ʻO kahi puke hou na Larisa Surkova - psychology no nā keiki
ʻO Larisa Surkova, kahi psychologist hoʻomaʻamaʻa, blogger a me ka makuahine o nā keiki ʻelima, i kākau i ka puke Psychology for Children: At Home. Ma ke kula. Huakaʻi ”, ʻaʻole i manaʻo ʻia no nā mākua wale nō, akā no kā lākou poʻe keiki hoʻi. A ʻo ka moʻolelo hoʻi mai ke kanaka o Styopa, kahi keikikāne ʻehiku ona makahiki i kamaʻilio kūkākūkā me ka mea heluhelu. Me ka ʻae o ka hale paʻi "AST" ke hoʻopuka nei mākou i kahi ʻāpana mai kēia puke.
ʻO koʻu makuahine a me koʻu makuakāne he psychologists. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu iho i ke ʻano o kēia, akā leʻaleʻa mau me lākou. Hele pinepine mākou i kahi mea: huki, pāʻani, pane pū i nā nīnau like ʻole, a nīnau mau lākou iaʻu i koʻu manaʻo.
I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ke noho nā psychologists i kou hale, maʻalahi ia. Ma luna o lākou ua alakaʻi wau i kaʻu mau hoʻokolohua ma ka makua! Hoihoi? I kēia manawa e haʻi wau iā ʻoe i nā mea āpau! Mai noʻonoʻo wale ʻo ka makua ka mea e pili ana i ka meaʻai (ʻaʻole wau e haʻi iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā cutlets a me nā mea momona). ʻO kēia nā lula o ke ʻano me ke kūpuna i hana lākou i kāu makemake. ʻOluʻolu, ʻeā?
He aha e hana ai ke kaumaha ʻoe
I kekahi manawa loaʻa wau i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole. Inā ʻaʻole lawa koʻu hiamoe, maʻi wau, a i ka wā a Alina i haʻi mai ai iaʻu i kahi mea kaumaha. ʻO Alina koʻu hoa aloha mai ka papa aʻu e aloha ai, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia e nānā iki iaʻu.
I kekahi manawa piʻi wau iā Alina i ka wā hoʻomaha e kamaʻilio wale, a kū ʻo ia me nā kaikamahine a kamaʻilio wale iā lākou, a nānā ʻole iaʻu. A i ʻole nānā ʻo ia, akā, peʻaleʻa kona ihu a giggles paha. I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia mau kaikamahine!
ʻAe, i kēlā mau manawa, makemake wau ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻopā mai iaʻu, makemake wau e moe ma luna o kahi moena, ʻaʻohe hana, ʻai i ka lole a ice cream a nānā i ka TV i ka lā āpau. Malia paha, hiki mai kēia iā ʻoe?
A eia wau ke wahaheʻe nei, me ka hoʻopilikia ʻole ʻana i kekahi, a ʻo ia ka manawa e hoʻomaka koʻu makuahine e pester iaʻu: "Styopa, hele e ʻai!", "Styopa, lawe aku i nā mea pāʻani!", "Styopa, e pāʻani me kou kaikuahine!", "Styopa , hele wāwae me ka ʻīlio! “
Eh, hoʻolohe wau iā ia a i kēlā me kēia manawa aʻu e noʻonoʻo ai: ʻae, ua makua maoli ʻo ia a maopopo ʻole iaʻu ʻaʻohe oʻu manawa nona i kēia manawa. Akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hala ʻana o koʻu mau lā iā “Styopa!” pepeiao pepeiao a mai hana ʻole. A laila huhū ʻo ia, hoʻomaka e ʻōlelo i kekahi mea e pili ana i kāna ʻike, e pili ana i kuʻu kaumaha ʻana iā ia, pehea kāna ʻoluʻolu inā wau e ʻai. Lohe wau i kā lākou kamaʻilio me makuakāne a ʻike wau i nā puke akamai e aʻo iā lākou e ʻōlelo e like me kēlā, a lākou e heluhelu ai i nā manawa āpau. Akā inā ʻaʻole holo pono kā lākou hana a pau, kaua mākou. Hiki iaʻu ke huhū, ʻuwā, uē, a kīkē i ka puka.
Pēlā nō ʻo Māmā a me Pāpā. A laila huhū kēlā me kēia, a hiki nō iaʻu ke hoʻopaʻi.
Akā aia wau i ka papa mua a ʻike wau i ka hakakā pono ʻana i ʻole wau e hoʻomāinoino ʻia a loaʻa ʻole iaʻu ka hoʻopaʻi. E haʻi wau iā ʻoe i kēia manawa!
- Ke hele ʻoe i kahi ʻano maikaʻi ʻole, e haʻi i kou makuahine e pili ana! E ala aʻe ma aneʻi i ke kakahiaka a ʻōlelo: “Māmā, kaumaha wau, ʻaʻole wau i ke ʻano.” A laila e paʻi ʻo ia iā ʻoe ma ke poʻo, e nīnau pono i ka mea i hana ʻia, e hāʻawi paha ʻo ia iā ʻoe i kahi wikamina kūikawā. Kāhea mākou i kēia mau wikamina "ascorbic acid". I ke ala i ke kula, hiki iā ʻoe ke kamaʻilio me kou makuahine, a e hoʻomehana ia i kou ʻōpū! Aloha nui wau i kēia mau kamaʻilio me koʻu makuahine.
- Inā kaumaha ʻoe i ka lā hoʻomaha, e hoʻi i kou wahi moe me kou makuahine a me kou makuakāne. E hana kēia i kēlā me kēia i ke ʻano maikaʻi!
- Inā paha ua hoʻomaka mua nā mākua e hoʻohiki, e haʻi iā lākou: “Kāohi! E hoʻolohe iaʻu - he kanaka au a makemake pū wau e ʻōlelo! “
A iā mākou kekahi kāleka ʻulaʻula i loko o ko mākou ʻohana! Ke hana hewa ʻole kekahi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ia i kēia kāleka. ʻO kēia ka mea pono iā ia e pani a helu i ka 10. He maʻalahi loa ia i hoʻohiki ʻole ai ʻo māmā iā ʻoe.
ʻIke wau i kahi mea huna hou aʻe: i ka manawa paʻakikī loa o kahi hakakā, e piʻi a ʻōlelo: "Mama, aloha nui wau iā ʻoe!" - a nānā i kona mau maka. ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻohiki hou, ua nānā au i nā manawa he nui. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo nā mākua ke ʻano o ka poʻe āu e pono ai e kamaʻilio mau. E haʻi wale ʻoe iā lākou i nā mea āpau - a hauʻoli lākou, a loaʻa iā ʻoe ka mea āu e makemake ai. Paipai ikaika wau iā ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e haʻi iā lākou i kekahi mea ma mua o ka uē ʻana a i ʻole ka uē ʻana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka me ka mea maʻalahi loa: “E kamaʻilio kāua!”