Aia maoli kahi hanana o ka hypersexualization ma Farani? He aha ka mea e unuhi ai?
Catherine Monnot : "ʻO ka hypersexualization o ke kino o nā kaikamahine aia ma Farani e like me nā ʻāina ʻoihana ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia hoʻi ma o ka media a me nā mea hoʻonaninani a me nā ʻoihana lole. Ma Palani, ʻaʻole i emi ka nui o nā drifts ma mua o ʻAmelika a i Iapana paha. Mai ka makahiki 8-9, paipai ʻia nā kaikamahine e kū i waho o ka wā kamaliʻi ma o ka hāʻawi ʻana i ka ʻaʻahu o ka "pre-adolescent". Pono kēia e ʻae i nā pae hoʻohālikelike e pili ana i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia he "feminity" a ʻoi aku ma mua o nā mea āpau e pili ana i ke kino. Hoʻoikaika houʻia ke kaʻina hana e nā hana hui: ʻO ka ʻaʻahu ʻana, ka hoʻokomo ʻana i ka make-up, ka neʻe ʻana a puni, ke kamaʻilio ʻana e like me ke kanaka makua e lilo ia i pā kula a me kahi pāʻani lumi moe ma mua o ka lilo ʻana i mea maʻamau hoʻokahi a hui pū. »
He aha ke kuleana o nā mākua? Medias ? ʻO nā mea hana keaka, hoʻolaha, textiles?
CM : « Hōʻike nā kaikamāhine i kahi pahuhopu waiwai, me ka piʻi nui ʻana o ka mana kūʻai: no laila ke ʻimi nei ka poʻe media a me nā mea hana e hopu i kēia mākeke e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe, me ka hopena o nā ʻano loina.. ʻO nā mākua, he kuleana ko lākou: i kekahi manawa he censors a me nā mea kākau, i kekahi manawa e hele pū a paipai paha i kā lākou kaikamahine e hahai i ka neʻe ʻana no ka makaʻu o ʻike ʻo ia i ka marginalized. Akā ma luna o nā mea a pau, he mea maikaʻi no ka makua ke loaʻa i kahi kaikamahine e hoʻokō i nā pono āpau o ka wahine i ka ikaika. ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kaikamahine nani a nani hoʻi he hōʻailona ia o ka holomua ma ke ʻano he makua, a ʻoi aku hoʻi ma ke ʻano he makuahine. E like me ka nui, inā ʻaʻole ʻoi aku, ma mua o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kaikamahine i kūleʻa i ke kula. Pono e kūpono nā mea ma muli o ka nohona pili kanaka mai ka papa hana, ʻoi aku ka mahalo o ka wahine kuʻuna a me ka extroverted ma mua o kahi kūlana hanohano: ʻoi aku ka kiʻekiʻe o ka pae hoʻonaʻauao o ka makuahine, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kulekele hoʻonaʻauao ma kahi mamao mai ka media, no ka laʻana. Akā ʻo ke ʻano kumu e mau nei kēia, a i kēlā me kēia hihia, hoʻopili ʻia nā keiki ma o nā ʻano ʻē aʻe he nui ma mua o ka ʻohana: ma ke kula a i ʻole i mua o ka pūnaewele a i ʻole ke TV, i mua o kahi makasina fashion, e aʻo nui nā kaikamāhine e pili ana i nā mea e koi ai ke kaiāulu iā lākou ma kēia wahi. "
He ʻokoʻa ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i ka wahine i kēia lā mai ka mea i nehinei?
CM : E like me inehinei, manaʻo nā kaikamahine i ka pono e noho paʻokahi a me ka hui pū ʻana, ka hele ʻana o ka wā ʻōpio kino akā pū kekahi. Ma o ka lole a me ka make-up, hana lākou i kahi aʻo pono. ʻOi aku ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o kēia mau lā no ka nalo ʻana o nā hana kūhelu i hoʻonohonoho ʻia e ke ao kanaka makua. No ka mea, ʻaʻohe mea hoʻolauleʻa a puni ka manawa mua, ʻo ka pōpō mua, no ka mea, ʻaʻole hōʻailona hou ka hui ʻana i ka hele ʻana i ka makahiki o ka "'ōpio", nā kaikamahine, e like me nā keikikāne, pono e hāʻule i hope i kekahi i kekahi, ma nā hana maʻamau. Aia ka pilikia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻAʻole hoʻokō nā mākua pili, nā mākua, nā kūpuna, nā ʻanakala a me nā ʻanakē i kā lākou kuleana mālama. Waihoia ka wahi ʻO nā ʻano hui ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea kūʻai aku a ʻaʻole e ʻae hou i ke kamaʻilio ma waena o nā keiki a me nā pākeke. ʻO nā nīnau a me nā hopohopo i loaʻa i kēia manawa paʻakikī o ke ola a laila hiki ke pane ʻole ʻia ".
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