Inā manaʻo pinepine kekahi i ka noho kaʻawale ʻana o ka ʻelemakule ke kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ka hele ʻana o ka ʻohana, hiki i kēia ke hoʻopili i nā keiki a me nā mākua hana. E kālele ana i ka ʻino nui komohana.

Mai ke kuʻi mua o kona puʻuwai, i loko o ka ʻōpū o kona makuahine, ʻike ka pēpē i kona mau ʻano, kona mālie a i ʻole ʻē aʻe, kāna koʻikoʻi. Ma hope o kekahi mau mahina, lohe ʻo ia i ka leo o kona makuakāne a me nā leo like ʻole o ka poʻe kokoke iā ia. No laila ʻo ka ʻohana ka wahi o ka naʻau akā ʻoi aku hoʻi ma luna o nā palena ʻāina a me nā pono a pau. ʻO nā mea hoʻonāukiuki a me ka mahalo o nā mākua no ke keiki nā kumu āpau e hoʻohuli i kona ʻano mākua.

Hoʻomaʻa hou ʻia kēia ʻano like inā hoʻoholo nā keiki e lilo i mau mākua i ko lākou manawa. Hoʻokumu ʻia kahi kaulahao ikaika a me ka kaulike ma waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana like, a paʻakikī i ka noho kaʻawale ʻana.

ʻO ka expatriation, pilikia pilikia o ka poʻe mahuka, nā hana e koi ai i ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o ka ʻohana, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hihia o ke kaʻawale ma mua o kā mākou e manaʻo nei. Hiki i kēia mamao i kekahi mau hihia ke alakaʻi i pā kapu. Ke kuhi ʻia, hiki i ke kākoʻo a me ka hui ʻana o ka ʻohana ke hōʻike i nā hopena maikaʻi.

Hiki i nā keiki ke ʻike i ka noho kaʻawale a me ka noho kaʻawale ʻana o ka ʻohana. ʻO ka male male a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana o nā mākua ʻelua i hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻokaʻawale hoʻokaʻawale ʻia mai kekahi o nā mākua ʻelua (ʻoiai ke hele aku ka mea hope loa a i ʻole noho i kahi wahi mamao loa). ʻO ke kula hānai i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻa haʻawina ʻike ʻia kekahi e kekahi ʻano ʻohana paʻakikī paʻakikī e noho pū.

ʻO ka poʻe ʻelemakule ke kānalua ʻia ka hopena o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana. Hiki ke wehewehe maʻalahi ʻia kēia e kahi hoʻokaʻulua lohi a holomua hoʻi mai ka nohona kaiaulu, ma waho o ka ʻohana.

ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hana hou ka ʻelemakule a makemake nui e hoʻolaʻa iā lākou iho i ko lākou mau ʻohana (keu hoʻi me ka hōʻea ʻana o nā keiki liʻiliʻi). ʻO nā hoa hana a lākou e hui ai a kokoke i kēlā me kēia lā i poina a i ʻole ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, ua nui ka manawa o nā hālāwai. ʻAʻole emi pinepine ka launa ʻana me nā hoaaloha ma muli o ka lawe ʻia ʻana e ka hope e kā lākou hana ʻohana.

Ua hala nā makahiki a ua ʻike ʻia kekahi mau kīnā o ke kino. Hoʻokaʻawale nā ​​ʻelemākule iā lākou iho a ʻike i ka liʻiliʻi a me ka liʻiliʻi o kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Ma luna o 80, ma waho o kona ʻohana, ʻoluʻolu pinepine ʻo ia me kekahi mau kūkaʻi me nā hoanoho, nā mea kālepa a me kekahi mau mea lawelawe. Ma hope o 85 mau makahiki, hoʻemi ka helu o nā interlocutors, keu hoʻi ke hilinaʻi ka ʻelemakule a hiki ʻole ke neʻe iā lākou iho.

E like me ka noho kaʻawale ʻana, holomua ka noho kaʻawale ʻana o ka ʻohana. ʻEleu nā keiki, mai noho mau i ke kūlanakauhale a i ʻole ka ʻāina like, ʻoiai he poʻe mākua nā keiki liʻiliʻi (he haumāna mau lākou). Inā ma ka home a i ʻole i kahi kula, aia nā hāʻina e kōkua i ka ʻelemakule e hoʻi i hope i ka mehameha.

Inā makemake lākou e noho i ka home, hiki ke kōkua ʻia ka ʻelemakule kaʻawale ma o:

• Nā pūnaewele lawelawe kūloko (ka lawe ʻana i ka papa ʻai, mālama mālama home, a pēlā aku.).
• Nā lawelawe halihali no ka poʻe ʻelemakule e hoʻolauna i ka nohona a me ka neʻe.
• ʻO nā hui manawaleʻa e hāʻawi nei i ka launa me ka poʻe ʻelemākule (kipa home, pāʻani, kahua heluhelu heluhelu, kuke ʻana, haʻuki kino, a pēlā aku.).
• ʻO nā hui kaiaulu a me nā cafe e paipai i nā hālāwai ma waena o ka ʻelemakule.
• Kōkua home no ka hana hale, kūʻai hele, ʻīlio hele wāwae, a pēlā aku.
• Nā haumāna haole e noho ana i kahi lumi i ka hale i ka hoʻololi no ka hui a me nā lawelawe liʻiliʻi.
• Hāʻawi ka EHPAs (Establishments Housing Elderly People) e mālama i kahi mana kūʻokoʻa (ke ola studio ʻo kahi laʻana) ʻoiai e leʻaleʻa nei i nā mea maikaʻi o ka nohona hui i mālama ʻia.
• ka EHPAD (Hoʻokipa Kūkulu no ka poʻe ʻelemākule hilinaʻi) hoʻokipa, hele pū a mālama i ka ʻelemakule.
• Mālama ka USLD (Units Care Long-Term for the Elderly in Hospital) i ka poʻe hilinaʻi nui loa.

Nui nā hui i kōkua mai i nā ʻelemākule a me nā kaʻawale, mai hoʻokaʻulua e nīnau i ka hale o kou kaona.

Hiki i kekahi mau keʻena ke hiki ke hōʻalo i ka mehameha ʻoiai e hoʻomaha ana i ka ʻohana pili ʻole i loaʻa mau.

He wā paʻakikī loa ka noho kaʻawale ʻana a i ʻole ka noho kaʻawale ʻana o ka ʻohana e noho pū ai, ʻoiai ke ʻano he hiki ʻole ke hoʻololi ʻia (no laila ʻo nā hoʻopiʻi kūpilikiʻi o ka ʻelemakule e ʻeha nei i ka mehameha). Lawe i nā ana kūpono e kōkua iā lākou e ʻae iā lākou e ʻelemakule a e hōʻemi i ko lākou hopohopo.