PSYchology

"E maʻalahi!" - aʻo nā kākā'ōlelo i kēlā me kēia manawa. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo iā lākou: ʻo ka maʻalahi o ʻoe, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o lākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke pane i kēia mau kelepona, a i ʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻae iā ʻoe iho e paʻakikī a loaʻa i ka leʻaleʻa multi-layered, multi-layered a me nā mea he nui mai ke ola.

Ma hope o 40, hoʻomaka wau e mālama i koʻu ʻili a hele i ke kai i ke ahiahi wale nō. I kēia kauwela, i loko o ka lole ʻauʻau ʻeleʻele, ua ʻike au i mau tausani o nā crustacean māmā i ka nalu. Hoʻopaʻa kekahi o lākou i koʻu apo a ʻālohilohi no kekahi manawa ma hope o ka emi ʻana o ka nalu. He nani. Ua ʻōlinolino ke kai. Ua kāhea wau i kaʻu kaikamahine, mahalo mākou i ka ʻālohilohi a me kēia manawa, a hoʻomanaʻo lāua ʻelua ...

"ʻAʻole au kaumaha, paʻakikī wau," wahi a Kauka House, "makemake nā kaikamahine." A he oiaio. Akā i ka manawa like, huikau ka paʻakikī (ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī o nā wahine) me ke kaumaha, ʻeleʻele a, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, hauʻoli ʻole. "Nani ka paʻakikī o nā mea a pau iā ʻoe!" - ke ʻōlelo nei lākou me ka leo hoʻopiʻi a noʻonoʻo i kēia he hemahema.

He aha ka hewa o ka paʻakikī? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ia ke kumu he nui nā kumu e huikau ai (hohonu, hoʻomaopopo), akā nui nā ala e leʻaleʻa ai. A e lilo ia i mea hoʻonani, multi-storey, sophisticated leʻaleʻa. ʻOiai ʻo ka pia me nā sprats. No ka mea ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea paʻakikī, nā hui, nā mea hoʻonui ʻono. Loaʻa iā lākou nā manaʻo ʻoi aʻe a me nā hopena voluminous. A no laila pono lākou e emi iho e hauʻoli. He paʻakikī loa lākou a hiki iā lākou ke hauʻoli i nā mea maʻalahi. Hiki iā lākou wale nō.

Inā paʻakikī ʻoe, a laila me ka makahiki e lilo ai ka honua i mea multidimensional iā ʻoe, wehe ʻia e like me ka lau kī i ka wai paila.

ʻIke ʻoe, nā mea ʻala maikaʻi, ke honi ʻoe iā lākou ma kahi ʻāpana pepa, honi ʻokoʻa ma mua o ke kino, ma hope o ka pepeiao, ʻaʻole like me ka lima lima, a i ke ahiahi - ʻaʻole like me ke kakahiaka. ʻOi aku ka māmā i ke kakahiaka, ʻoi aku ka ikaika i ke ahiahi. A i loko o koʻu ao, ua kāpīpī ʻia kēlā me kēia kanaka a me kēlā me kēia mea i nā ʻuhane. Ke neʻe nei nā mea a pau, hoʻololi nā mea a pau i ke ʻano a me ke ʻano, ka hohonu a me ke kala, a ʻoi aku ka ikaika. Kapa ʻia kēia i ka ulu ʻana a me ke oʻo, i koʻu manaʻo.

He hoaaloha koʻu he 12 makahiki. I koʻu mau makahiki he kanakolu a he kanahākūmālua ʻo ia, ua hoʻokuke ʻo ia i ke kīpē ma kahi noho, ʻūlū i kona mau iwi a haʻi akula: "He nui nā mea kiʻekiʻe ma mua o mākou." A laila ʻaʻole au i ʻike i nā kumu no ka manaʻo maikaʻi i ka makahiki he kanahā. Akā i kēia manawa he 55 ʻo ia, a he mea hiki ʻole ke ʻae ʻole he nui maoli nā kiʻekiʻe a ua manaʻo ʻia ka mea like. No ka mea, inā paʻakikī ʻoe, a laila me ka makahiki e lilo ai ka honua i mea multidimensional iā ʻoe, wehe ʻia e like me ka lau kī i ka wai paila. Ua like ia me ke kāne: ka nui o nā ʻōpio, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā mākua. Loaʻa i nā ʻōpio nā cigakeke a me ke one i loko o kā lākou pōkole, ʻo ka poʻe mākua he whiskey a me kahi moena orthopedic. A ʻo ke ʻano maoli kēia o nā mea.

ʻO ka ulu ʻana ʻo ia ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ala kūleʻa he nui e hoʻoholo ai me ʻoe iho a me ke ola.

'O ka ulu 'ana, 'a'ole ia he 'ohi kāma'a a kūkulu i hale lole hou. ʻAʻole ia he mau mea hou, he nui nā manaʻo hoihoi a me nā manaʻo. A he nui nā ala kūleʻa e launa pū me ʻoe iho a me ke ola a hauʻoli i nā mea āpau.

A ʻo ka ʻike, ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ma kahi āpau. Ke ahu nei ia. A hāʻawi pū i ka leo i ka ʻike, hāʻawi i kahi hopena 3D i nā mea āpau. Ua ho'āʻo mua ʻoe i nā mea he nui, loaʻa iā ʻoe nā makemake, nā mea hoʻopili - i nā kala, nā ʻala, nā manaʻo tactile, nā lole no ka upholstery o nā noho ...

