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No ke aha mākou e ʻaʻahu ai i nā lole like no nā makahiki, akā ma ka ʻae ʻana iā mākou iho, manaʻo mākou ua nalowale mākou i ka ʻohana? Pehea e hiki ai i ka pae aʻe? 'Ōleloʻo Veronika Agafonova ka mea aʻo pāʻoihana a me ka'ōlelo hoʻoikaika.
I kēlā me kēia makahiki, ʻaʻahu mākou i nā lole like, hele i nā hana a mākou makemake ʻole, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale me ke kanaka a mākou e ʻoluʻolu ʻole ai, a hoʻomanawanui i nā wahi ʻona. No ke aha he mea weliweli loa ke hoʻololi i kekahi mea?
Manaʻo mākou e noʻonoʻo i nā ʻike maikaʻi ʻole. 'Ōlelo pinepine mākou i kēia: "ʻAe, heʻino kēia, akā hiki keʻoi aku kaʻino." A i ʻole mākou e hoʻohālikelike iā mākou iho me ka ʻoi aku ka lanakila, akā me ka poʻe i kūleʻa ʻole: "Ua hoʻāʻo ʻo Vasya e wehe i kahi ʻoihana a nalowale nā mea āpau."
Akā inā ʻoe e nānā a puni, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike, no ka laʻana, ka nui o nā ʻoihana i kūleʻa. No ke aha mai? ʻAe, no ka mea, ua hoʻokomo maoli lākou, ʻaʻole wale a ʻaʻole nui ke kālā, akā i ka manawa, ka ikaika, ka ʻuhane. Ua hoʻomaka lākou i ka ʻoihana ʻaʻole me kahi hōʻaiʻē nui, akā ma ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kahi niche a lākou e pili nei. E pili ana i ke ala kūpono, akā pono ka hoʻoikaika. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho no ka holomua ʻole o kekahi. "ʻAʻole mākou e ola maikaʻi loa, akā ʻaʻole loaʻa i kekahi."
Hānau ʻia ma ka USSR
ʻO ke ʻano o ka "kū a kū i waho he pōʻino no ke ola" he hoʻoilina o ia manawa. No nā makahiki he nui, ua aʻo ʻia mākou e "hele ma ka laina", e nānā like, e ʻōlelo i ka mea like. Ua hoʻopaʻi ʻia ka noʻonoʻo kūʻokoʻa. Ke ola nei ka hanauna i ʻike i kēia, hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi a hana hou i kēia manawa. Ua kākau ʻia ka makaʻu ma ka DNA. Hoʻokumu nā mākua i kēia i kā lākou mau keiki: "ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka titmouse ma ka lima ma mua o ka crane i ka lewa", "e hoʻomau i kou poʻo i lalo, e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe." A ʻo kēia mau mea no nā kumu palekana. Ma ke kū ʻana i waho, hiki iā ʻoe ke huki nui iā ʻoe iho, a he mea weliweli kēia.
ʻO kā mākou maʻamau ʻaʻole kū i waho, ʻo ia ka "iole hina" mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai, pinepine ʻaʻole maikaʻi loa. Ua ʻaʻahu kā mākou hanauna i nā mākeke, ua ʻaʻahu mākou no nā kaikunāne a me nā kaikuahine, ʻaʻohe mea o mākou iho. A lilo ia i ala o ke ola.
A i ka wā i hoʻomaka ai mākou e hana i ke kālā kūpono, ua lilo ia i mea paʻakikī e hiki i kahi pae hou: hoʻololi i ke ʻano, kūʻai i nā mea i makemake ʻia. Kahea mai nei kekahi leo o loko, "Auwe, aole keia na'u!" A hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia kēia: no iwakālua makahiki ko lākou noho ʻana e like me kēia ... Pehea i kēia manawa e hana i kahi pae i kahi honua hou a ʻae iā ʻoe iho i kāu makemake?
ʻAʻahu pipiʻi — nalowale ka pilina me ka ʻohana?
Nui ka poʻe i ka manaʻo: "I koʻu ola a pau, ua ʻaʻahu au i ka mākeke, e ʻaʻahu ana i nā lole no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ua ʻae ʻia mākou. No ka ʻae ʻana i nā mea hou aʻe, ʻo ia ka uhaki ʻana i ka pilina me ka ʻohana. Me he mea lā i kēia manawa e haʻalele mākou i ka ʻohana, kahi e ʻaʻahu ai nā mea a pau i nā lole ʻeke a me nā lole makamae.
