Inverted Oedipus complex: makemake kaʻu kaikamahine e mare iaʻu

ʻO ke keiki i aloha me kona makuahine: ʻaʻole i loaʻa ʻole ke ʻano o Oedipus

Na‘e pehē ‘e Anna, ta‘u 4, ki hono fa‘eé: “‘I he‘eku tupulaki, te u mali mo koe!” “. Aia i waenakonu o Oedipus, he huaʻōlelo psychoanalytic i hoʻoili ʻia mai ke ʻano o ka moʻolelo moʻolelo nāna i pepehi i kona makuakāne e mare i kona makuahine, makemake wale ʻo ia e lawe i kahi o kona makuakāne. "ʻO kēia ʻano hoʻohuli kahi e aloha ai ke keiki me ka makua o ka wahine hoʻokahi, ʻaʻole i ʻike pinepine ʻia," wahi a Stéphane Clerget, keiki psychiatrist *.

Ka wehewehe a me ka psychoanalysis o ka Electra complex: He wahi pono no kona kūkulu ʻana

Universal, ʻike ʻia ka complex Oedipus ma kahi o 3 mau makahiki a pau i ka makahiki 6. "ʻO kahi pae koʻikoʻi, e like me ke aʻo ʻana i nā mākau kaʻa a i ʻole ka ʻōlelo, hiki iā ia ke kūkulu i ka hoʻonohonoho manaʻo o kāna mau pilina aloha e hiki mai ana," wahi a Dr Clerget. . No ka moʻolelo Helene a mai ke ʻano o Oedipus, ke aliʻi o Thebes nāna i pepehi i kona makuakāne a pili pū me kona makuahine. Ua bapetizo ʻo Freud e pili ana i kēia moʻolelo o Antiquity i kēia maʻi psychological o ka wā kamaliʻi. Eia kekahi, ua kapa ʻia ʻo Oedipus complex Pākuʻi Electra i ke kaikamahine nana e hooulu.

ʻO ka pilina oedipal inverted: ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ka ʻike kāne kāne

No laila, ma muli o kona aloha i kona mau mākua i hoʻomaka ai ke keiki i ka makemake moe kolohe a me ke aloha. He pae koʻikoʻi kēia i ka ulu ʻana o ka wā kamaliʻi. I kēlā manawa, i mea e kōkua ai iā ia e hoʻomalu i kona mau manaʻo a me kona huhū, hiki iā mākou ke kūkākūkā me ia i nā pāpā kumu ʻelua o ka moekolohe kanaka: ʻaʻole pili ke keiki me kahi kanaka makua, ʻaʻole hoʻi me kekahi lālā o kona ʻohana. .

A no ke aha ʻo ia e nānā mai nei iaʻu ma mua o kona makuakāne? ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana, ka ʻakaʻaka a i ʻole ke ʻano ikaika o ka makua pili. ʻO ka ʻike hoʻi: makemake kā kā mākou kaikamahine liʻiliʻi e hana e like me kona makuakāne (me ka leʻaleʻa i ko mākou naʻau) a ma ke kaʻina hana e pāʻani ana i ka hoʻohālike ʻana i ka poʻe makua i aloha kekahi i kekahi!

Ua hoʻohuli ʻia ka pilikia ʻo Oedipus: pehea e hana ai ma ke ʻano he makua?

Ke hoʻāʻo nei ʻo ia e honi iā ​​mākou ma ka waha? Ke alo nei me ka inverted Oedipus complex, ua kau mākou i nā palena a wehewehe mākou iā ia ua mālama ʻia kēia mau honi no nā kāne aloha. ʻO ka pahuhopu: “hauʻoli"ka hihia ! ʻO ka makuakāne, "ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e mope, ʻaʻole aloha kāna kaikamahine iā ia", hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo Kauka Clerget. Makemake ʻo ia inā ʻo ka makuahine ka mea heluhelu i ka moʻolelo? Malia paha ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kā mākou mālama ʻana ma mua o ia… E like me ka ʻoi aku o ka maikaʻi o ka makuakāne i ka hīmeni ʻana i ke mele. Aia iā ia ke ʻimi i nā manawa e mālama ai i ka pilina. A laila, ʻaʻohe mea e pale iā mākou mai ka ʻōlelo ʻana: "Aia, ʻo ka makuakāne a ʻaʻole ʻole!" “. E heluhelu pū i ka moʻolelo, me ka wehewehe ʻana, inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia, makemake mākou e noho kā mākou kāne ma ko mākou ʻaoʻao ... a laila ʻae mākou iā ia e lawe.

Pehea e pane ai i ka hoʻohuli ʻana o ka complex Oedipus: nā hana ʻelua, pū kekahi!

ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā hana ma ke ʻano he kāne a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pono ʻē aʻe e kōkua i ke keiki e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole lawa ka hānai ʻana i kona makuahine, a haʻalele i kēia māla makuahine oedipal.

 

I ka makahiki hea e pau ai ka hoʻohuli ʻana o kahi paʻakikī Oedipus?

E like me ka complex Oedipus a i ʻole ka Electra lambda complex, e pau ka paʻakikī inverted i nā keiki ma kahi o 6 mau makahiki. Aia nō i kēia mau makahiki e ʻike ai ke keiki ʻaʻole hiki ke mare i kona makuakāne a makuahine paha.

 

* ʻO Stéphane Clerget ka mea kākau o kekahi mau puke me "He kāne kā kā mākou mau keiki, pehea ʻoe e lilo ai i kaikamahine a i keikikāne paha.? ”(Ed. Robert Laffont).

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