ʻole ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia mai kahi ʻano o kēia manawa: no ke aha e pono ai ʻo Achilles iā Briseis inā loaʻa iā ia ʻo Patroclus?

E haʻi mai ʻoe iaʻu - he palapala kēia. A laila, eia kahi moʻolelo iā ʻoe: ʻo ke aliʻi Spartan Cleomenes, i holo i ʻAigupita, ua hoʻāʻo e hoʻonohonoho i kahi kipi ma laila a hopu i ka mana. Ua hāʻule ka hoʻāʻo ʻana, ua hoʻopuni ʻia nā Spartans, kauoha ʻo Cleomenes i nā mea a pau e pepehi iā lākou iho. ʻO ka mea ola hope loa ʻo Pantheus, ʻo ia ka mea, e like me Plutarch, "ʻo ia ka mea i aloha nui ʻia e ke aliʻi a ua loaʻa iā ia nā kauoha mai iā ia e make hope loa i kona manaʻo ʻana ua make nā mea ʻē aʻe ... honi aku la ia i ke alii, a noho iho la me ia. I ka pau ʻana o ka make ʻana o Cleomenes, ʻapo ʻo Pantheus i ke kupapaʻu a me ka wehe ʻole ʻana i kona mau lima, ua hou ʻo ia iā ia iho a make.

Ma hope o kēlā, e like me kā Plutarch i ʻōlelo ai, ua hou ka wahine ʻōpio a Panthea iā ia iho: "He hopena ʻawaʻawa i loaʻa iā lāua ʻelua i waena o ko lāua aloha."

Eia hou: pēlā ʻo Cleomenes a i ʻole ka wahine ʻōpio?

ʻO Alcibiades ka mea i aloha iā Socrates, ʻaʻole ia i pale iā ia mai ka hoʻolei ʻana i nā ʻoliʻoli heterosexual a puni ʻo Athens. ʻO ka wahine Kaisara i kona wā ʻōpiopio, ʻo ia ka "moena o ka Mōʻī Nicomedes." ʻO Pelopidas, ka mea i aloha ʻia e Epaminondas, ua kauoha ʻo ia i ka hui kapu ʻo Teban, ʻo ia hoʻi nā mea aloha a me nā mea aloha, ʻaʻole i pale i kāna wahine mai ka "ʻike ʻana iā ia me ka waimaka mai ka hale." Ua lawe o Zeus i ke keiki Ganymede i Olympus i ka maiuu, aole ia i pale aku ia Zeus mai ka hoowalewale ia Demeter, Persephone, Europe, Danae a me ka papa inoa hele ma, a ma Helene kahiko, na kane i ke aloha hoohiki i ka hoohiki i kekahi i kekahi ma ka lua kupapaʻu. ʻo Iolaus, ʻo Hercules aloha, nāna i hāʻawi aku ʻo Hercules i kāna wahine ʻo Megara. ʻO ka mea lanakila nui loa o ka wā kahiko, ʻo Alexander the Great, ua aloha nui ʻo ia i kāna Hephaestion aloha a ua mare lāua i nā kaikamahine ʻelua a Dariu. ʻAʻole kēia he mau triangle aloha iā ʻoe, ʻo ia kekahi, pololei, aloha tetrahedra!

Ma ke ʻano he kanaka i aʻo ʻia e kona makuakāne mai ka makahiki ʻeono, ʻelua mau nīnau maopopo i hoʻopilikia iaʻu no kekahi manawa.

— No ke aha i ʻike ʻia ai ka gay hou e ka ʻaha kanaka a me ke ʻano o ka wahine, ʻoiai i ka wā kahiko, ʻo nā gays ka poʻe koa ʻino loa?

- A no ke aha i manaʻo ʻia ai ka homosexuality i kēia manawa he ʻano o ka moe kolohe liʻiliʻi, ʻoiai i ka wā kahiko ua wehewehe ʻia ʻo ia he manawa i ke ola o kahi helu nui o nā kāne?

ʻO ke kūkākūkā i wehe ʻia i ka manawa o nā kānāwai homophobic medieval i hāpai ʻia e ka State Duma e hāʻawi iaʻu i ka manawa e kamaʻilio ai i kēia pilikia. Eia kekahi, ʻo nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hōʻike ana, i koʻu manaʻo, ka naʻaupō kupaianaha: ʻo ka poʻe e hoʻomāinoino i ka "hewa maoli ʻole" a me ka poʻe e ʻōlelo nei: "He kāne kāne mākou, a hānau ʻia mākou ma kēlā ʻano."

ʻAʻohe kāne kāne? E like me ka heterosexuals.

"ʻO ka manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo ke kanaka, a he pono paha, he heterosexual, he moʻolelo wale nō," i kākau ai ʻo James Neill i kāna ʻO ke kumu a me ke kuleana o ka pilina kāne like i loko o nā hui kanaka, kahi puke e noʻonoʻo hou i nā kumu o kanaka, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻohālikelike wale me Sigmund Freud.