Akā, ma ka ʻae ʻana iā ʻoe iho e kūʻai aku i nā mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a me ke ʻano kiʻekiʻe a hiki i kahi pae hou, hiki ke "huki" i ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa ma laila, ʻo ia hoʻi ʻaʻole e hoʻopau ʻia ka pilina. Akā pono ʻoe e hoʻomaka me ʻoe iho.
Pehea e hoʻololi ai nā lole i kou ola?
Aia kahi ʻōlelo maikaʻi: "E hoʻohālike a hiki i ka hana maoli ʻana." I ka hana ʻana i kiʻi hou, hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia kēia ala.
Inā makemake ka wahine e lilo i wahine ʻoihana kūleʻa, akā aia nō ia ma ke kahua o ka moeʻuhane a me ke koho ʻana i kahi manaʻo ʻoihana, i mea e manaʻo nui ai, pono ia e hele i nā hanana ʻoihana a me nā hālāwai informal, e ʻaʻahu ana i kahi ʻoihana makemake a me ka liʻiliʻi. nona ka ʻoihana ma kona kiʻi ponoʻī. E noʻonoʻo i kahi kiʻi o ka wā e hiki mai ana i makemake ʻia i nā kikoʻī e like me ka hiki a hoʻomaka i ka neʻe ʻana iā ia, e hoʻomaka liʻiliʻi, no ka laʻana, me nā lole.
Eia kekahi, inā mākou e kūʻai i nā mea a mākou e makemake nui ai, e kāpae ana i ka manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki i kahi ʻeke a i ʻole nā kāmaʻa ke kūʻai i kēlā nui (ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻaʻohe mea o ka ʻohana makua i loaʻa i kēlā nui), i ka wā e loaʻa ai ka loaʻa kālā.
Hui ma ka lole
Hiki paha ke lilo i mea lanakila inā hana ʻoe i kou helehelena a me kou ʻano? E hāʻawi wau i kahi laʻana mai ka hana. He haumana ka'u. Ua nānā au i kāna moʻokāki Instagram (kahi hui extremist i pāpā ʻia ma Rūsia) a hāʻawi i nā manaʻo. Ua komo ʻo ia i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā lawelawe lapaʻau ma Kelemānia. He pipiʻi ka mālama ʻana - ʻāpana premium. ʻO kēia: ka wehewehe ʻana i nā kaʻina hana, nā ʻōlelo paipai - a ua hoʻolaʻa ʻia kāna blog pilikino. Ua hoʻohana kaʻu mea kūʻai aku i kāna mau kiʻi i mea hoʻohālike. He wahine maikaʻi ʻo ia iho, akā maikaʻi ʻole nā kiʻi, a ʻo ke kiʻi ponoʻī i waiho nui i ka makemake: ʻo ka hapa nui o nā lole pua pōkole.
Ke noʻonoʻo nei i kāu kiʻi, he mea nui e kūkulu i kahi kaulahao o nā hui me kāu hana, nā lawelawe āu e hāʻawi ai
ʻOiaʻiʻo, i kēia lā ua maopopo mākou a pau ʻaʻole pololei loa ka hui ʻana me nā lole. Pono ʻoe e nānā i ke kanaka iā ia iho, i kona pae o ka ʻike a me ka ʻike. Akā, ʻo kēlā me kēia mea e ʻōlelo ai, pane mākou i nā mea he nui me ka ʻike ʻole. A ke ʻike mākou i kahi kaikamahine i ka lole pua e hāʻawi ana i nā lawelawe lapaʻau ma ʻEulopa no ka nui o ke kālā, loaʻa iā mākou kahi dissonance. Akā ke nānā aku nei i kahi wahine i loko o ka lole, me ke ʻano maikaʻi, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā hiki ke hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia olakino, hoʻomaka mākou e hilinaʻi iā ia.
No laila ua ʻōlelo au i ka mea kūʻai aku e hoʻololi i nā lole ʻoihana i nā kala māmā (hui me nā lawelawe lapaʻau) - a ua hana. Ke noʻonoʻo nei i kāu kiʻi, he mea nui e kūkulu i kahi kaulahao o nā hui me kāu hana, nā lawelawe āu e hāʻawi ai. ʻO ke kūkulu ʻana i kāu kiʻi a me ka hōʻailona pilikino he hoʻopukapuka e uku maoli ʻia.