Paʻakikī kaʻu keiki i kona liʻiliʻi

He aha e hana ai…

- Paipai iā ia e ʻimi i kahi hana e hoʻoikaika ai iā ia: basketball inā lōʻihi ʻo ia, hale keaka inā liʻiliʻi ʻo ia…;

-  e hoike mai i kona huhu a kaumaha paha. Ponoʻo ia e manaʻo e hoʻomaopopoʻia;

-  kōkua iā ia e ʻimi i nā pane naʻauao i nā noʻonoʻo, me ka hoihoi ole i ka poepoe i kekahi (" He ʻuʻuku au, he aha? "," Kiʻekiʻe au, ʻoiaʻiʻo, e like me nā kumu hoʻohālike kiʻekiʻe! ").

He aha kāu e hana ʻole ai…

- e hoemi i kona ehaeha. Hōʻalo i nā huaʻōlelo e like me "ʻAʻole ia he mea nui ...";

- hoonui i na kukakuka ana i ke kauka a i ʻole ka endocrinologist, e hoʻomaka ʻo ia e noʻonoʻo i kāna pilikia ulu e like me ka maʻi maoli!

ʻO ka liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, hiki ke mālama ʻia!

ʻO ka nui a i ʻole ka liʻiliʻi ʻaʻole ia he maʻi. No kekahi mau keiki, ʻaʻole pilikia ka ʻokoʻa nui. No laila ʻaʻole pono i nā manawa a pau ka hoʻomaka ʻana i kahi lāʻau lapaʻau, he lōʻihi pinepine a paʻa.

Ma nā kūlana ʻē aʻe, ʻo nā mākua a i ʻole ke kauka ke hopohopo nei i ke kiʻekiʻe o ke keiki e hiki ai i ke kanaka makua, a i ʻole ke keiki ponoʻī e hōʻike i ka maʻi maʻi ... a laila e manaʻo ʻia ka lāʻau lapaʻau, akā ʻaʻole pono e lawe māmā ʻia! Hoʻopili pinepine ʻia ka mālama ʻana me ka hahai psychological. "Pono mākou e mālama i nā liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi e like me nā kumu. No ka laʻana, inā nele ke keiki i nā hormones thyroid a i ʻole nā ​​hormone ulu, pono e hāʻawi ʻia. Inā loaʻa ʻo ia i kahi maʻi digestive, ʻo ia ke kaulike meaʻai pono e loaʻa iā ia… ”, wehewehe ʻo JC. ʻO Carel.

 

A i ka wā i nui ai lākou?

Hiki ke hāʻawi ʻia kekahi mau hormones i nā keiki, i nā hihia koʻikoʻi, ma kahi o ʻumikūmālua makahiki. Hoʻomaka lākou i ka wā ʻōpio (ka hoʻomaka ʻana o nā manawa a me ka ulu ʻana o ka umauma i nā kaikamahine ʻōpio, ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka ulu ʻana o ka lauoho, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe), a i ka manawa like, hoʻolohi i ka ulu. Akā, mai hauʻoli wikiwiki! "Ua haʻalele ʻia kēia mālama ʻana no ka mea he nui nā pilikia hoʻomanawanui, nā pilikia o ka phlebitis, nā pilikia o ka momona ʻaʻole i mālama maikaʻi ʻia. I kēia manawa, maikaʻi ʻole ka ratio pilikia / pōmaikaʻi, "e like me JC. ʻO Carel.

Nā pilikia ulu: kāu mau hōʻike

Caroline, makuahine o Maxime, 3 1/2 makahiki, 85 knm

“Ua holo mālie ka hoʻomaka ʻana o ka makahiki kula koe wale nō ka ʻokoʻa nui o ka nui me nā keiki ʻē aʻe! ʻO kekahi poʻe, me ka ʻole o nā kumu ulterior, kapa iā ia ʻo "kuʻu Maxime liʻiliʻi"… Ma laila, nani, akā ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui ma ka square, kapa iā ia "minus", "ʻakaʻaka" a pēlā aku. He mea maʻamau ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā ma ka ʻaoʻao o nā mākua. Ke hōʻike nui nei ʻo Maxime i kēia manawa i kona makemake e "ulu e like me ka makuakāne". Lawe au iā ia i ka psychologist i hoʻokahi manawa i kēlā me kēia ʻelua mahina. Hoʻomaka mākou e hoʻoponopono i ka ʻokoʻa. A hiki i kēia manawa, manaʻo wau ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe i loaʻa i ka maka a me ka noʻonoʻo ʻana o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ua haʻi ʻia iaʻu e uku ana ke keiki liʻiliʻi i kona liʻiliʻi ma o ka lawe ʻana i kahi ākea. ʻIke au iā ia ma Maxime: ʻike ʻo ia i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana iā ia iho a he ʻano he poʻo! “

Bettina, makuahine o Etienne, 6 makahiki, 1m33

“Ma ke kula, holo maikaʻi nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole ʻōlelo kona mau hoaaloha iā ia, akā, noi pinepine lākou iā ia i kahi lima kōkua e hopu i nā mea kiʻekiʻe loa. ʻAʻole ʻo Etienne i ʻōhumu. Makemake ʻo ia e halihali i kona kaikuaʻana ʻoi aku ka pōkole ma mua ona (1m29 no ʻewalu mau makahiki)! E kali kāua a hiki i ka wā ʻōpio… He wā paʻakikī kēia, naʻu iho nō i hoʻokau i ke kaumaha. ʻO wau ke kiʻekiʻe loa, akā manaʻo wau no ke keikikāne ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka noho ʻana. ” 

Isabelle, makuahine o Alexandre, 11 makahiki, 1m35

“Ua pilikia iki ʻo Alexander i kona kiʻekiʻe no ka mea ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka lilo ʻana i mea liʻiliʻi loa i ka papa. Kōkua ka pôpeku iā ia e ʻae maikaʻi ʻia… ʻAʻole ʻo ke kiʻekiʻe ke kuleana e kiʻi i nā pahu hopu! “

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