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Māmā ʻōpio: e hoʻopau i nā clichés
ʻO ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi keiki ʻōpiopio ʻaʻole ia e lilo ʻoe i makuahine ʻino. ʻO kēia stereotype ka mea i laha loa i ka lehulehu i makemake ai ʻo Jendella Benson e hakakā me kāna papahana "Young Motherhood". Mai ka makahiki 2013, ua hana kēia mea paʻi kiʻi Pelekane i nā kiʻi nani o nā makuahine ʻōpio me kā lākou mau keiki. ʻO ka nui, he iwakāluakūmāhiku wahine i nīnauele ʻia, paʻi kiʻi ʻia a paʻi kiʻi ʻia ma UK. Ua hāpai ka hapa nui i ko lākou mau makahiki ʻōpio a i ʻole ka makahiki iwakālua.
ʻO ka hāpai mua ʻana: hakakā ʻana i nā manaʻo ʻino
Ua haʻi ka mea pena i ka Huffington Post ua hoʻoikaika ʻia ka papahana e kāna mau hoaaloha ponoʻī. "Ua ʻike au i ka ikaika o kā lākou hana ʻana e hānai i kā lākou mau keiki i ka wā e hoʻomau ana i kā lākou aʻo ʻana, he kūʻē pololei kēia me nā clichés āpau e pili ana i nā makuahine ʻōpio a mākou e lohe nei: nā poʻe kuleana ʻole, me ka makemake ʻole, e hana i nā keiki e loaʻa ke kōkua. Laha maoli keia mooolelo, a pili i na makuahine. Ma o kēia papahana, ua aʻo nui ka mea paʻi kiʻi e pili ana i nā ʻike o nā makuahine. "He nui nā kumu e hāpai ai ka wahine a hoʻoholo e mālama i kāna keiki, a ʻo ka hoʻoholo e lilo i makuahine i ka wā ʻōpio ʻaʻole ia he mea pōʻino. ʻO nā nīnauele a me nā kiʻi e hoʻokumu i ka maʻiʻo o kahi puke, aʻo ke kaʻina kiʻi ʻia e paʻi ʻia ma ke ʻano he nūhou ma ka pūnaewele o Jendella Benson. "Ke manaʻolana nei kēia moʻolelo a me ka puke i kumu waiwai nui no nā makuahine ʻōpio, a me ka poʻe e hana pū ana me lākou. “