ʻO kēia kahi a mākou e hoʻomaka ai: mai ka manaʻo o ka biology hou, ʻo ka ʻōlelo ʻana ʻaʻole i noho ka male ma ke ʻano maoli a pono ʻia ke kāne no ka hana hou ʻana. He mea maopopo a he wahaheʻe e like me ka ʻōlelo "Hoʻopuni ka lā a puni ka Honua."

E hāʻawi wau i kahi laʻana maʻalahi. ʻO kā mākou pili pili loa, me ka chimpanzee, ʻo ia ka bonobo, ka pygmy chimpanzee. ʻO ka kupuna maʻamau o nā chimpanzees a me nā bonobos i ola ma kahi o 2,5 miliona mau makahiki i hala aku nei, a ʻo ka kupuna maʻamau o nā kānaka, nā chimpanzees a me nā bonobos i noho ma kahi o 6-7 miliona mau makahiki i hala. Manaʻo kekahi poʻe mea olaola he ʻoi aku ka pili o nā bonobo i nā kānaka ma mua o nā chimpanzees, no ka mea, he nui nā hiʻohiʻona e pili ana iā lākou me ke kanaka. ʻO kahi laʻana, ʻaneʻane mākaukau nā bonobo wahine i ka male. He ʻano ʻokoʻa kēia e hoʻokaʻawale ai i nā bonobos a me nā kānaka mai nā primate ʻē aʻe.

Hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ka hui Bonobo e nā hiʻohiʻona ʻelua i waena o nā primates. ʻO ka mea mua, he matriarchal. ʻAʻole ia e alakaʻi ʻia e kahi kāne alpha, e like me nā primates ʻē aʻe, akā e kahi hui o nā wahine kahiko. ʻO kēia ka mea kupanaha loa no ka mea, ʻo nā bonobo, e like me ko lākou mau ʻohana pili loa homo a me nā chimpanzees, ua haʻi i ka dimorphism moe kolohe, a ʻo ka wahine he 80% o ke kaumaha o ke kāne. ʻIke ʻia, pili pono kēia matriarchy me ka hiki ʻana o nā bonobos wahine i ka male mau.

Akā ʻokoʻa ka mea nui. He monkey ʻo Bonobo e hoʻoponopono kokoke i nā paio āpau i loko o ka hui ma o ka moekolohe. He monkey kēia, i loko o ka ʻōlelo kupanaha a Franz de Waal, ua hoʻokō pono i ka huaʻōlelo hippie: "Make aloha, ʻaʻole kaua"2.

Inā hoʻoponopono nā chimpanzees i nā paio me ka hana ʻino, a laila hoʻoponopono nā bonobos iā lākou me ka moekolohe. A maʻalahi paha. Inā makemake ka monkey e kiʻi i ka maiʻa mai kekahi moʻo ʻē aʻe, a inā he chimpanzee, a laila e piʻi mai ʻo ia, hāʻawi i ka pū a lawe i ka maiʻa. A inā he bonobo, e piʻi mai ʻo ia e hoʻokamakama, a laila e kiʻi i ka maiʻa no ka mahalo. ʻAʻole pili ke kāne o nā monkey ʻelua. ʻO Bonobos he bisexual ma ke ʻano piha o ka huaʻōlelo.

E haʻi mai ʻoe iaʻu he ʻokoʻa nā bonobos. ʻAe, ma ke ʻano o ka moekolohe ʻana ma ke ʻano he hōʻike o ke kaulike.

ʻO ka pilikia, ʻo nā primates ʻē aʻe a pau e komo pū i ka wahine kāne kāne, ʻokoʻa wale nō ke ʻano.

No ka laʻana, ʻo nā gorilla nō hoʻi ko mākou ʻohana pili, ʻo kā mākou laina evolution i hoʻokaʻawale 10-11 miliona mau makahiki i hala. Noho ʻo Gorillas i loko o kahi ʻeke liʻiliʻi o 8-15 mau kānaka, aia kahi kāne alpha i haʻi ʻia, 3-6 wahine a me nā ʻōpio. Nīnau: pehea nā kāne ʻōpio i kipaku ʻia i waho o ka ʻeke, akā ʻaʻohe wahine no lākou? Hoʻokumu pinepine nā kāne ʻōpio i kā lākou pūʻulu ponoʻī, no ka mea, hoʻokumu pinepine nā kāne ʻōpio i pūʻali koa, a mālama ʻia nā pilina i loko o kahi pūʻulu o nā kāne ʻōpio ma o ka moekolohe.

