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I kēlā me kēia lā, nui a nui nā hāmeʻa a puni mākou, a loaʻa iā lākou nā mea hou a nui aʻe. Nui ka hauʻoli a hoʻoulu. Akā, aia kekahi poʻe makaʻu i kēia, a me ka hoʻopailua. Aia kekahi hewa iā lākou?
ʻO Lyudmila, ma 43, ʻaʻole i hoʻokomo iā Skype ma kāna kamepiula. ʻAʻole i hoʻoiho i ke mele. Hoʻohana ʻo ia i kāna kelepona paʻa wale no nā kelepona a me nā leka uila. ʻAʻohe manaʻo pehea e hoʻohana ai iā WhatsApp a i Telegram. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i haʻaheo i kēia: "'Ōlelo nā hoaaloha:" E ʻike ʻoe, maʻalahi! ”, Akā, ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu ka honua o ka ʻenehana. ʻAʻole au e ʻaʻa e komo me ke alakaʻi ʻole.
He aha ke kumu o kēia?
He mea i hoʻopilikia ʻia e ka moʻomeheu
He mea pono paha ke hakakā ʻaʻole me nā polokalamu kamepiula paʻakikī, akā me kou manaʻo ponoʻī? "He nui ka poʻe i hānai ʻia i loko o kahi ʻano kuʻuna kāne i hoʻomalu ʻia i nā mea a pau e pili ana i ka ʻenehana," i hoʻomanaʻo ai ka psychoanalyst ʻo Michel Stora, he loea kikohoʻe i nā humanities. Paʻakikī kekahi mau wahine e hoʻokuʻu i kēia mau manaʻo ʻike ʻole.
Eia naʻe, hoʻoikaika ka loea, i kēia lā "i waena o nā mea pāʻani wikiō, 51% nā wahine!"
ʻO kahi manaʻo ʻē aʻe: ʻo ka hemahema o kēia mau hāmeʻa nani. Akā, pehea mākou e noʻonoʻo ai i ko lākou pono inā ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike iā lākou iho?
ʻAʻole makemake e aʻo
Manaʻo pinepine ka poʻe ʻenehana ʻo ke aʻo ʻana i nā ʻenehana hou e pono ai ka hoʻololi kū pololei o ka ʻike mai ke kumu i ka haumāna.
I ka hiki ʻana i kekahi mau makahiki, ʻaʻole makemake nā mea a pau e lilo hou, ʻoiai he hōʻailona, ma ke ʻano o kahi haumāna ma ka papa kula. ʻOi loa inā ʻeha nā makahiki kula, a ʻo ka pono e hoʻoikaika i ke kaʻina aʻo i waiho i kahi ʻawaʻawa. Akā ʻo kēia ka mea e pili ana i ka ʻenehana ʻenehana: ka hoʻohana ʻana a me ka hoʻomohala ʻana o nā mea hana i ka manawa like. "Ke hana mākou me ka interface, aʻo mākou pehea e hana ai i kekahi mau hana ma luna," wehewehe ʻo Michel Stora.
Ka nele i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho
Ke luʻu nei mākou i nā ʻenehana hou, ʻike pinepine mākou iā mākou iho i mua o ka holomua. A inā ʻaʻole lawa ka manaʻoʻiʻo i ko mākou hiki, inā ua aʻo ʻia mākou mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai "ʻaʻole mākou ʻike pehea", paʻakikī iā mākou ke hana i ka hana mua. "I ka hoʻomaka mua ʻana i kēia ao, ʻo "generation Y" (ka poʻe i hānau ma waena o 1980 a me 2000) he mau mea maikaʻi," wahi a ka psychoanalyst.
Akā, pili nā mea a pau. Ke holo wikiwiki nei ka ʻenehana a hiki i ka poʻe i pili ʻole i ka ʻoihana me nā kamepiula ke manaʻo e haʻalele ʻia i kekahi manawa. Inā mākou e lawe i kēia noʻonoʻo, hiki iā mākou ke manaʻo, ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā alakaʻi o kēia ʻoihana, "ʻaʻole maopopo mākou i ka ʻenehana."
He aha e hana
1. E aʻo iā ʻoe iho
Nā keiki, nā moʻopuna, nā keiki akua - hiki iā ʻoe ke noi i kāu poʻe aloha Gen Y e hōʻike iā ʻoe i ke ala i nā ʻenehana hou. ʻAʻole pono iā ʻoe wale nō, akā no lākou pū kekahi. Ke aʻo aku kahi ʻōpio i nā mākua, kōkua ia iā ia e loaʻa ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana ʻaʻole mana nā lunakahiko.
2. E hooiaio
Ma kahi o ke kala ʻana no kou ʻike ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i hoa kūʻē kumu o nā polokalamu kamepiula, "digital libertarians," e like me kā Michel Store i kau ai. "Ua luhi lākou i ka wikiwiki mau", hōʻole lākou e pane i kēlā me kēia hōʻailona o ke kelepona paʻa a me ka haʻaheo e pale aku i kā lākou "kahiko kahiko".
3. Mahalo i nā pono
Ke hoʻāʻo nei e hana me ka ʻole o nā hāmeʻa, pilikia mākou i ka nalo ʻana i nā pōmaikaʻi nui i hiki iā lākou ke lawe mai iā mākou. Inā mākou e hana i kahi papa inoa o ko lākou mau ʻaoʻao pono, makemake paha mākou e hele i ka paepae o ka honua kiʻekiʻe. I ka ʻimi ʻana i ka hana, pono ke komo ʻana i nā ʻoihana ʻoihana i kēia lā. Kōkua pū ka ʻenehana iā mākou e ʻimi i kahi hoa huakaʻi, kahi hoaaloha hoihoi, a i ʻole mea aloha.