ʻAelike ʻaelike

ʻEkolu kou mau keʻena a me kahi kaʻa, a ʻo kāu mea nui ʻē aʻe kekahi o kēlā poʻe i ʻōlelo ʻia he "poʻo e like me ka falcon"? A i ʻole, ʻaʻole paha, ua hōʻea hou ʻoe i kekahi kūlanakauhale nui a ke hele nei ʻoe e komo i ka ʻohana o nā mea nona nā hale hana a me nā mokuahi? ʻO kekahi o nā nīnau paʻakikī loa i ka wā e komo ai i ka male, ʻo ia ka mea i manaʻo ʻia no ka mea ponoʻī, a me ka mea maʻamau me ka mea aloha. E kōkua ka ʻaelike prenuptial e pale i nā manawa hilahila a pale i ka waiwai i loaʻa pono. 

ʻO ke kumu o ka male

"ʻO kahi ʻaelike male a i ʻole kahi ʻaelike, e like me ka mea i kapa ʻia, he kuʻikahi i hoʻoholo ʻia ma waena o nā kāne e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia waiwai," wahi a loio ʻO Ivan Volkov. – Simply put, this is a document that clearly states what property the husband and wife will own during marriage, and what property in the event of a divorce. The marriage contract is regulated by Chapter No. 8 of the Family Code of the Federation. The content varies depending on what is fundamentally important for a particular couple. If you want to conclude a prenuptial agreement, its essence is simple: to foresee all property risks as much as possible, reduce the ground for conflicts and ensure security for both parties. 

Nā kūlana o ka ʻaelike male

ʻO ka mua a, ʻo ia paha ke kumu nui: pono e hoʻopau ʻia ka ʻaelike male ma ka ʻaelike like. 

“If the husband wants to sign the document, and the wife desperately resists, then it will not work to conclude a contract,” explains Volkov. – One of the couple often comes to us, lawyers, and asks: how to persuade the other half to a marriage contract? Usually it is the one who has more property. In the mentality, the conclusion of such agreements has not yet been accepted, insults immediately begin, they say, don’t you trust me?! Therefore, we have to explain to people that if everything is done correctly, they will only be in the black. 

ʻO ke kūlana ʻelua: pono e hoʻopau ʻia ka ʻaelike ma ke kākau ʻana, ma ke alo o kahi notary. 

 "I ka wā ma mua, hiki i nā kāne ke hoʻoholo i kahi ʻaelike e pili ana i ka māhele ʻana o ka waiwai ma waena o lākou iho, akā hoʻomaka lākou e hana ʻino i kēia," wahi a Volkov. - No ka laʻana, hiki i ke kāne ke hōʻaiʻē i ka miliona, a laila wikiwiki, kokoke i ka lumi kuke, hoʻopau i kahi ʻaelike me kāna wahine, a i ka wā e hele mai ai lākou no ka ʻaiʻē, shrug: ʻAʻohe aʻu mea, aia nā mea āpau ma kaʻu wahine aloha. Ma ka notary, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻopunipuni ʻia ka lā, ʻo ia hoʻi, wehewehe ʻo ia i nā mea āpau i nā kikoʻī i hiki ʻole i kekahi ke ʻōlelo: "ʻAe, ʻaʻole wau i maopopo i kaʻu mea e kau inoa ai."

ʻO ke kolu o ke kūlana: pono e hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻia nā pilikia waiwai wale nō ma ka ʻaelike. Hiki i nā hoa kāne ke hoʻonohonoho i ʻekolu mau ʻano hoʻoilina: 

a) ʻano hui. Ua hoʻomaopopo ʻia ua hoʻohana like ʻia nā waiwai a pau, a ma ka hemo ʻana ua māhele like ʻia. 

b) Kaʻana like. Maʻaneʻi, loaʻa i kēlā me kēia kāne kāna māhele o ka waiwai, no ka laʻana, he hale noho, a hiki iā ia ke kūʻai aku e like me kona makemake (kūʻai, hāʻawi, a pēlā aku). Hiki i nā ʻāpana ke lilo i kekahi mea - ua māhele pinepine ʻia lākou "ma ka pono", no ka laʻana, inā loaʻa i ke kāne ka hapa nui o ke kālā, a laila nona ka ¾ o ke keʻena. 

c) Ke ano kaawale. I ke koho ʻana i kēia koho, ʻae like nā kāne e like me kēia: he hale kāu, he kaʻa koʻu. ʻO ia hoʻi, na kēlā me kēia kanaka kāna waiwai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopaʻa inoa i ka mana o kekahi mea - a hiki i nā ʻōpala a me nā puna. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kaʻana like i nā kuleana, no ka laʻana, e uku nā mea a pau no kāna mau hōʻaiʻē iā ia iho. 