Noho ʻo Baboons i nā ʻohana nui, a hiki i ka 100 mau kānaka, a no ka mea aia kahi pūʻulu o nā kāne alpha ma ke poʻo o ka ʻohana, ua kū maoli ka nīnau: pehea e hiki ai i kahi kāne alpha ke hōʻoia i kona kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma mua o nā kāne ʻōpio me ka pepehi ʻole iā lākou a make, e nā kāne, pehea e hōʻoia ai i ko ʻoukou hoʻolohe? ʻIke ʻia ka pane: hōʻike ke kāne alpha i kona pono ma ka piʻi ʻana ma luna o kahi subordinate, maʻamau he kāne ʻōpio. E like me ke kānāwai, he pilina pili pono kēia. Inā ʻo ia eromenos (ka poʻe Helene kahiko i kapa ʻia kēia huaʻōlelo ʻo ia ka mea i noho i ke kūlana o Alcibiades e pili ana iā Socrates) e hōʻeha ʻia e nā monkey ʻē aʻe, e uē ʻo ia, a e hele koke mai kahi kāne makua e hoʻopakele.

Ma ka laulā, ʻo ka moe kāne like me nā kāne ʻōpio ka mea maʻamau i waena o nā monkey i manaʻoʻiʻo ai kekahi poʻe noiʻi e hele nā ​​monkey i kahi pae homosexual i ko lākou ulu ʻana.

ʻO ka pilina kāne kāne ma ke ʻano he wahi ia e kū nei ke kipi Copernican i mua o ko mākou mau maka. I ka makahiki 1977, ua hōʻole ʻia ka hana paionia a George Hunt ma nā kāne lesbian ma waena o nā gull poʻo ʻeleʻele ma Kaleponi no ka kū ʻole ʻana i nā manaʻo o ka biology.

A laila, i ka hiki ʻole ke hōʻole i ka hilahila, ua hiki mai ka pae o nā wehewehe Freudian: "He pāʻani kēia", "ʻAe, piʻi kēia baboon ma luna o kekahi baboon, akā ʻaʻole kēia ka wahine, akā ke aupuni." ʻIke ʻia ke kumu o ka mana: akā no ke aha kēia ʻano?

I ka makahiki 1999, ua helu ʻia ka hana holomua a Bruce Bagemill4 he 450 mau ʻano i loaʻa ka pilina kāne kāne. Mai ia manawa, ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia kekahi ʻano o ka pilina male kāne ma 1,5 tausani mau ʻano holoholona, ​​a i kēia manawa ʻo ka pilikia ka mea like ʻole: ʻaʻole hiki i nā mea olaola ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo aia kekahi mau ʻano i loaʻa ʻole iā lākou.

I ka manawa like, ʻokoʻa ke ʻano a me ka pinepine o kēia mau pilina. I loko o ka liona, ke aliʻi o nā holoholona, ​​me ka haʻaheo, a hiki i ka 8% o nā pilina pili i waena o nā poʻe o ka wahine hoʻokahi. Ua like loa ke kumu me ko ka baboons. ʻO ke poʻo o ka haʻaheo ʻo ke kāne alpha (kakaʻikahi ʻelua, a laila he mau kaikunāne lāua), a ʻo ke kāne alpha pono e kūkulu i nā pilina me ka hanauna ʻōpio a me ke alakaʻi pū i ʻole e ʻai kekahi i kekahi.

I loko o nā pūnana hipa mauna, a hiki i ka 67% o nā pilina he kāne kāne, a he holoholona ʻokoʻa ka hipa home, kahi e piʻi mau ai ka 10% o nā kānaka ma luna o nā hipa ʻē aʻe, ʻoiai inā he wahine kokoke. Eia nō naʻe, hiki ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia kēia hiʻohiʻona i nā kūlana kūlohelohe e loli mau ai ka ʻano: e hoʻohālikelike kākou, no ka laʻana, me ka moe kolohe o nā kāne i loko o nā hale paʻahao Lūkini.

ʻO kekahi holoholona ʻokoʻa ʻo ka giraffe. Loaʻa iā ia a hiki i ka 96% o kāna mau pilina he kāne kāne.

ʻO nā mea a pau i luna nei he mau hiʻohiʻona o nā holoholona puaʻa, ma o ka moekolohe i loko o ka wahine hoʻokahi, e hōʻemi i ka hakakā ma ka hui, e hōʻike ana i ka mana, a i ʻole, e mālama i ke kaulike. Eia nō naʻe, aia nā hiʻohiʻona o nā kāne male kāne i nā holoholona e noho pālua.

No ka laʻana, 25% o nā swans ʻeleʻele he kāne kāne. Hoʻokumu nā kāne i kahi lua ʻole, kūkulu pū i kahi pūnana a, ma ke ala, hoʻoulu i nā hua ikaika, no ka mea, ʻo ka wahine i ʻike i kēlā mau lua e hele pinepine a ʻōwili i kahi hua i loko o ka pūnana. No ka mea he manu ikaika nā kāne ʻelua, he ʻāina nui ko lāua, nui ka meaʻai, a maikaʻi loa nā keiki (ʻaʻole na lāua, akā ʻohana).

I ka hopena, e haʻi aku wau iā ʻoe i hoʻokahi moʻolelo hou aʻe, he ʻokoʻa nō hoʻi, akā he mea nui loa.

