Pehea e hana ai i mau hoaaloha me kahi keiki a me kahi ʻīlio, nā keiki a me nā holoholona

Hōʻeha pinepine nā keiki liʻiliʻi i nā holoholona hānai. ʻAʻole no ka hōʻino, ʻoiaʻiʻo, mai ke kuhi hewa ʻana. I kekahi manawa hopena kēia i nā kūlana ʻoluʻolu ʻole ke hoʻomaka ke keiki e hoʻomāinoino i nā holoholona ma ke kumu.

Nui nā moʻolelo e pili ana i ka ulu ʻana o nā keiki i ka ʻaoʻao me kā lākou mau holoholona: lilo lākou i mau hoaaloha maikaʻi loa, hoʻopā ʻia nā mea āpau e nā kāne “ʻaʻole e ninini wai.” A aia kekahi poʻe ʻē - hoʻomāinoino kahi keiki i nā holoholona. Alualu i nā pōpoki, kauō nā ʻīlio i nā pepeiao. Kū ka hanana ʻē aʻe: kaomi ke keiki i ka ʻīlio no ke aloha nui, paʻi ʻo ia, a - hello, trauma. Pehea e wehewehe ai i kahi keiki ʻo nā ʻīlio kekahi ʻohana o ka ʻohana? Pehea e aʻo ai e aloha a mālama i ko mākou mau kaikaina? ʻEhā mau lula maʻalahi.

1. E wehewehe ʻaʻole holoholona nā mea pāʻani.

Kani e like me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo mai ke kāpena Obvious. Eia naʻe, pono e hoʻomanaʻo he pilikia nā keiki me ke aloha. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike pehea e aloha ai a empathize ai hoʻi. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, ʻike maoli nō nā keiki he ʻīlio leʻaleʻa wale kahi ʻīlio e pāʻani ai. A ʻaʻole akahele loa.

ʻO ka hana a nā mākua e wehewehe ʻaʻole ka pāʻani ka ʻīlio. Pono ʻo Māmā a me Pāpā e hōʻike i ke keiki i kāu holoholona he holoholona ola pū kekahi. Ke maopopo i nā keiki he mau manaʻo ko nā ʻīlio e like me lākou iho, mae wale ka hana kolohe. Hana pū kēia no nā pōpoki, nā hamster, a me nā holoholona ʻē aʻe.

2. Mai noʻonoʻo i ka makemake o nā holoholona i kāu makemake.

ʻO ke kiʻi ʻana i ke keiki e holo ana i ka ʻīlio a huki paha i ka pōpoki e kona mau papalina momona he nani a leʻaleʻa. Akā mai noʻonoʻo e leʻaleʻa kāu pipi e like me ʻoe. Hoʻāʻo nā holoholona i kā lākou mea e hiki ai ke ahonui i kāu mau hoʻokolohua nani. Eia kekahi, ʻoi aku ka hoʻomanawanui o nā ʻīlio ma mua o nā pōpoki: pale mau lākou i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa.

Akā inā huki kahi keiki i ka ʻīlio e nā pepeiao, ka huelo, a i ʻole ʻapo wale i ka ʻīlio, hiki i kēia mau mea āpau ke hoʻonāukiuki i ka holoholona hoʻomanawanui loa i ka huhū. A inā pili ʻoe i ka hoʻolohe a kāu holoholona i nā pāʻani, a laila hōʻike paha kēia ua hāʻule wale ka holoholona i loko o ke kaumaha. Hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole.

3. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e pale i waho

E akahele mau i ka lawelawe ʻana i ka holoholona. ʻOiai inā hoʻokahi haneli pākēneka ʻoe e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole e hōʻehaʻeha kāu Yorkie nani i kahi keiki i kona ola. Inā ʻike ka pēpē i kahi pipi no ka manawa mua, a ʻūpī paha iā ia no nā lā ma hope, e aʻo i ka pēpē e akahai. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo he ʻokoʻa nā holoholona āpau: makemake kekahi i kahi ākea pilikino, kahi mea ʻemi. No laila, e aʻo i kāu keiki mai hana i kekahi mea e hiki ai ke hoʻonāukiuki i kāu pipi. "Aia, ua pālahalaha kona mau pepeiao / huelo ma waena o kona mau wāwae. ʻAʻole makemake ʻo ia i kāu hana, ”a hoʻolohe ka pēpē i ka manaʻo o ka ʻīlio a i ʻole ka pōpoki.

4. He ʻano maikaʻi ʻole nō hoʻi ke kanaka wāwae ʻehā

Wahi a nā helu helu, i ka nui o nā hihia, ke nahu ʻia kahi keiki e kahi ʻīlio, he holoholona wale nō kēia ʻīlio. Mai noʻonoʻo inā inā ʻike ka pēpē a me ka ʻīlio kekahi i kekahi i kekahi manawa lōʻihi, a laila ʻaʻole e hoʻohuhū ka ʻīlio i ke keiki. ʻAʻole nīnau ʻia nā pōpoki: pale lākou i ko lākou wahi ponoʻī me ka nānā ʻole i nā mea nāna e haki.

Hiki i kahi ʻīlio ke lilo i mea momona, leʻaleʻa, kūpaʻa a nani hoʻi. Akā aia kekahi mau lā ke ʻano maikaʻi ʻole ʻo ia. ʻO kahi hōʻailona paʻa ke nānā ʻole ka ʻīlio iā ʻoe, akā ma kahi o ke ākea. A inā hoʻomaka ʻo ia e haʻalulu, a laila he hōʻailona kēia “E haʻalele, e ʻoluʻolu.” E hoʻolohe ʻoe.

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