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ʻOkoʻa ko kākou ʻike ʻana i nā manawa mehameha. Ua hauʻoli kekahi i ke kūʻokoʻa a me ka pāʻani me kekahi. ʻAʻole noʻonoʻo ka poʻe ʻē aʻe a noho kaʻawale. Eia naʻe, manaʻo nui ka poʻe i ka nele o kahi hoa. Hiki ke hoʻonuiʻia kēia mau manaʻo i kahi hoʻomaha e hoʻonani i ke aloha, ka hui, kaʻohana - ma ka maleʻana o nā hoaaloha.
ʻO ke kauwela ka manawa no ka ʻauʻau ʻana i ka lā, nā pāʻina kahakai, nā cocktails mahu a me nā male mare. ʻO nā ʻahaʻaina nani, nā hale ʻaina me nā meaʻai ʻono a me ka hula a hiki i kou hāʻule ʻana. Ua lilo mākou i mau ʻike no kēia mau manawa hauʻoli a poina ʻole i ke ola o nā kāne hou a hiki iā mākou ke hauʻoli maoli iā lākou. Ma kahi kūlana: inā ʻaʻole mākou wale nō.
Inā ʻaʻole, hiki iā mākou ke hauʻoli no ka wahine mare a me ke kāne, akā ʻaʻole paha e hauʻoli i ka mea e hana nei. Aia nā kāne hauʻoli ma nā wahi a pau āu e nānā ai. ʻO nā mea a pau e pili ana i kēia lā hoʻomaha e hoʻomanaʻo mai iā mākou i ko mākou kūlana kaumaha, a me he mea lā ʻo mākou wale nō ka mea ʻaʻohe hoa no nā kilomita he nui ...
He aha ka mea e kōkua iā ʻoe e pale i ke kaumaha? He ahiahi ma kahi pā i ka ʻimi ʻana i ka huakaʻi? E hoʻi i Tinder? Akā he aha inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kahi pilina, akā i ka manawa like e hoʻokaumaha ʻia ʻoe e ka manaʻo o ka mehameha? Eia ʻekolu ʻano hana ola no nā kāne male i ka wā male.
1. E haʻi hou iā ʻoe iho: "Ua maikaʻi ke noho hoʻokahi."
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e noho me kekahi. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i kēlā pono, akā manaʻo ʻoe "pono" ʻoe e loaʻa i kekahi, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kou noho ʻana i ka hui o kahi mea mālama ʻole iā ʻoe, paʻa i kahi pilina ʻaʻole e lawe mai i ka mehana. .
ʻO ka noho hoʻokahi wale nō kona mau pono. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka makemake o kekahi i nā manawa a pau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hahai i kāu mau moeʻuhane a hoʻokō ʻia. Pili kēia i ke koho ʻana i ka meaʻai, a me nā huakaʻi i nā ʻahaʻaina - ʻae, ʻo kekahi mea!
2. E lawe i ka hana mua
Malia paha e hoʻololi ka male o nā hoaaloha i ke ala o kou mau manaʻo, a e hoʻoholo ʻoe ua luhi ʻoe i ka mehameha a makemake ʻoe i kahi pilina. ʻAe, maikaʻi! Aia paha ma kou ʻaoʻao kekahi mea nāna ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu. ʻO ka manawa kēia e ʻaʻa a noi aku iā ia i kahi lā.
Inā ʻaʻole kokoke kēlā kanaka, e hoʻāʻo i nā ʻano hoʻohālikelike hou: nā pūnaewele, "wikiwiki wikiwiki". E hoʻāʻo e wehe aʻe, e kamaʻilio me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe - ma ke kino a ma ka Pūnaewele. ʻAʻole ʻoe i ʻike i hea ke aloha.
3. E hoʻololi i ka nānā a hana i kāu leʻaleʻa punahele
Inā nui kou manawa kaʻawale, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolei iā ʻoe iho i kāu mea punahele - no ka laʻana, hoʻi i kahi leʻaleʻa. ʻAʻole ʻoe i aʻo i ka hoʻokani pila paʻakikī ma ke kīkā? Ua moeʻuhane mau i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka luʻu? E ʻimi i kahi mea āu e makemake ai e poina iā ʻoe e pili ana i ka loneliness mau loa a i ʻole a hiki i ka male ʻana o nā hoaaloha.