Ua ʻike ka poʻe noiʻi ʻo ka helu o nā kāne male ma waena o nā gull ʻeleʻele ma Patagonia e pili ana iā El Niño, ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ka lewa a me ka nui o ka meaʻai. Inā emi ka meaʻai, a laila e ulu aʻe ka nui o nā kāne lesbian, ʻoiai mālama kekahi gull i kahi hoa momona, a hānai pū lākou i nā moa. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻo ka emi ʻana o ka meaʻai e alakaʻi i ka emi ʻana o ka nui o nā moa me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka maikaʻi o ke ola o nā mea i koe.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, hōʻike maikaʻi kēia moʻolelo i ke ʻano o ka puka ʻana o ka male kāne.

No ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ka mīkini hoʻopiʻi DNA - a ʻo mākou nā mīkini hoʻopiʻi DNA - pono e hana i nā kope he nui e like me ka hiki ke hoʻomaopopo mua loa iā Darwin. E like me ka mea i hōʻike nani ʻia e ke alakaʻi neo-Darwinist hou ʻo Richard Dawkins, pono i ka mīkini hoʻopiʻi DNA i kahi mea ʻē aʻe - ʻo ka nui o nā kope e hiki ke ola e hana hou.

ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia ka hana naʻaupō wale o kēia. Inā hoʻohua ka manu i 6 mau hua i loko o ka pūnana, a he 3 wale nō kāna mea e hānai ai, a laila e make nā moa a pau, a he hoʻolālā ʻino kēia.

No laila, nui nā ʻano hoʻolālā e hoʻonui i ke ola. ʻO kekahi o ia hoʻolālā, no ka laʻana, territorial.

ʻAʻole mare nā wahine o nā manu he nui i ke kāne inā ʻaʻohe ona pūnana - heluhelu: ka ʻāina kahi āna e hānai ai i nā moa. Inā ola kekahi kane mai ka pūnana, a laila noho ka wahine ma ka pūnana. Ua male ʻo ia, gu.e. ʻōlelo, ʻaʻole no ke kāne, akā no ka pūnana. No nā kumuwaiwai meaʻai.

ʻO kahi hoʻolālā ola ʻē aʻe ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi hierarchy a me ka ʻeke. Loaʻa i ka pono e hoʻohua ka mea maikaʻi loa, alpha male. ʻO kahi hoʻolālā e hoʻohui i ka hierarchy ʻo ka wahine kāne kāne. I loko o kahi pūʻolo, ʻekolu mau nīnau e hoʻoponopono ai: pehea e hiki ai i ke kāne alpha ke hōʻoia i kona kūlana kiʻekiʻe ma luna o nā kāne ʻōpio me ka ʻole o ka ʻoʻopa iā lākou (e hōʻemi ana i ka manawa o ka mīkini gene no ke ola ʻana), pehea e hiki ai i nā kāne ʻōpio ke kūkulu i ka pilina ma waena o lākou. , hou me ka hacking ole i kekahi i ka make, A pehea e hōʻoia i ka wahine i ole kaua iwaena o lakou iho?

Ua maopopo ka pane.

A inā manaʻo ʻoe aia kekahi kanaka ma luna o kēlā, he nīnau maʻalahi kaʻu. E ʻoluʻolu, e haʻi mai iaʻu, i ka wā e kukuli ai ke kanaka i mua o ke aliʻi, ʻo ia hoʻi, i mua o ke kāne alpha, a i ʻole, e hoʻomoe ana iā ia iho, he aha kāna manaʻo a he aha nā ʻano kūlohelohe o nā kūpuna mamao e hoʻi ai kēia ʻano. ?

He mea hana ikaika loa ka sex no ka hoʻohana ʻana i hoʻokahi ala. ʻAʻole ʻo Sex wale nō kahi hana no ka hoʻohua hou ʻana, akā he ʻano hana no ka hana ʻana i nā paʻa i loko o ka hui e kōkua i ke ola o ka hui. ʻO nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole o nā ʻano hana e pili ana i ka wahine kāne kāne e hōʻike ana ua kū kūʻokoʻa kēia hoʻolālā i ka mōʻaukala o ka evolution ma mua o hoʻokahi, e like me ka laʻana, ala aʻe ka maka i nā manawa he nui.

Ma waena o nā holoholona haʻahaʻa, nui nō hoʻi nā kāne kāne, a ʻo ka hope - he nīnau kēia o ka ʻokoʻa - ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke ʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe me ka moʻolelo o kahi pahu moe maʻamau. Hoʻopili ʻia kēia palaka me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe no ke kumu maʻalahi: hoʻopili ʻo ia me kahi mea omo koko.

E like me kāu e ʻike maʻalahi ai ma luna, i loko o ke aupuni holoholona, ​​ʻike ʻia ka pilina kāne kāne e kahi ʻano nui. Hōʻike lākou i ka nui o nā pilina ma nā ʻano like ʻole.

