Hiki pinepine ma hope o ka ʻai ʻana me nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana, manaʻo mākou ua ʻai nui mākou. He ʻokoʻa loa ka ʻai ʻana me ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i nā hola he nui i loko o ka hale ʻaina, ke hiki ʻole iā mākou ke mālama pono i ka mea a me ka nui o kā mākou ʻai. A i kekahi manawa he ʻano ʻē aʻe: makemake mākou e kauoha i kahi pudding no ka mea ʻono, akā ʻaʻole mākou no ka mea ʻaʻohe o kā mākou mau hoaaloha e kauoha i nā mea ʻono.
Malia paha e hoʻopiʻi ʻoe i ke kaiāulu a manaʻo ʻoe e ʻai nui a liʻiliʻi paha nā hoaaloha, a laila e hoʻohuli iā ʻoe. Eia naʻe, hōʻike ʻia he mau ʻumi makahiki o ka noiʻi ʻaʻole ia e pili ana i nā hoaaloha, akā e pili ana i ke kaʻina o ka ʻai ʻana i ka hui. No laila, pehea ka hopena o kēia i ka ʻai ʻana i ka meaʻai a hiki iā mākou ke hana i kahi mea e pale aku ai i ka ʻai nui?
Hiki i ke ʻano o nā haʻawina a John de Castro i nā makahiki 1980 ke hoʻomālamalama i kēia ʻano mea ʻai. Ma ka makahiki 1994, ua hōʻiliʻili ʻo de Castro i nā puke moʻolelo meaʻai mai nā poʻe ʻoi aku ma mua o 500, nāna i hoʻopaʻa i nā mea a pau a lākou e ʻai ai, me nā kūlana ʻai - ma ka hui a i ʻole hoʻokahi.
ʻO ka pīhoihoi, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe i ʻai i nā hui ma mua o ka hoʻokahi. Ua hōʻike pū ʻia nā hoʻokolohua a nā ʻepekema ʻē aʻe i loko o ka hui ua ʻai ka poʻe i ka 40% ʻoi aku ka ice cream a me 10% ʻoi aku ka pasta. Ua kapa ʻo De Castro i kēia ʻano he "social facilitation" a ua wehewehe ʻo ia ʻo ia ka mea koʻikoʻi a ʻike ʻia i ke kaʻina ʻai.
Ua hōʻemi ʻia ka pōloli, ke ʻano, a i ʻole ka launa pū ʻana e de Castro a me nā ʻepekema ʻē aʻe. Ua hōʻike mai ka noiʻi e hoʻonui mākou i kā mākou manawa ʻai i nā manawa he nui i ka wā e ʻai ai mākou me nā hoaaloha, ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻai nui mākou. A nui hou aku.
ʻO ka nānā ʻana i nā hale ʻaina a me nā hale ʻaina i hōʻike ʻia ʻo ka nui o ka poʻe i loko o ka hui, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ke kaʻina ʻai. Akā ke hoʻopaʻa ʻia ka manawa ʻai (e laʻa, hui nā hoaaloha i ka wā hoʻomaha ʻaina awakea), ʻaʻole ʻai kēia mau hui nui ma mua o nā hui liʻiliʻi. Ma kahi hoʻokolohua 2006, lawe nā kānaka ʻepekema i 132 mau kānaka a hāʻawi iā lākou i 12 a i ʻole 36 mau minuke e ʻai i nā kuki a me ka pizza. ʻAi hoʻokahi ka poʻe i komo, ʻelua, a i ʻole ma nā hui o 4. I kēlā me kēia pāʻina, ua ʻai ka poʻe i ka nui o ka meaʻai. Ua hāʻawi kēia hoʻokolohua i kekahi o nā hōʻike ikaika loa ʻO nā manawa ʻai ʻoi aku ke kumu o ka ʻai nui ʻana i ka hui.
Ke ʻai pū mākou me kā mākou mau hoa punahele, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻopaneʻe a no laila e kauoha i kahi ʻāpana cheesecake hou a i ʻole kahi kīʻaha hau. A i ke kali ʻana i ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana o ka meaʻai i kauoha ʻia, hiki iā mākou ke kauoha i kekahi mea. ʻOi loa inā ma mua o ka hui ʻana me nā hoaaloha ʻaʻole mākou i ʻai no ka manawa lōʻihi a hele mai i ka hale ʻaina pōloli loa. Eia kekahi, kauoha pinepine mākou i nā kīʻaha like ʻole a ʻaʻole makemake mākou i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i ka bruschetta ʻono a kahi hoaaloha a i ʻole ka hoʻopau ʻana i kāna mea ʻai. A inā pili ka waiʻona i ka ʻai, ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī iā mākou e ʻike i ka māʻona, a ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻomalu hou i ke ʻano o ka ʻai nui ʻana.
ʻO ka mea ʻepekema ʻo Peter Herman, nāna i aʻo i ka meaʻai a me ka ʻai ʻana, ua manaʻo ʻo ia i kāna kuhiakau: ʻo ka indulgence he ʻāpana koʻikoʻi o ka ʻai pūʻulu, a hiki iā mākou ke ʻai hou aku me ka ʻole o ka manaʻo hewa no ka nui. ʻo ia ʻoi aku ka ʻoluʻolu i ka ʻai nui inā hana like nā hoaaloha.
Ua ʻike paha ʻoe he nui nā aniani i loko o nā keʻena o kekahi mau hale ʻaina? A e kau pinepine ʻia kēia mau aniani i mua pono o nā pākaukau i ʻike ka mea kūʻai iā ia iho. ʻAʻole i hana wale ʻia. Ma kahi haʻawina Kepani, ua noi ʻia ka poʻe e ʻai i ka popcorn wale nō a i mua paha o ke aniani. Ua ʻike ʻia ʻo ka poʻe i ʻai i mua o ke aniani ua hauʻoli nui lākou i ka popcorn. Ke alakaʻi nei kēia i ka hopena o nā aniani i loko o nā hale ʻaina e kōkua pū i ka hoʻonui ʻana i nā manawa ʻai.
