I kona wā liʻiliʻi, ʻoluʻolu loa ia me kāna quilts e puka mai ana mai ke kula. Malia paha ua kamaʻilio mua ʻo ia iā ʻoe e pili ana i kāna ipo a ʻakaʻaka ʻoe. Akā i kēia manawa ua hoʻololi ʻia kāu kaikamahine liʻiliʻi i kaikamahine ʻōpio, nāna i hōʻino i kou mau lole a me ke kaniʻuhū i kāu mau huaʻōlelo āpau, ua paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manawa o ke poʻo kāne. A e ʻae i ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "boyfriend" me ke kamaʻilio ʻole e pili ana, pehea e hana ai?

Ua ulu aʻe kāu kaikamahine liʻiliʻi. Ua lilo ʻo ia i ʻōpio nani, mākaukau e hoʻāʻo i kahi pilina aloha ma mua o 3 mau lā. ʻOiai inā ʻike maopopo nā mākua he kūpono maʻamau kēia hoʻolālā, nui o lākou e hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā lākou iho.

I hiki ai i ka pilina me kā lāua kaikamahine kaikamahine, e nīnau paha ka makua iā lākou iho he aha ka mea e hoʻopilikia nei iā lākou i kēia kūlana? Ma nā kolamu kūkā, ua hoʻi hou kēia kumuhana a ua haʻi nā mākua i kekahi mau kumu:

• manaʻo lākou ua kakahiaka loa no kā lākou kaikamahine;
• ʻaʻole maopopo iā lākou ke keiki kāne a me kona ʻohana;
• no lākou he mea haohao, ʻaʻole i kamaʻilio kā lāua kaikamahine iā lākou e pili ana i ia mea;
• he ʻokoʻa loa ka moʻomeheu, nā waiwai, ka haipule;
• ʻaʻole mahalo ʻo ia /
• ua hauʻoli ʻole kā lāua kaikamahine mai kona noho pū ʻana me ia.
• Ua loli kā lāua kaikamahine i kāna hana mai kēia pilina.

I nā hihia kahi e hoʻololi ai ka pilina i ke ʻano o kāna keiki a / a lilo ia i mea ʻino i kona olakino a me kāna mau aʻo ʻana, ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e ʻae i kēia ipo kāne, akā pono e hana i ka hōʻoia o ke kamaʻilio a inā hiki ke mālama i kā lākou kaikamahine mai kēia hoʻohuli maikaʻi ʻole nona.

Aia nā ʻōpio i ka wā ke kūkulu nei lākou i kā lākou moekolohe, ke hoʻomohala nei i ko lākou aloha, a ke aʻo nei pehea e hana ai me nā kaikamahine ʻōpio.

No kēia mea hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi ma:

• ke aʻo a me nā laʻana i hāʻawi ʻia e ko lākou mau ʻohana a me nā ʻohana;
• ka mana o kā lākou mau hoaaloha;
• nā palena a nā kaikamahine ʻōpio e kau ai ma luna o lākou;
• ka mana o ka pāpāho, kā lākou moʻomeheu a me ka nohona hoʻomana, etc.

Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei i kou ʻōpio ponoʻī, me nā kūleʻa, nā hemahema, nā manawa hilahila i kou wā i hōʻole ʻia ai ʻoe, nā manawa mua ... Kōkua kēia mau mea āpau i ka hana lokomaikaʻi a hāmama i kēia ʻōpio ka mea i komo i ke ola o kāu kaikamahine me ka noi ʻole ʻana i ka ʻae.

Hoʻomaka kāu kaikamahine ʻōpio e hoʻoholo i kāna mau hoʻoholo iā ia iho, e hoʻoholo i kāna koho ponoʻī, e like me nā mea o ke aloha. Lilo ka makua i makua makua no ke kākoʻo ʻana iā ia akā ʻaʻole no ke koho ʻana nona. A inā ʻehaʻeha hoʻi nā puʻuwai, mahalo pū kekahi i kēia hana a mākou iā mākou iho.

I ka manawa e pau ai ke kanikau no "ke aloha liʻiliʻi i kāna makuakāne, a i ʻole kona makuahine", hiki i ka makua ke hāʻawi i ka hoihoi, e ʻike ai i ka ipo aloha. ʻAʻole pono e nīnau i nā nīnau he nui, makemake pinepine nā ʻōpio e hūnā i kā lākou māla. Ke ʻike nei i kona mau makahiki, kahi e noho ai a me nā mea āna e hana ai no ke aʻo ʻana he ʻikepili mua ia e hiki ai ke hōʻoia i ka makua.

Inā paʻakikī ka kamaʻilio, hiki paha ke hālāwai me ke keikikāne. E hiki ke hoʻolilo i kekahi mau huaʻōlelo a / a i ʻole nānā i kāna ʻano.

Hiki i nā manawa he nui:

• kono iā ia no ka kofe ma ka home. ʻO ka ʻai ʻana i ke kakahiaka nui hiki ke lōʻihi a kūpono ʻole;
• hele i kekahi o kāna hanana haʻuki;
• e manaʻo e lawe kāu kaikamahine iā ia i kekahi o kāna mau lā, keu hoʻi inā ʻaʻole lawa ke ala o ka lawe ʻana, he manawa kūpono ia e ʻike ai i ka lawe ʻia ʻana o ke keiki kāne. Inā he motika kāna, no ka laʻana, hoihoi e ʻike inā holo kāna kaikamahine i ka hope a inā e komo i ka mahiole;
• manaʻo e hana pū i kahi hana, kahi pāʻani kinipōpō hīnaʻi, kiʻi ʻoniʻoni, a pēlā aku.

ʻAe kēia mau manawa āpau e aʻo hou aʻe e pili ana i ka mea i wae ʻia o kona puʻuwai a e pīhoihoi nui ʻia e ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, no ka laʻana, hoʻokani ka Apollo i ke kika e like me ʻoe, a i ʻole ke kinipōpō a i ʻole he pā o Paris Saint-Germain.

Kūleʻa pū kekahi i ke aloha o nā mākua me ka ipo kāne a kā lāua kaikamahine ... ʻae, inā pēlā. Aia ʻo ia i kēlā me kēia hopena pule, i kēlā me kēia hoʻolauleʻa ʻohana a pāʻani pū me ʻoe i ka tennis ma nā Lāpule āpau.

E akahele, i loko o kēia honua idyllic no nā mākua, ʻaʻole pono mākou e poina ʻo kēia keiki maikaʻi loa, ka mea āu i hoʻopaʻa ai, ʻo ia ka ipo kāne a kāu kaikamahine. I kona wā ʻōpio, he kuleana kona e pīpī, e hoʻololi i nā ipo, inā makemake ʻo ia.

Ma ke kālele nui ʻana i kēia moʻolelo, hiki i nā mākua ke kumu:

• ka manaʻo hopohopo ʻole no ka ʻōpio mākaukau ʻole e komo i kahi pilina makua;
• he manaʻo o ka manaʻo hou ʻole ma ka home. Ma laila pū nā mākua e mālama ai i ke koʻo āna i kūkulu ai nona iho a e ʻae iā ia e hoʻi i laila ke pono ʻo ia iā ia;
• kaomi mai ka poʻe a puni iā ​​ia e noho me kēia keikikāne nona wale nō kahi ʻanuʻu i loko o kona ola aloha a me kona ulu ʻana ma ke ʻano he wahine

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