ʻO ke kanaka ʻaʻole i loaʻa nā pane kūlohelohe maoli, akā he helu maʻamau o nā kuʻuna, nā kānāwai a me nā kuʻuna, a ʻaʻole i kau wale kēia mau kuʻuna i ka physiology, akā komo pū i loko o kahi manaʻo paʻa me ia a hoʻoikaika iā ia - ka hoʻopuehu ʻana o nā ʻano hana e pili ana. homosexuality colossal. Hiki i kekahi ke kūkulu i kahi papa helu lōʻihi o nā hui e like me ko lākou ʻano i ka male kāne.

Ma kekahi hopena o kēia unahi, no ka laʻana, ka Judeo-Christian civilization me kāna categorical prohibition o ka hewa o Sodoma.

Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe o ka pālākiō, no ka laʻana, ʻo ke kaiāulu ʻo Etoro. He ʻohana liʻiliʻi kēia ma New Guinea, kahi e like me ka nui o nā ʻohana New Guinean ma ke ʻano laulā, ʻo ia ʻano mea e like me ka hua kāne e noho i ke kuleana koʻikoʻi i ke ao holoʻokoʻa.

Mai ka manaʻo o ka Etoro, ʻaʻole hiki i ke keikikāne ke ulu aʻe ke loaʻa iā ia ka hua kāne. No laila, i ka ʻumi o nā makahiki, lawe ʻia nā keikikāne a pau mai nā wahine (ʻaʻole lākou e hana ʻino i nā wahine, manaʻo ʻia he mau kupua, etc.) a lawe iā lākou i ka hale o nā kāne, kahi e loaʻa mau ai i kahi keikikāne mai ka 10 a hiki i ka 20 mau makahiki. o ka mea hooulu ulu, anally a waha. Inā ʻaʻole kēia, "ʻaʻole e ulu ke keiki." I nā nīnau a ka poʻe noiʻi: "Pehea, a ʻo ʻoe pū kekahi?" — Pane mai na kamaaina: "Ae, ike oe: Ua ulu au." Hoʻohana pinepine ke kaikunāne o kāna wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana i ke keikikāne, akā i nā manawa koʻikoʻi, nui nā mea kōkua ʻē aʻe e komo i ka hoʻomana. Ma hope o ka makahiki 20, ulu ke keikikāne, hoʻololi nā kuleana, a ke hana nei ʻo ia i mea hāʻawi i ke ʻano o ka ulu.

ʻO ka mea maʻamau i kēia manawa male ʻo ia, a no ka mea maʻamau ʻo ia e mare i kahi kaikamahine ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ka makahiki, i kēia manawa he ʻelua mau hoa pili, a ʻo lāua ʻelua āna e kamaʻilio nei, e like me ka ʻōlelo a ke kahunapule Protestant, "ma ke ʻano kūlohelohe." A laila ulu ke kaikamahine, he mau keiki kāna, a ma ka makahiki 40 e hoʻomaka ana e alakaʻi i kahi ola heterosexual piha, ʻaʻole i helu i ka hana pili i nā lā koʻikoʻi e kōkua i ka hanauna e hiki mai ana.

Ma muli o ke kumu hoʻohālike o thisoro, ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia nā paionia a me nā Komsomol i kā mākou USSR, me ka ʻokoʻa wale nō ʻo ia ka mea i hoʻopaʻa ʻia i ka lolo, ʻaʻole i nā wahi ʻē aʻe o ke kino.

ʻAʻole wau makemake nui i ka hoʻoponopono politika, ka mea e ʻōlelo nei he kū hoʻokahi a kupaianaha kēlā me kēia moʻomeheu kanaka. ʻAʻole kūpono i kekahi mau moʻomeheu ke kuleana e ola ai. ʻAʻole hiki ke loaʻa i kekahi mea hoʻopailua i loko o ka papa inoa o nā moʻomeheu kanaka ma mua o ka etoro, koe naʻe, no ka mea ʻoluʻolu o nā kāhuna o kekahi mau lāhui ʻAmelika i pau e copulate me nā mea e hiki mai ana ma mua o ka mōhai.

ʻIke ʻia ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka moʻomeheu Kalikiano a me ka etoro i ka maka ʻōlohelohe. A aia ia ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ua laha ka moʻomeheu Kalikiano ma ka honua a ua hoʻokumu i kahi moʻomeheu nui, a ua noho ka Etoros i loko o kā lākou ululāʻau a ke noho nei. Ma ke ala, pili pono kēia kūlana i nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka wahine, no ka mea, ua pāpā ka poʻe Kristiano i ka pilina kāne kāne a ua hoʻohua a hoʻonui ʻia i nā helu e pono ai lākou e hoʻoponopono, a mahalo i kā lākou mau male male, ua kūlike kēiaoros me ke ʻano.

