Makaʻu kaʻu keiki i ka ʻino, pehea lā wau e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai iā ia?

Aneane hoʻonohonoho: i kēlā me kēia ʻino, makaʻu nā keiki. Pono e ʻōlelo ʻia he mea kupanaha ia: ʻo ka makani ikaika loa, ka ua, ka uila e ʻā ana i ka lewa, ka hekili e halulu ana, i kekahi manawa ʻo ka huahekili… 

1. E hoʻomaopopo i kona makaʻu, he mea maʻamau

ʻAʻole maʻalahi ka hōʻoluʻolu i kāu keiki, ʻoiai inā lōʻihi ka ʻino ... ʻike pinepine mākou i ka muli loa, i kēia mau hihia, e hoʻomaka i ka uē a me ka uē. ʻO kahi kūlana, e like me Léa Ifergan-Rey, psychologist ma Paris, hiki ke wehewehe ʻia e ka loli o ka lewa i hana ʻia e ka ʻino. "Hele mākou mai kahi mālie a i kahi leo nui ke kani ka hekili. gula ʻAʻole ʻike ke keiki i ke kumu o kēia haunaele, a he kumu ia o ka ehaeha nona, "wahi āna. Eia kekahi, me ka ʻino, pōʻeleʻele ka lani a hoʻokuʻu i ka lumi i loko o ka pouli i ke aumoe. A he mea kupanaha ka uila… Aia ma kahi ʻē ka makaʻu i ka ʻino kekahi o na mea maikai i hoomanaoia, makua.

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2. E hōʻoluʻolu i kāu keiki

Nui nā poʻe mākua, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou e ʻae, e hoʻomau i ka ʻike i kēia makaʻu i ka ʻino. ʻO ia, ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki ke maʻalahi i ke keiki. No laila, hiki i ka makua hopohopo ke ʻōlelo i kāna keiki mai makaʻu; akā, ʻo kāna mau hana a me kona leo e hoʻopunipuni iā ​​​​ia, a manaʻo ke keiki. I kēlā hihia, inā hiki, e hāʻawi i ka pahu i kekahi kanaka makua e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia

ʻO kekahi mea e pale aku ai: hoole i ka manao o ke keiki. Mai ʻōlelo ʻoe, “Auē! akā, ʻaʻohe mea, ʻaʻole makaʻu. ʻO ka mea ʻē aʻe, e noʻonoʻo a hoʻomaopopo i kona makaʻu, he mea maʻamau a kūlohelohe maoli i ke alo o kahi hanana e like me ka hekili. Inā pane ke keiki, holo i kona mau mākua a uē, he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia no ka mea e hana ana ʻo ia i waho i mea e makaʻu ai iā ia.

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Inā makaʻu kāu keiki i ka ʻino, e lawe iā ia i loko o kou mau lima a me nā ipu, e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia me kou maka aloha a me nā ʻōlelo ʻoluʻolu. E haʻi aku iā ia ua hoʻomaopopo ʻoe ua makaʻu ʻo ia, a aia ʻoe ma laila e kiaʻi iā ia, ʻaʻole ia e makaʻu pū me ʻoe. Ua palekana ma ka home: ua ua ma waho, ʻaʻole i loko. 

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3. E wehewehe i ka ino ia ia

Ma muli o ka makahiki o kāu keiki, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi iā ia i nā wehewehe paʻakikī e pili ana i ka ʻino: i kekahi hihia, a hiki i kahi pēpē, wehewehe he mea kūlohelohe ia, ka mea a makou i mana ole ai. ʻO ka ʻino ka māmā a me ka walaʻau, hiki mai a he mea maʻamau. E kōkua kēia i ka hoʻomaha ʻana i kona makaʻu. 

E noi i kāu keiki e haʻi i kāna mea e hopohopo nui ai: ka leo o ka hekili, ka uila, ka ua? hāʻawi iā ia nā pane maʻalahi a maopopo : ʻO ka ʻino he mea hōʻike meteorological i ka wā e hoʻokuʻu ai ka uila, i loko o nā ao nui i kapa ʻia he cumulonimbus. Ua huki ʻia kēia uila e ka honua a hui pū me ia, ʻo ia ka mea e wehewehe ai i ka uila. E haʻi pū aku i kāu keiki i kahiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ka mamao o ka ʻino : helu mākou i ka helu o nā kekona i hala ma waena o ka uila a me ka hekili, a hoʻonui mākou iā ia me 350 m (ka mamao i hele ʻia e ke kani i kekona). E hana kēia i kahi hoʻololi… ʻO ka wehewehe ʻepekema e hōʻoluʻolu mau, no ka mea, hoʻopololei i ka hanana a hiki ke kūpono. Nui nā puke e pili ana i ka hekili kūpono no nā makahiki āpau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻolana inā manaʻo ʻia ka hekili i nā lā e hiki mai ana!

Hōʻike: “Ua loaʻa iā mākou kahi hoʻopunipuni maikaʻi loa e kūʻē i ka makaʻu o Maxime i ka ʻino. »Camille, makuahine o Maxime, 6 makahiki

Makaʻu ʻo Maxime i ka ʻino, he mea kupanaha. I ka paʻipaʻi mua ʻana o ka hekili, ua hūnā ʻo ia i loko o ko mākou wahi moe a ua loaʻa iā ia ka weliweli maoli. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaha iā ia. A no ka mea, noho mākou ma ka hema o Farani, he mea maʻamau ke kauwela. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua hoʻomaopopo mākou i kēia makaʻu, kahi aʻu i ʻike ai he mea maʻamau, akā ʻoi loa kēia! Ua loaʻa iā mākou kekahi mea i kūleʻa: e hoʻolilo i manawa e noho pū ai. I kēia manawa, me kēlā me kēia ʻino, noho mākou ʻehā i mua o ka puka makani. Hoʻonohonoho mākou i nā noho e leʻaleʻa i ka hōʻike, inā ʻo ka manawa ʻaina ahiahi, ʻai mākou me ka nānā ʻana i nā éclairs. Ua wehewehe au iā Maxime e hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i kahi o ka ʻino, ma ke ana ʻana i ka manawa i hala ma waena o ka uila a me ka hekili. No laila ke helu pū nei mākou… ʻO ka pōkole, ua lilo kēlā me kēia ʻino i mea hoʻonani e ʻike ʻia ma ke ʻano he ʻohana! Ua hoopau loa ia i kona makau. ” 

4. Hoʻomaka mākou i ka pale

Hiki pinepine ka hekili i ka pō, ʻaʻole wale. I ka la, ina he hekili ma ka hele ana a ma ka huinahalike no ka la'ana, pono oe e wehewehe i kau keiki i na mea e malama ai: ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e noho ma lalo o ka lāʻau a i ʻole ka pylon, a i ʻole ma lalo o ka malu. ʻAʻole ma lalo o kahi hale metala a kokoke i kahi wai. E maʻalahi a paʻa, akā paʻa: pilikia ka uila. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e hana i kahi pale iki i ka wā mua. Ma ka home, e hōʻoluʻolu iā ia: ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻoweliweli i kekahi mea - e haʻi iā ia e pili ana i ka uila uila e pale iā ʻoe. ʻO kou hele lokomaikaʻi a me kou nānā ʻana e lawa ia e hoʻopau i kona makaʻu i ka ʻino.

ʻO Frédérique Payen lāua ʻo Dorothée Blancheton

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