E makaʻala! ʻO nā waiwai a pau i hōʻike ʻole ʻia i loko o ka ʻaelike e manaʻo ʻia i loaʻa pū ʻia. I mea e pale aku ai i nā kūlana leʻaleʻa, ua hāʻawi ka luna kānāwai i ka hiki ke hoʻololi i ka ʻaelike male, hiki ke loli nā kūlana i ka wā o ka ʻohana. 

ʻO kekahi mea nui: hiki ke hoʻohui ʻia kēia mau ʻano. Hiki ke kākau ʻia nā kuleana kālā ma ka palapala (no ka laʻana, uku ka wahine i nā pono hana, a hoʻopiha mau ke kāne i nā kaʻa me ka ʻaila). Akā ʻaʻole hiki ke kuhikuhi i ka ʻaelike i ke kauoha o nā pilina pilikino a kaupalena i ka mana kānāwai a i ʻole ke kānāwai o nā kāne. 

"Nīnau ka poʻe i kekahi manawa inā hiki ke hoʻokomo i ka ʻinikua kūʻē i ke kipi i loko o ka ʻaelike," wahi a ka loio. - No ka laʻana, inā hoʻopunipuni ka wahine, e haʻalele ʻo ia me kāna mea i hele mai ai. He hana kēia i ʻike ʻia ma ʻEulopa, akā ʻaʻole pili i ko mākou ʻāina. ʻAʻole ʻae kā mākou kānāwai i ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pono pilikino a me nā kuleana, ua ʻae ʻia kēia i nā kuleana o kekahi. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole hiki i ke kāne ke hoʻonele i kāna wahine i ka waiwai ke hele ʻole ʻo ia i loko o kona lumi moe i ka Poalua a me ka Poaha. I kekahi manawa noi lākou e kuhikuhi pū i kēia, akā, pōmaikaʻi, a pōʻino paha, hiki ʻole kēia.

Ka hoʻopau ʻana i kahi ʻaelike male

ʻEkolu mau koho no ke kau inoa ʻana i kahi ʻaelike. 

1. E ʻimi i kahi ʻaelike male mākaukau ma ka Pūnaewele, hoʻohui iā ia e like me kou makemake a hele i kahi notary. 
   
2. E hoʻokaʻaʻike i kahi loio nāna e kōkua iā ʻoe e huki pololei i kahi palapala, a ma hope wale nō e hele i ke keʻena notari. 
   
3. E hele pololei i ka notary a noi i ke kōkua ma laila. 

"Ma muli o koʻu ʻike, hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo aku iā ʻoe e kū i ka koho lua," wahi a Volkov. - Pono e hana hou ʻia kahi ʻaelike hana ponoʻī, a ʻoi aku ka nui o ke kālā no ka hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana ma mua o nā loio. No laila, ʻo ka koho maikaʻi loa e huki i kahi ʻaelike me kahi loio kūpono, a me kāna palapala hōʻoia e ka notary pono. 

No ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kahi ʻaelike male, pono ʻoe e lawe pū me ʻoe i nā passport o nā kāne ʻelua, kahi palapala male a me nā palapala no kēlā me kēia mea āu e makemake ai e hoʻopaʻa inoa iā ʻoe iho. Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui: he keʻena a i ʻole ke kiʻi punahele a kou kupunawahine. Inā ua hoʻoholo maoli ʻoe e pono ʻoe i kahi kuʻikahi prenuptial, e lōʻihi ka hopena, akā e mālie ʻoe. 

I ka manawa hea ka hopena 

Hiki ke kakau i ka palapala mare e hooponopono ana i na pili waiwai ma mua a ma hope o ka mare ana. ʻAe kēia iā ʻoe e pale aku i nā kūlana maikaʻi ʻole, no ka laʻana, noi ke kāne kāne waiwai e hoʻopau i kahi ʻaelike male, ʻae ka wahine mare, a ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka hōʻailona lōʻihi i kali ʻia i kāna passport, ʻōlelo ʻo ia "Ua hoʻololi au i koʻu manaʻo!". 

Eia naʻe, hoʻomaka ka ʻaelike ma hope o ka hoʻopaʻa inoa kūhelu o ka male. Ma ke ala, hiki ke hoʻololi a hoʻopau ʻia, akā me ka ʻae ʻana o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua. Ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, ua nalowale kona mana (koe naʻe nā kūlana i ʻōlelo ʻia e nā hoa kāne ʻē aʻe). 

"I kekahi manawa hiki i ke kāne a me ka wahine ke ʻaelike ma mua ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, inā pilikia kekahi o lāua a nalowale kona hiki ke hana, e uku ka lua iā ia i kekahi huina," wahi a ka loio i kona ʻike. “He ʻano ʻupena palekana, a he wahi kona. 