ʻO kēia no ka poʻe aloha i ke kaulike me ke ʻano: e ʻoluʻolu mai poina i kekahi o nā ʻohana i loko o kēia kaulike i hoʻokō i kēia homeostasis i hauʻoli i nā ʻuhane o ka "'ōmaʻomaʻo" me ke kōkua o ka pedophilia a me ka cannibalism.

Eia nō naʻe, he nui ka nui o nā moʻomeheu i ka honua i ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o kā mākou, i kekahi manawa ʻo ia nā mea ma mua a ua hoʻomanawanui i ka homosexuality.

ʻO ka mea mua, ʻo ia ka moʻomeheu kahiko aʻu i haʻi mua ai, akā ʻo ka moʻomeheu o ka poʻe Kelemania kahiko a me ka samurai Iapana. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, e like me ma waena o nā gorillas ʻōpio, ua hana ʻia ka moe ma waena o nā koa ʻōpio, a ʻo ke aloha like ʻole i hiki ʻole ke lanakila ʻia ka pūʻali koa.

ʻO ka hui kapu ʻo Theban he mau kāne ʻōpio i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma kēia ʻano, e hoʻomaka ana me ko lākou mau alakaʻi, nā mokuʻāina kaulana ʻo Pelopidas a me Epaminondas. Ua haʻi mai ʻo Plutarch, ka mea maʻamau e pili ana i ka moekolohe ma waena o nā kāne, i kahi moʻolelo e pili ana i ka lanakila ʻana o ka Mōʻī Pilipo i ka Thebans ma Chaeronea a ʻike i nā kupapaʻu o nā mea aloha a me nā mea aloha i make ʻaoʻao me ka ʻole o ka hele ʻana i hope, ua hāʻule: " E make oia i ka mea i manao ua hana lakou i ka mea hilahila.

ʻO nā detachments o nā mea aloha ʻōpio ke ʻano o ka poʻe Kelemania huhū. Wahi a ka moʻolelo o Procopius o Kaisareia6, ua hoʻokō ʻo Alaric, ka mea nāna i hoʻopau iā Roma i ka makahiki 410, ua hoʻokō ʻo ia i kēia ma ka maalea: ʻo ia hoʻi, ua koho ʻo ia i 300 mau ʻōpio ʻumiʻumi mai kona pūʻali koa, ua hāʻawi ʻo ia iā lākou i nā poʻe patricians e kuko no kēia ʻoihana, a ʻo ia hoʻi i hoʻokaʻawale i ka ʻoihana. hoomoana: ma ka la i oleloia, ua pepehi na opio, ka poe i waena o na koa koa loa, i na kiai o ke kulanakauhale, a hookuu aku i ka poe Goth. heihei.

Ua mālama ʻo Samurai i ka homosexuality ma ke ʻano like me ko Spartans, ʻo ia hoʻi, gu.e. ʻōlelo, ua ʻae ʻia ʻo ia, e like me ka pôpeku a i ʻole ka lawaiʻa. Inā ʻae ʻia ka lawaiʻa i loko o kahi hui, ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo e hana nā mea a pau. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe i loaʻa i loko, ke ʻole, ʻoiaʻiʻo, hāʻule ke kanaka i loko o ka pupule no ka lawaiʻa.

I ka hopena, e haʻi wau i kahi hui kaiaulu, ʻaʻole paha i ʻike nā mea a pau. ʻO kēia ka hui kaiaulu Korea "hwarang" o ka Silla Dynasty: he pūʻali koa o nā keikikāne aliʻi elite, kaulana no ko lākou wiwo ʻole, a me kā lākou hana maʻamau o ka pena ʻana i ko lākou mau maka a me ka ʻaʻahu wahine. ʻO ke poʻo o ka Hwarang Kim Yushin (595-673) i hana nui i ka hui ʻana o Korea ma lalo o ke aupuni o Silla. Ma hope o ka hāʻuleʻana o ka moʻokūʻauhau, ua lilo ka hua'ōlelo "hwarang" i keʻano o "ka wahine hoʻokamakama".

A inā ʻike ʻoe i nā ʻano maʻamau o ka Hwarang, a laila he nīnau leʻaleʻa: e ʻoluʻolu e haʻi mai iaʻu no ke aha i hele ai ka nui o nā koa o nā hui like ʻole i ke kaua me nā ʻulaʻula a me nā hulu, e like me nā wahine hoʻokamakama ma ka papa?

ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kēia manawa e maʻalahi iā mākou ke pane i ka nīnau i waiho ʻia ma ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kēia ʻatikala: no ke aha i loaʻa ai iā Achilles Briseis inā loaʻa iā ia ʻo Patroclus?

I loko o ka nohona kanaka, ʻaʻole i hoʻoholo ʻia ke ʻano e ka biology. He kūlana moʻomeheu. ʻAʻole ʻo nā primates i nā hiʻohiʻona kūlohelohe: hiki i nā hui chimpanzees ke ʻokoʻa i nā ʻano maʻamau ma mua o nā lāhui kanaka. I loko o ke kanaka, ʻaʻole naʻe i hoʻoholo ʻia ke ʻano e ka biology, akā ma ka moʻomeheu, a i ʻole, ma ka hoʻololi ʻole ʻia o ka biology e ka moʻomeheu.

ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona maʻamau o kēia, ma ke ala, he homophobia. Hōʻike nā haʻawina ʻepekema ʻo ka maʻamau ka homophobes i pani ʻia i nā kāne kāne. ʻO ka homophobe maʻamau ka kāne homosexual huhū i hoʻopaʻa i kāna mau hana a hoʻololi iā lākou me ka inaina i ka poʻe ʻaʻole.

A eia kekahi laʻana like ʻole: i loko o ka nohona hou, ʻo nā wahine (ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole hiki ke kānalua ʻia he kāne kāne) ka mea i ʻoi aku ke aloha i ka male kāne. Ua kākau ʻo Mary Renault i kahi moʻolelo e pili ana iā Alexander the Great ma ka ʻaoʻao o kāna aloha Peresia ʻo Bagoas; Ua kākau kaʻu mea aloha ʻo Lois McMaster Bujold i ka puke "Ethan mai ka honua Eytos", kahi i hoʻoholo ʻia ai kahi kanaka ʻōpio mai ka honua o nā kāne kāne (i kēia manawa ka pilikia o ka hānau ʻana me ka ʻole o ke komo ʻana o ka wahine ponoʻī, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻoholo lōʻihi ʻia) komo i loko o ka honua nui a hui - e, weliweli! - keia mea weliweli - he wahine. A ua ʻae ʻo JK Rowling he kāne kāne ʻo Dumbledore. ʻIke ʻia, aia nō ka mea kākau o kēia mau laina i kēia hui maikaʻi.

Ua makemake nui ke kaiāulu gay i ka noiʻi ʻana e pili ana i ka biochemical triggers of homosexuality (ʻo ka maʻamau ke kamaʻilio nei mākou e pili ana i kekahi mau hormones e hoʻomaka ana e hana ʻia i loko o ka ʻōpū i ka wā pilikia). Akā, aia kēia mau mea biochemical no ka mea e hoʻoulu lākou i ka pane ʻano e hoʻonui ai i ka manawa o ke ola ʻana o kahi ʻano ma lalo o nā kūlana i hāʻawi ʻia. ʻAʻole kēia he glitch i ka papahana, he subprogram kēia e hōʻemi i ka heluna kanaka, akā hoʻonui i ka nui o ka meaʻai no ke koena a hoʻomaikaʻi i kā lākou kōkua like.

ʻO ke ʻano o ke kanaka he plastik pau ʻole. Hōʻike nā moʻomeheu kanaka i nā ʻano hana primate āpau. Hiki i ke kanaka ke noho i loko o nā ʻohana monogamous a maopopo (ma lalo o nā kūlana o ke koʻikoʻi a i ʻole despotism) hiki iā ia ke hōʻuluʻulu i nā ʻohana nui me kahi hierarchy, he alpha male, harem, a me ka ʻaoʻao hope o ka hierarchy - homosexuality, physiological a me hōʻailona.

Ma luna o kēia pie holoʻokoʻa, ua hoʻokiʻekiʻe ʻia ka hoʻokele waiwai, a i loko o kahi honua e loli wikiwiki nei, me ka condom, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, ua pau kēia mau ʻano hana kahiko.

Pehea ka wikiwiki o ka loli ʻana o kēia mau mea hana, a me nā mea ola ʻole a lākou e hilinaʻi ai, hiki ke ʻike ʻia ma ka hana maʻamau a Edward Evans-Pritchard ma ke kula ʻo Zande 'boy-wife'. I ka makahiki 8, he mau mō'ī ko Azande me nā harems nui; ua nui ka nui o na wahine i ka lehulehu, ua hoopaiia ka moe kolohe i ka make, ua pipii loa ke kumu kuai o ka wahine mare, a ua hiki ole i na koa opio o ka halealii ke kuai. No laila, ma waena o ka Azande holomua, e like me Farani hou, ua ʻae ʻia ka male kāne like ʻole, me ka poʻe pane e hoʻomaopopo iā Evans-Pritchard ʻo ke kumu o ka "kāne kāne-wahine" ma muli o ka liʻiliʻi a me ke kumukūʻai kiʻekiʻe o nā wahine. I ka nalo ʻana o ka hoʻokumu ʻana o nā koa i mare ʻole ʻia ma ka hale aliʻi (cf. me nā ʻōpio gorillas a i ʻole nā ​​Kelemania kahiko), ke kumu kūʻai o ka wahine mare a me ka make no ka moekolohe ʻana, ua hoʻopau ʻia nā "kāne kāne-wahine".

Ma kahi ʻano, ʻaʻole loaʻa nā kāne kāne. E like me ka heterosexuals. Aia kahi moe kolohe kanaka i loko o nā manaʻo paʻakikī me nā loina kaiaulu.

