ʻO kahi hana keaka ʻohana kahi hanana i hiki ke hoʻopili i kekahi. A ʻo kēia, i kēlā me kēia manawa o ke ola. Inā he keiki mākou, ʻōpio a makua paha, hana mākou āpau i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a pono mākou i ke kākoʻo a i ʻole ke kōkua pilikino.

Nui nā drama ʻohana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke lilo i kahi mea aloha ma muli o kahi ulia. I kekahi manawa nalowale kekahi mau hoahānau i ko lākou ola i ka manawa like. ʻO ka pinepine, hana ʻia kēia mau hanana i ka wā o nā ulia pōpilikia kaʻa, nā ulia mokulele, nā pōʻino kūlohelohe a i ʻole, e like me kā mākou i ʻike ai i nā makahiki i hala aku nei, i ka wā o nā hana hoʻoweliweli.

I kekahi manawa hoʻokumu ʻia ka hana keaka ʻohana e ka maʻi. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻololi i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā o kahi ʻohana, hoʻopau pinepine ia me ka make o ka mea e pili ana. Inā hoʻoilina paha, hānau hānau, inā he maʻi ʻaʻai paha ia ka maningitis, pili ia i nā kāne a me nā wahine a ʻaʻole pili i ka makahiki. ʻO ka maʻi i nā keiki kekahi o nā pōpilikia ʻohana i hoʻohoka ʻole ʻia.

Hiki iā mākou ke lilo i kahi mea aloha e ukali nei i suicide. I kēia hihia, nui nā nīnau. Huhū nā hoahānau a minamina kekahi manawa.

ʻAʻole hoʻokomo ʻia kahi pāʻani ʻohana i ka make o kahi lālā o ka ʻohana. I kekahi manawa ʻike ʻia ia e nā hana kolohe, hemo a he haʻalele paha.

He paʻakikī ka ʻike ʻana i ka hana keaka ʻohana i nā makahiki āpau. Ke makua mākou, pono mākou e alo i ke kūlana ʻoiai he kuleana ko mākou. I kekahi manawa pono mākou e mālama i kahi mea aloha, pono mākou e hoʻokuʻu i ka manawa, loaʻa iā mākou nā hana hoʻomalu e hana ai, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe. I kekahi mau hihia, pono i nā mākua e hana me nā mea i aloha nui ʻia. He kuleana hou paha kā lākou a i ʻole hoʻokani paha i kahi kuleana maikaʻi ʻole.

Pono nā mākua e hana pū me kā lākou keiki a i kekahi manawa i ko lākou mau mākua i ke alo o ka hana keaka. He wahi ʻike ʻole ʻia. Eia hou, pono nō lākou e hoʻōla mai nā hanana pōʻino. Mai kānalua e noi no ke kōkua mai nā lālā ʻohana ʻē aʻe. Inā pono, hiki i kekahi manawa ke kāhea i waho kōkua. Hiki i nā kauka, nā limahana hana a me nā psychologists ke kōkua nui.

Lawe paha ka poʻe e hana nei i kekahi mau lā e mālama i kahi mea i aloha ʻia a i ʻole hoʻi e hoʻi hou mai ka pōʻino o ka ʻohana. Hāʻawi ʻia nā lā haʻalele i ka hanana o ka make o kahi lālā o ka ʻohana a hiki i ka haʻalele uku ʻole ke lawe ʻia e kōkua i kahi mea aloha maʻi.

I ka wā ʻōpio, ʻike nui ʻia nā pōpilikia ʻohana. ʻOiaʻiʻo, maʻalahi ka poʻe ʻōpio. ʻAʻohe o lākou hala ʻole o nā keiki akā ʻaʻole lawa ka ʻike i ke ola e kū ai i nā hanana kūpilikiʻi.

I ka hanana o ka pōpilikia ʻohana, pono pono e mālama pono i nā ʻōpio. Pono mākou e paipai iā lākou e hōʻike iā lākou iho a hele pū me lākou i ko lākou kaumaha. Pono e hoʻomaopopo a kōkua ʻia nā ʻōpio. ʻOi aku ka nui o nā hanana i hana ʻia i ka wā ʻōpio. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopili i ke kaulike palupalu o nā ʻōpio makua.

Pono nā mākua e hoʻomaopopo i ke kula i hele aku ai kā lākou keiki i ka pōʻino o ka ʻohana i maopopo ai ka hōʻoluʻolu o ka ʻōpio a me ka unuhi ʻole ʻia.

ʻO kahi o nā keiki i ke alo o kahi pōpilikia ʻohana he pilikia pinepine. Makemake mākou e haʻi iā mākou iho ʻaʻole maopopo i ka poʻe liʻiliʻi i ka mea e hana nei. Eia nō naʻe, pono e ʻike ia mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai, maopopo i ke keiki ka mea e hana nei a puni iā ​​ia. Lohe ʻo ia i nā paʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻike ʻo ia i kahi ʻole a hemahema paha. Hiki iā ia ke pili pono i ka hana keaka me ka ʻole o ka hōʻike ʻana i kona mau manaʻo.

He mea nui ia e kamaʻilio me nā keiki a keu hoʻi e ʻōlelo lākou. Pilikia paha nā keiki i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i nā mea a lākou e hele nei a me nā mea a lākou e manaʻo nei. ʻAʻole maopopo paha iā lākou i ka hana keaka ʻohana. Pono ʻoe e wehewehe i ke kūlana iā lākou i nā huaʻōlelo maʻalahi a nīnau iā lākou i nā nīnau.

E like me ka poʻe ʻōpio, pono e kūkākūkā i ke kūlana me nā kula a me nā kahu. No laila inā lākou e nīnau i nā nīnau, hiki i nā luna ke loaʻa nā pane kūpono a no ke aha ʻole, e kūkākūkā me ka muli loa.

Inā loaʻa kahi pōpilikia ʻohana, pono ʻoe e kōkua. Hiki mai kēia kōkua mai ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha paha, akā ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō. I kekahi manawa he mea maikaʻi e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i ke kūlana a pehea kou ʻoluʻolu ʻole me ia. I nā hihia koʻikoʻi a i ʻole nā ​​kumuhana nāwaliwali loa, e koi ʻia ke kōkua o kahi loea e like me ka psychologist a i ʻole kahi psychiatrist.

Hiki i kahi hana keaka ʻohana ke kaumaha. Pono pinepine ke kākoʻo pilikino e mālama i kou ola a hoʻokō i kāu kuleana i kēlā me kēia lā. Inā he kauka, nāʻike a i ʻole aloha wale, pono ke kōkua.