Ke ʻike ʻole nei i ke ʻano o ka hauʻoli, hiki iā mākou ke ʻike mua i ka wā auspicious. Wahi a kahi loiloi Pelekane e wehewehe nei i ko mākou ʻano hauʻoli e like me ka makahiki, hauʻoli loa mākou i 33 mau makahiki. ʻO ke kiʻi nui o kā mākou ulu ʻana, 33 ke au o ka hauʻoli? Hoʻopunipuni.

Wahi a kahi noiʻi Pelekane a me kahi ana i mālama ʻia e nā Friends Reunited pūnaewele ma waena o ka poʻe ma mua o 40, ua hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo i ka makahiki i ka manawa, no ka hapa nui, ʻōlelo ka poʻe ʻo lākou ka hauʻoli loa.

He mea maopopo loa ka hopena: 70% o lākou i hōʻoia ʻaʻole lākou i hiki i kahi kūlana hauʻoli maoli a hiki i ka makahiki o 33.

ʻO hauʻoli, i kona ola makua, kona ola ʻohana, kāna male ʻana, a i ʻole maʻalahi wale i ke ola a mākou i koho hope ai. No ka mea ʻo 33 mau makahiki ka hoʻomaka o nā koho maoli: ʻo nā mea a mākou i hōʻole pinepine ai i ka iwakālua o ko mākou mau makahiki, no ka mea ʻaʻole lawa a paʻa ʻole iā mākou iho. Ma hope loa mākou mai ka hala ʻole, naivety, akā kūpono maoli mākou e ʻike pū ai i kā mākou hiki, kā mākou talena, a me kā mākou mau moemoeā e ʻike ʻia a maʻalahi hoʻi. Kūʻokoʻa a kūʻokoʻa hoʻi, ua hiki iā mākou, ma 33, ke hana i nā koho e hauʻoli ai mākou.

Inā mākou i koho e loaʻa nā keiki, ʻōpio loa lākou, a ke nānā nei iā lākou e ulu aʻe e hauʻoli ai mākou. E nā mākua, ʻaʻole pili iā mākou no ka ʻelemakule, e kū mākou ma ko mākou mau wāwae ʻelua. Inā ʻoe wale nō, leʻaleʻa ʻoe i kou ola ma ka huakaʻi ʻana, ka hele ʻana i waho, me ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi ola kaiaulu piha a me nā hoaaloha he nui, nā catalista o ka hauʻoli.

E wehewehe i kēia pane nui e pili ana i ka makahiki 33, ua pane ka poʻe pane.

• 53% ua leʻaleʻa hou lākou i kēia makahiki;
• 42% ʻoi aku ko lākou manaolana e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana;
• 38% ua emi ko lākou koʻikoʻi;
• 36% hauʻoli lākou i ka hānau keiki ʻana;
• 31% hauʻoli lākou i ka ʻohana pū ʻana;
• Ua hōʻike ʻo 21% i ka kūleʻa ʻoihana i kēia manawa i ko lākou ola.

INīnau ʻia e nā Hoa Hoʻohui hou ʻia, Donna Dawson, psychologist, hāʻawi i kahi wehewehe no kēia “Makahiki gula”, i manaʻo ʻia he 20 mau makahiki hou :

"ʻO ka makahiki 33 kahi manawa lōʻihi e hoʻoluliluli i ka naivety o ka wā kamaliʻi a me ka hana hoʻomāinoino o ka wā ʻōpio, me ka lilo ʻole o ka ikaika a me ka hoihoi o ka ʻōpio. I kēia makahiki, ua nalowale ka hala ʻole, akā, ua hui pū ʻia ko mākou ʻano maoli me ka manaʻolana ikaika, kahi ʻuhane o ka "ʻaʻa", a me ka manaʻo maikaʻi i kā mākou mau kālena ponoʻī a me nā hiki. ʻAʻole mākou i hoʻomohala i ka cynicism a me ka luhi e hiki mai ana me nā makahiki e hiki mai ana. ”

He hōʻailona loa kēia makahiki: kahi helu kapu no Pythagoras, ʻo ia nō ka makahiki o Kristo i kona make ʻana a me ka helu o kāna hana mana, ka helu o ka vertebrae i ke kino o ke kanaka a me ke kūlana kiʻekiʻe o ka franc. pōhaku

Eia naʻe, ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau noiʻi ʻē aʻe i nā kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe o ka hauʻoli a me ka piha i ke ola kanaka. No laila inā ʻoi aku ʻoe i 33 mau makahiki a ʻaʻole ʻoe i kiʻi i ka nirvana, mai makaʻu.

Wahi a kahi noiʻi a ka lawelawe leka uila Hotmail (Microsoft), ua manaʻo ʻia he 55 ka makahiki o ka makahiki. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo kēia ka makahiki ke hopu mākou i ka hanu. Ua nui nā keiki, aia ʻoe i ka hopena o kāu ʻoihana, hoʻolōʻihi ʻoe i ka manawa ma ka hana akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho i kēlā me kēia lā. Hele hou ʻoe a hauʻoli i ke ola hou aku! Nūhou maikaʻi no nā kanalima ma mua o ka hōʻā ʻana i ka luhi.

No ka poʻe i ʻoi aku i ka 55, ʻaʻole pau nā mea āpau: ua hōʻike kekahi mau noiʻi ʻē aʻe i kahi mau makahiki gula, ʻoi aku ke kiʻekiʻe. Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ma 2010 i kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka makahiki ke kū nā kūlana e hauʻoli ai: ke helu nei ia i nā makahiki kahiko ... Ma waena o 70 a 80 mau makahiki!

Kāhea mākou i kēia "paradox of well-well", mai ka makahiki 65, alo mākou i nā pilikia kino a me ka noʻonoʻo, ʻoiai hoʻohaʻahaʻa ke kino. Eia nō naʻe, lawe mai ka makahiki i ka naʻauao i ke ola, kahi ʻike ʻoi aku o ka nohona kaiāulu a me kona mau manaʻo.

Aia ma laila, a me ka mea pōmaikaʻi, nā manawa like ʻole i ke ola e kūleʻa ai i ka hauʻoli piha.