He moeʻuhane hou kaʻu keiki
Ma ke kumumanaʻo, mai ka makahiki 4, ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia ka hiamoe o kāu keiki e like me ko ke kanaka makua. Akā, ʻo ka makaʻu o ka hoʻohilahila ʻana iā ʻoe, kahi pilikia me kahi hoa papa (a i kāna kumu), ʻo ka pilikia ʻohana (i kēia mau makahiki, hopu nā keiki i ka hapa nui o kā mākou kūkākūkā ma waena o nā mākua me ka loaʻa ʻole o nā kī āpau a huki i nā hopena weliweli) hiki ke hoʻopilikia hou. kona mau po.
ʻO ka makaʻu i kekahi mea i haʻi ʻole ʻia e hiki ke hōʻike iā ia iho inā manaʻo ke keiki e hūnā ana nā mākua i kekahi mea iā ia.
ʻO ia ke kumu he mea nui e kau i nā huaʻōlelo i kēia mau makaʻu.
E kahakiʻi iaʻu i kahi monster!
No ke kōkua ʻana i nā keiki i loko o nā moeʻuhane weliweli e hoʻokuʻu iā lākou iho mai kā lākou mau makaʻu kamaliʻi, ʻōlelo ʻo psychoanalyst ʻo Hélène Brunschwig e huki iā lākou a hoʻolei ma luna o ka pepa i nā poʻo ʻūlū i nā niho a i ʻole nā monster hoʻoweliweli e ʻike ʻia i loko o kā lākou mau moeʻuhane a me nā monsters hoʻoweliweli e ʻike ʻia i loko. ko lakou mau moeuhane. pale i ka hāʻule hou i ka hiamoe. A laila, manaʻo ʻo ia e mālama lākou i kā lākou kiʻi ma lalo o kahi drawer i paʻa pū ko lākou makaʻu i ko lākou keʻena. Mai ke kaha kiʻi ʻana a hiki i ke kaha kiʻi ʻana, emi pinepine nā moeʻuhane a hoʻi ka hiamoe!
I kēia mau makahiki hoʻi, ʻike ʻia ka makaʻu i ka pōʻeleʻele. ʻO ia ke kumu he mea maikaʻi paha e hele a puni ka lumi a kōkua i kāu keiki e ʻimi i nā "monster" e peʻe ana ma laila ma ka ʻike ʻana i nā ʻano mea weliweli a pau. E lawe pū i ka manawa (ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia he "pepe"!) E hele pū me ia e hiamoe. ʻOiai i ka 5 a i ʻole 6 mau makahiki, pono ʻoe i kahi pūliki a me kahi moʻolelo i heluhelu ʻia e ka makuahine e hoʻopau i kona hopohopo!
ʻAʻole he hopena ka lāʻau
Me ka loaʻa ʻole o nā hopena ʻaoʻao "kemika", hiki i nā lāʻau homeopathic, i kekahi mau hihia, ke kōkua i kāu keiki i ka wā o ka haunaele i kekahi manawa. Akā, mai haʻalele ʻoe i nā hopena psychological o kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau: ma ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ia i ke ʻano o ka omo ʻana i kekahi mau granules i ke ahiahi i mea e hōʻoia ai i ka pō maluhia, hoʻouna ʻoe iā ia i ka manaʻo ʻo ka lāʻau lapaʻau he ʻāpana o ka moena moe. e like me ka moʻolelo ahiahi. ʻO ia ke kumu e hoʻohana ai i ka homeopathy i kekahi manawa.
Akā, inā hoʻomau ka pilikia o ka hiamoe a me he mea lā he mau moeʻuhane weliweli kāu keiki i ka pō, a laila he hōʻailona kēia no ka pilikia. Mai hoʻokaʻulua e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka, nāna e kuhikuhi iā ʻoe i kahi psychotherapist i mea e hoʻokuʻu ai i ka ʻeha.
E heluhelu pu No ke kōkua ʻana iā ia e hoʻohana i kāna mau kumuwaiwai e lanakila ai i kāna mau makaʻu, e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia me kāna mau makaʻu. Ua piha nā papa o nā hale kūʻai puke i nā puke e hoʻokomo i ka makaʻu o nā keiki i nā moʻolelo. - Aia kahi moeʻuhane i loko o koʻu keʻena, ed. ʻOpio Galliard. - Makaʻu ʻo Louise i ka pōʻeleʻele, ed. Natana |