ʻAe, he mea nui iā ʻoe. Inā ʻo ka upholstery, e ʻōlelo ʻoe, he ʻulaʻula synthetic carpet, ʻaʻole hau, ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā e ola ʻoe - ʻo ia ka mea no ke kanaka makua. Akā inā he olonā māmā - hiki iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli mai kēia. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho ma ka hale hōkele, e kali i kekahi, e nānā i kou lima ma ka lima a me ka ulana ʻana i nā kaula i ka lole a hauʻoli.

A pēlā nō i nā mea a pau: i ka meaʻai a me ka waiʻona, i loko o nā kūlanakauhale, kā lākou hoʻolālā (nānā i kahi alapiʻi!), nā wahi, nā hana a me nā ala, ka wā a me ke ʻano, ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me ke mele, kamaʻilio a me ka pilina - i ka mea nui, akā ma luna. he aha ka mea e pani ai i kou mau maka i loko o ke kanaka ... Koho ʻia mai ka lehulehu - kā lākou leo ​​a me nā ʻono punahele. A ʻaʻole kaumaha kēia mau mea iā ʻoe, akā maʻalahi ia.

ʻO kekahi mea, inā ʻaʻohe o kēia. Ma kahi wahi i haki ʻole a hiki ʻole. A ʻaʻohe ou kumu waiwai i loko - nā mea pili nui a liʻiliʻi, aloha, aloha, hauʻoli, ʻono o ke ola… Hiki i nā manawa kālā ke hoʻoikaika i kēia mau mea āpau, akā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hoʻololi.

A inā he mea liʻiliʻi e pili ana i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai: "Auē, aloha wau ia! Aloha wale au. ʻO ia, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo - ʻaʻole hana ke aloha. Akā, me he mea lā e hauʻoli ʻoe i kekahi manawa, a nānā ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a nīnau: "He aha kaʻu e aloha nui ai i ke ola? ʻO wai kaʻu makemake e ʻike i kēia manawa? I mea e hauʻoli nui ai au i kēia manawa - auwe! A ma ka pane ʻana, hāmau. A hiki nō hoʻi iā ʻoe ke ʻōpala me ka spoon ma ka ipu keleawe o nā makemake, akā ʻaʻole i loaʻa. A ʻo ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka ai: “ʻAuhea koʻu mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe kuʻekuʻe wāwae? No ke aha ke anu, mehana ka champagne? A ʻo nā pahu hau i loko o ke aniani ke ʻano hewa.

Akā inā ua ulu nā mea a pau - i ke ola, loaʻa iā ʻoe nā mea āu e makemake ai. Hoʻopili pū me kāu mau ʻano a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, nā ʻāpana o ke one a me nā māwae āu i ʻike ai i ka wā i hala aku nei, kahi āu i maʻa ai a hoʻonani pū i ke ola i kēlā me kēia lā. ʻO ka nani, ua kala ʻoe iā ʻoe iho no nā mea ʻino a me nā poʻe a pau i loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mōʻaukala o nā pilina: hōʻole, huhū, kūʻai aku, puʻuwai, ʻae ʻia - a aia kēia mau mea ma hope ou. Aloha ʻoe iā lākou iā ʻoe iho a ʻike ʻoe ua hoʻokaʻawale lākou iā ʻoe mai nā mea ʻē aʻe. Ua maopopo iaʻu.

ʻO ka oʻo a me ka paʻakikī ke ʻike ʻoe i ka palu ʻana i kou mau ʻeha, ka pauka i kou mau ʻōpala, a i ʻole e ʻaʻahu me ka haʻaheo, e like me nā kauoha.

A ʻo kāu mau hewa, he hewa ʻoiaʻiʻo paha, a he aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo paha, he pololei mau. Akā ʻo ke kanaka makua, ka makua a me ka paʻakikī ke ʻike ʻoe i ka palu ʻana i kou mau ʻeha, ka pauka i kou mau ʻōpala, a i ʻole ke ʻaʻahu me ka haʻaheo, e like me ke kauoha. A emi pinepine ka manaʻo mehameha, a inā ʻoe e manaʻo ai, mai makaʻu ʻoe.

He mea kupanaha ka hoʻolohe ʻana i nā kāhea no ka maʻalahi, "maʻalahi" hauʻoli kanaka, unpretentiousness o ka hōʻoluʻolu, ka pipi ʻana i ka lehu ma luna o ke poʻo - ʻae, ʻōlelo lākou, makemake au i nā kūlana hou aku no ka hauʻoli, nā mea hou aku, a me ka waina port cheap a me ka "Hoa" ʻAʻole lawa ka paka iaʻu e leʻaleʻa. ʻO ka makemake i ka moe kolohe o ka ʻōpio, ka noʻonoʻo ʻole a me ka manaʻolana i nā mea āpau - i kekahi manawa e puka mai. Akā inā ʻike ʻoe a aloha i nā mea like ʻole, aloha ʻoe i kēlā kikoʻī, nahu ʻoe me ka makemake, ʻaʻole ʻoe e mihi ʻaʻole ʻoe he 20 mau makahiki. A pehea ʻoe i hoʻohana ai i nā hola e moe ana ma kahakai, ʻaʻole makaʻu e puhi, a puhi iā ʻoe iho i kahi hoʻololi piha o ka ʻili, hoʻomanaʻo ʻoe me ka nostalgia ʻole.

E like me ka ʻōlelo ʻana a kekahi kanaka kūʻai hoʻoheheʻe ea kūleʻa loa: inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kou wahi i ka lā, ʻo kāu koho e noho ma ka malu. Aia kahi hohonu o nā mea hoihoi a me kahi papa inoa lōʻihi o nā moʻo e pono ke nānā ʻia.

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