Hoʻopuka pinepine ka hoʻolaha LGBT i ka huaʻōlelo e pili ana i "10% o nā kāne male hānau i kekahi heluna kanaka"9. ʻO nā mea a pau a mākou e ʻike ai e pili ana i ka moʻomeheu kanaka e hōʻike ana he lapuwale kēia. ʻOiai ma waena o nā gorilla, ʻaʻole hilinaʻi ka nui o nā kāne i ka genetics, akā ma ke kaiapuni: ua lilo nā wahine i manuahi? ʻAʻole? Hiki i ke kane ʻōpio ke ola hoʻokahi? A i ʻole, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻokumu ʻana i "pūʻali"? ʻO nā mea a pau e hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo, ʻo ka helu o nā kāne kāne ʻaʻole maopopo ʻole ʻoiai inā he nui nā poʻo no ia; ʻO 100% ia ma kēlā mau moʻomeheu kahi i koi ʻia (no ka laʻana, ma kekahi mau ʻohana o New Guinea) a ma waena o nā aliʻi Spartan, nā mōʻī Roma a me nā haumāna o ka goji Iapana ua ʻoi aku kēia helu ma mua o 10%, a ʻaʻole i hoʻopilikia ʻo Patroclus. me Briseis ma kekahi ano.

Huina. ʻO ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana i ke kenekulia XNUMX i ka moekolohe ʻana he peccarum contra natural ( hewa kūʻē i ke ʻano) e like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana e huli ana ka lā a puni ka honua. I kēia manawa he pilikia ʻē aʻe nā mea olaola: ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike pono i nā holoholona bisexual i loaʻa ʻole iā ia, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa ma kahi ʻano hōʻailona.

ʻO kekahi o nā hiʻohiʻona koʻikoʻi o ka homophobia a me ka hoʻolaha LGBT, i koʻu manaʻo, ʻo ia ka mea e kau ai lāua ʻelua i kahi ʻōpio i manaʻo i ka hoihoi i kāna kāne ponoʻī, kahi manaʻo iā ia iho he "kanaka me nā deviations" a he "mea liʻiliʻi". ʻO kahi samurai a i ʻole Spartan i kēia kūlana e hele i ka lawaiʻa a ʻaʻole e hoʻopololei i kona lolo: inā paha ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e hele i ka lawaiʻa a ʻaʻole paha, a inā ʻaʻole kūʻē ka lawaiʻa i ka male ʻana me ka wahine. ʻO ka hopena, ʻo ke kanaka i loko o kahi moʻomeheu ʻē aʻe, e like me Alcibiades a i ʻole Kaisara, e noʻonoʻo i kāna ʻano he ʻano wale nō o kāna moe kolohe a i ʻole kahi pae o kona ulu ʻana, e lilo ia i homophobe huhū e ʻae i nā kānāwai o ka wā kahiko, a i ʻole he kāne huhū e hele ana. i nā pāʻani kāne kāne. , e hooiaio ana, "Ae, owau no."

He mea nui hoʻi kēia iaʻu.

ʻOiai ʻo George Orwell i ka «1984» i ʻike i ka hana koʻikoʻi o ka pāpā ʻana i ka moekolohe i ke kūkulu ʻana i kahi hui holoʻokoʻa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki iā Putin, e like me ka hale pule Kalikiano, ke pāpā i nā hauʻoli o ke ola, koe wale nō ka pilina heterosexual ma kahi kūlana misionari no ke kumu o ka hānau ʻana. He nui loa. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka kapu ʻana i nā ʻano he nui o ka moekolohe kanaka he ala maikaʻi loa ia e kūkulu ai i kahi kaiāulu ʻino, piha i ka inaina, i hoʻohana ʻia e Putin a me ka poʻe hoʻoweliweli Islam.

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ʻO ke kūlana o nā mea hoʻoponopono o Psychologos: "Bestiality, pedophilia a i ʻole homosexuality - mai ka manaʻo o ka ulu ʻana o ke kaiāulu, a mai ka manaʻo o ka ulu ʻana o kēlā me kēia kanaka - e pili ana i ka hana hoʻopaʻapaʻa like me ka pāʻani ʻana i nā mīkini slot. E like me ke kānāwai, i nā ʻano ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia wā, he hana naʻaupō a ʻino kēia. I ka manawa like, inā ʻaʻohe kumu kūpono o ka bestiality a me ka pedophilia i kēia lā (ʻaʻole mākou e noho i ka honua kahiko) a hiki ke hoʻāhewa ʻia me ka wiwo ʻole, a laila ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o ka homosexuality. He kuhi hewa ʻole kēia no ke kaiāulu, ʻaʻole naʻe he koho manuahi no ke kanaka - ua hānau ʻia kekahi poʻe me ia ʻano deviations. A i kēia hihia, ʻo ka lāhui hou e hoʻoulu i kahi hoʻomanawanui.

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