Akā i kekahi manawa, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻai liʻiliʻi i ka hui ma mua o kā mākou makemake. Hoʻopili ʻia ko mākou makemake e ʻai i ka meaʻai e nā loina kaiaulu. No ka laʻana, ʻaʻole makemake nā hoaaloha e kauoha i ka mea ʻono. Malia paha, i kēia hihia, e hōʻole nā lālā a pau o ka hui i ka meaʻai.
Ua hōʻike ʻia nā haʻawina e ʻai liʻiliʻi nā keiki momona i nā hui ma mua o ka hoʻokahi. ʻAi nui ka poʻe ʻōpio keu i ka pahūpahū, ka lole, a me nā kuki i ka wā i ʻai ai lākou me ka poʻe ʻōpio kaumaha, akā ʻaʻole i ka wā i ʻai pū ai lākou me ka poʻe paona maʻamau. Ma nā hale ʻaina kulanui Ua ʻai nā wahine i nā calorie liʻiliʻi i ka wā e noho ai nā kāne ma kā lākou papaʻaina, akā ʻai nui me nā wahine. A ma ʻAmelika, ua kauoha nā mea ʻai i nā mea ʻono hou aʻe inā ʻoi aku ka paona o kā lākou poʻe kali. ʻO kēia mau hopena a pau he mau laʻana o ka hoʻohālike pilikanaka.
Hoʻopili ʻia kā mākou meaʻai ʻaʻole wale e ka hui, akā ma ka wahi a mākou e ʻai ai. Ma UK, ua hoʻomaka ka poʻe ʻaina e ʻai i nā mea kanu i ka ʻaina awakea ma hope o ka waiho ʻana o nā hale ʻaina i nā leka e ʻōlelo ana ka hapa nui o nā mea kūʻai aku e koho i nā mea kanu. A ʻo nā mea ʻono i hoʻopuehu ʻia mai ia mau mea he mea hoʻoikaika ikaika ia no ka poʻe e lawe pū me lākou.
Ua ʻike ʻia kahi haʻawina 2014 e ʻoi aku ka ikaika o nā wahine i nā kāne, a makemake lākou e hahai i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai ka poʻe i like me lākou. ʻO ia hoʻi, nā ʻōlelo paipai a nā wahine. A me ka hana wahine.
Me nā kumu o kaʻai nui i ka hui, ua maopopo nā mea a pau. ʻO kekahi nīnau: pehea e pale aku ai?
Ua ʻōlelo ʻo Susan Higgs, ke kaukaʻi o ka noʻonoʻo meaʻai ma ke Kulanui o Birmingham.
I kēia mau lā, ʻaʻole naʻe, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o nā ʻāpana a me nā meaʻai momona ʻAʻole mālama ʻia nā ʻano meaʻai e ka hapa nui o nā kānaka. A ʻai ka poʻe i ke ʻano o kā lākou poʻe i aloha ai, a ʻaʻole lākou hopohopo e pili ana i ka ʻai nui ʻana inā ʻai nui kā lākou pōʻai kaiaulu a ke kaumaha. Ma ia mau pōʻai, ʻaʻole mākou e ʻike i ka pilikia a lilo ia i mea maʻamau.
ʻO ka pōmaikaʻi, ʻaʻole pono ka ʻai ʻana i ke olakino e haʻalele i kāu mau hoaaloha, ʻoiai inā ʻoi aku ka momona ma mua o mākou. Akā, pono mākou e hoʻomaopopo i kā mākou ʻai ʻana i hoʻoholo nui ʻia e nā hopena pilikanaka. A laila hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo pehea e hana ai i ka wā e ʻai ai i ka hui o nā hoaaloha a pehea e hoʻomalu ai i ke kaʻina hana.
1. Mai hele mai i ka halawai me ka opu halulu. E ʻai i ka ʻai māmā i hoʻokahi hola ma mua o ka ʻai i hoʻolālā ʻia a i ʻole ka ʻai piha i ʻelua mau hola ma mua. Pono ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka pōloli, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi, e hoʻonāukiuki i ka ʻai nui.
2. E inu i ke aniani wai ma mua o ke komo ʻana i ka hale ʻaina.
3. E noʻonoʻo pono i ka papa kuhikuhi. Mai wikiwiki e kauoha i kekahi mea no ka mea ua kauoha mua kāu mau hoaaloha. E hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ʻoe iho i nā kīʻaha, e hoʻoholo i kāu makemake a me nā mea e pono ai kou kino.
4. Mai kauoha i nā mea a pau i ka manawa hoʻokahi. E hoʻomaha no ka meaʻai a me kaʻai wela. Inā liʻiliʻi nā ʻāpana, a laila hiki iā ʻoe ke kauoha i kahi mea ʻē aʻe, akā inā ua piha ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻōki.
5. Inā e kauoha ana ʻoe i kīʻaha nui aʻe no nā mea a pau, e like me ka pizza, e hoʻoholo ma mua i ka nui āu e ʻai ai. Mai kiʻi i ka ʻāpana aʻe ma ka pā, no ka mea pono e hoʻopau ʻia.
6. Hoʻopili i ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻaʻole nahu. ʻO kahi hale ʻai meaʻai he wahi hālāwai wale nō, ʻaʻole he kumu e hui ai. Hele mai ʻoe i ʻaneʻi no ka launa ʻana, ʻaʻole no ka ʻai nui ʻana.