Loaʻa a me nā ponoʻole

Manaʻo nā loio he ʻoi aku ka nui o nā hoʻohui i loko o kahi kuʻikahi prenuptial ma mua o nā minuses. 

"ʻO ka hemahema nui ʻo ka hāʻawi ʻana e hoʻopau i kahi ʻaelike hiki ke hōʻeha nui," ʻo Volkov maopopo. - ʻOiaʻiʻo, he mea leʻaleʻa i ka wahine mare i ke aloha e lohe i kēlā ʻano hāʻawi mai ke kāne mare. ʻAe, a mai kahi wahine aloha ma mua o ka male ʻana, makemake wau e lohe i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe. Akā, inā hiki iā ʻoe ke wehewehe i ka lua o kāna ʻinikua, ʻae ʻo ia. 

ʻO ka lua o ka hemahema, ʻo ia ka uku ʻana i ka dute state a me nā lawelawe notary. I ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka pilina a me ke ʻano o ka male ma mua o ka male ʻana, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hemo ʻana, no laila he mea lapuwale ka hoʻolimalima. Akā i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e kōkua kēia i ka mālama ʻana i nā koina kānāwai a me ka uku no nā loio. ʻOiaʻiʻo, aia wale nō ma ka hihia o ka hemo. 

ʻO ke kolu o ka liʻiliʻi, ʻo ia ka mea hiki i ka wahine mana ke hoʻoikaika i ka hapa ʻē aʻe e kau inoa i ka ʻaelike e like me kāna e pono ai. Eia naʻe, loaʻa i ka lua ka manawa e nīnau i nā nīnau a pau i ka notary a i ka manawa hope e hōʻole i kahi hāʻawi maikaʻi ʻole. 

A i ʻole, ʻo ka ʻaelike prenuptial he mau mea maikaʻi wale nō: hiki i nā kānaka ke pale aku iā lākou iho mai nā hakakā a me nā showdowns, e mālama i nā aʻalolo a me ke kālā ma nā ʻaha hoʻokolokolo, a hoʻomaopopo hoʻi i ka mea hiki ke nalowale ma muli o nā hakakā mau a i ʻole kumakaia. 

He laʻana o ka ʻaelike prenuptial 

He nui ka poʻe, i ka wā e hoʻoholo ai e huki i kēlā palapala, ʻaʻole maopopo i ke ʻano o ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i ka waiwai. Inā ʻaʻohe maopopo o ke ʻano o ka ʻaelike prenuptial, e kōkua ka laʻana e hoʻomaopopo hope i kēia. 

"ʻO kēlā me kēia male mare he kanaka hoʻokahi," wahi a Volkov. - Hoʻopau pinepine ʻia lākou e ka poʻe i loaʻa kahi mea e nalowale ai. Akā, hiki nō hoʻi i kahi kāne ke makemake e hana i nā mea āpau a ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo hou. ʻO kahi laʻana, ola kahi kanaka ʻōpio nona iho, kūkulu mālie i kahi ʻoihana ma kahi holoi kaʻa. Hoʻolilo ʻo ia i ke kālā i loko, wili. A laila hāʻule ʻo ia i ke aloha, male ʻo ia a hoʻomaka i ka loaʻa kālā ma mua o ka male ʻana. ʻAʻohe waiwai o ka ʻohana, akā i ka wā e hiki mai ana ka manaʻo o ka male hou e kūʻai i kaʻa a me kahi hale. A laila hoʻoholo lākou i kahi ʻaelike, a inā lawa nā mea ʻelua, e koho lākou i kahi koho ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoluʻolu no nā mea a pau: no ka laʻana, ma hope o ka hemo ʻana, waiho i ke keʻena i ke kāne, nāna i hoʻolilo i ka hapa nui o ka nui i loko, a me ke kaʻa ka wahine, no ka mea, ua kōkua ʻo ia i ka mālama ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i ka waihona kālā ʻohana.

Nā nīnau a me nā pane kaulana

Ua nīnau mākou i ka luna o ka Vlasov & Partners Bar Association ʻO Olga Vlasova e pane i nā nīnau like ʻole e ulu aʻe ma waena o nā kamaʻāina e pili ana i ka hopena o kahi ʻaelike male.

- He ʻokoʻa nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kahi ʻaelike male. Eia naʻe, i nā makahiki i hala iho nei, ua nui a nui nā nīnau mai nā mea kūʻai aku e pili ana i kēia kumuhana. He mea kūpono ke kuhikuhi ʻana i kekahi mau pilikia e hāʻawi i ka ʻike ākea o kēia palapala, kahi mea kikoʻī i ka s, wahi a ka loea.