Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e hoʻomākaukau ai no ka hōʻea ʻana o nā māhoe

He papa inoa hānau no ka mālama pono ʻana i ka hiki ʻana mai o nā māhoe

E noʻonoʻo e wehe i kahi papa inoa hānau i hiki i kou ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha ke kūʻai i kāu mea e pono ai. No laila e pale aku i na mea nui, a e kiʻi i kekahi mau mea pono i hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe, e like me nā noho deckchair, kahi paka nui, kahi stroller ... ʻO ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā diapers i uka he ala maikaʻi nō hoʻi e hoʻolaha i nā lilo no kekahi mau mahina ma mua o ka hoʻopau ʻana me ka nui o nā lilo i ka home.

E noʻonoʻo i nā pono

E nānā me kāu CAF. Hāʻawi kekahi mau hola mālama hale i ka wā hāpai a ma hope o ka hāpai ʻana. Akā, pili ia i nā keʻena. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kelepona i kāu kikowaena PMI. Hoʻouna kekahi i nā kahu hānai i kou home e kōkua a aʻo iā ʻoe ma hope o ka hānau ʻana o kāu mau keiki.

E noi i ka ʻohana

Manaʻoʻole e noi i kāu mau mea aloha i lima. Inā, he laʻana, he kuke kou makuahine, e noi iā ia e hoʻomākaukau i nā kīʻaha liʻiliʻi na ʻoe e maloʻo. No ka ho'āʻo a pakele me kāu hoa no ka ʻaina ahiahi, e noi i kekahi mau hoaaloha e hele mai e mālama i kāu pēpē. Ma ke ʻano he kāne, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ka mālama ʻana i kekahi mau keiki, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maʻa!

Hāʻawi ʻia nā meaʻai

ʻO nā ʻeke wai, nā diapers… ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa ka kauoha i na mea a pau ma ka punaewele a e hoʻouna i kou home. ʻO ka hapa nui o nā hale kūʻai kūʻai i kā lākou cybermarket ponoʻī, no laila e hao ʻia ʻoe no ke koho. ʻO kekahi koho: ka Multiples Central a i ʻole CDM. Mālama ʻia no nā mākua o nā māhoe, hāʻawi kēia kikowaena i nā lako mālama keiki, ka maʻemaʻe a me nā huahana meaʻai me nā uku hoʻemi… hoʻouna ʻia i ka home.

E mālama i kou kua

ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi ma mua o ka hana? I mea e luhi ʻole ai ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, mai haʻalele i ka papaʻaina hoʻololi. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku i nā ʻauʻau liʻiliʻi āu e kau ai ma luna o ka lole lole. E maʻalahi ka ʻauʻau. I ka wā e hānai ai i kāu mau keiki, e ho'āʻo e hōʻoluʻolu iā ʻoe iho a kākoʻo maikaʻi i kou kua.

Mea hoolimalima

Ma mua o kou hoʻolimalima ʻana i nā mea āpau, e noʻonoʻo inā pono maoli ia. ʻOiaʻiʻo i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kūʻai ʻana ma mua o ka hoʻolimalima. ʻO kēia ka hihia me ka moena, kahi āu e pono ai no ka manawa lōʻihi. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i nā mahina mua he mea maikaʻi ia, akā naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolaha i nā lilo. Aia iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka mea e pono ai ʻoe.

E kali no nā ʻōmole pēpē

No ka hānai ʻana i ka waiu, e ʻike i ka hoʻomaka ʻana, lawe kēlā me kēia pēpē ma kahi o 8 mau hue i ka lā. ʻO ia hoʻi pono ʻoe e hoʻomākaukau i 16 ! ʻO kahi hoʻopunipuni hoʻopakele manawa: e hoʻokomo i ka wai i loko o nā ʻōmole, mālama iā lākou i loko o ka friji a hoʻomākaukau i ka waiū pauka i loko o nā pahu. Ma kēia ala, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e helu i nā puna. Maikaʻi, i ke aumoe! Mai hōʻoluʻolu i ka wela i nā ʻōmole inā ʻaʻohe pilikia o kāu pēpē i ka hele ʻana: maikaʻi ka ʻōmole ma ka lumi wela.

E mālama i kahi puke e kākau i nā mea a pau

Na wai i ʻai i ka mea, pehea ka nui, i ka wā hea. E like me ka maternity, e hoʻolālā i kahi puke e ʻike ai ʻoe i ka manawa a kēlā me kēia pēpē i lawe ai i kāna ʻōmole a i ʻole ka umauma, ka nui o ka inu ʻana, inā ua mimi ʻo ia, inā ua ʻeha ʻo ia, inā ua ʻeha ʻo ia. lawe ʻia ka lāʻau lapaʻau… E hōʻike kēia iā ʻoe i ke keiki i hana i ka mea, a he mea maikaʻi loa ia inā kānalua a nalowale ka hoʻomanaʻo koke ʻana, ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau e like me nā mākua o nā māhoe! Akā, e maʻalahi hoʻi ia i ka lawe ʻana e ka makuakāne a i ʻole kekahi mea kokoke iā ia. Pēlā nō, inā ʻaʻole lawe nā pēpē i ka waiū like, e hoʻohana i nā ʻōmole kala like ʻole no kēlā me kēia a i ʻole e kau i ko lākou mau hua mua ma ka pāpale.

Kaʻina koina

ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono ʻoe i nā mea ʻelua. Akā no ka laʻana, inā ʻaʻole liʻiliʻi loa kāu pēpē, mai kūʻai i nā lole hānau hou, e lawe i 1 mahina. A laila, e noʻonoʻo hale kūʻai aka i na manawa o kuai, mahalo e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hoʻopiha i ko lākou ʻaʻahu ma kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa.

E hui i kahi hui

ʻAʻole pono ʻoe. Eia naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ka ʻike he nui a ʻoiaʻiʻo hoʻi e hoʻololi me nā mākua ʻē aʻe o nā māhoe. No ka papa inoa o nā hui ʻoihana, e kipa i ka pūnaewele o ka Nā Māhoe Hui Pū ʻIa a me nā mea hou aku.

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